In the men's team final of the 2016 Rio Olympic Games, after Japan's shuigu Falcon defeated Xu Xin, he roared at Liu Guoliang and Malone, slapped and waved his fist, which was extremely arrogant. At that time, Liu Guoliang, the head coach of the National Table Tennis Federation, was extremely calm. Then he gave a kill order to Zhang Jike, Ma Long and fan Zhendong behind him&mdash— Don't let them live, beat him completely! Let him know that there is a price to pay for not respecting his opponent&mdash— In the end, the Chinese team easily won the championship with 3-1, and gave the Japanese table tennis elder brother a vivid lesson
2016年里约奥运会男团决赛中，日本水谷隼爆冷赢了许昕后，对着刘国梁和马龙怒吼摔拍挥拳耀威，嚣张至极。当时国乒总教头刘国梁异常镇定，随后他对身后的张继科、马龙、樊振东下了必杀令——别让他们活，彻底把他打怕！让他知道，不尊重对手是要付出代价的——最终，中国队以3：1轻松夺冠，痛快打脸这位日本乒坛一哥，为其上了生动的一课。
“ Do not do to others what you do not want” Everyone should feel self-esteem through the respect of others, and respecting others is respecting themselves“ Everyone is kind to his group”, Private morality can be expanded into public morality. If you only fulfill your own wishes, you will undoubtedly emphasize yourself and ignore others, emphasize individuals and ignore society
“己所不欲，勿施于人。”每个人都要通过他人的尊重来感受自尊，而尊重他人就是尊重自己。“人人相善其群”，私德才能拓展为公德。如果遇事只逞一己之愿，无疑是强调自己而忽略他人，强调个人而忽略社会。
in the past, Liu Xuande, the emperor's uncle, paid close attention to Zhuge and surprised the world. Zhuge Liang made great contributions to the rejuvenation of the Han Dynasty and gained“ Work hard and die” A reputation for loyalty. In the Northern Song Dynasty, the Taoist temple children in Moganshan were entertained several times“ Please sit down, please take a seat, tea on tea, fragrant tea” The snobbery and contempt of led to the ridicule and resentment of the famous Hangzhou Tongzhi Su Xuetu, leaving behind the eternal shame of Taoist children's ignorance of body
昔日皇叔刘玄德三顾茅庐请诸葛，隆中对策惊天下。诸葛亮则因这份真诚和尊重而为兴复汉室建立了赫赫功勋，收获了“鞠躬尽瘁、死而后已”的忠诚美誉。而北宋莫干山的道观小童，应酬待客时几番“坐请坐请上座，茶上茶敬香茶”的势利轻慢，招致的是大名鼎鼎的杭州通判苏学土的嘲讽回怼，留下的是道观童儿不识体的千古羞愧。
Chongqing Wanzhou bus fell into the river. The tragedy was that a female passenger grabbed the steering wheel after a dispute with the driver, resulting in the vehicle falling into the river out of control. Such a selfish and hateful person who does not know how to respect others is not uncommon in our life. The stewardess of the high-speed railway were scolded and cried by the passengers while checking in, and the stewardess of China Southern Airlines were splashed with hot water and pulled their hair by the passengers&hellip… Similar conflicts are sometimes staged. Although the passengers are tired and understandably in a bad mood, they complain endlessly and dictate to the flight attendants, as if they should enjoy the exclusive service after spending money on their own tickets
重庆万州公交车坠江，悲剧的祸端竟是一位女乘客与司机发生争执后抢夺方向盘，导致车辆失控坠江。如此这般不懂得尊重他人、自私又可恶的人，在我们的生活中并不少见。高铁女乘务员检票时被乘客骂哭，南航空姐被乘客连泼热水、拉扯头发……类似冲突，时或上演。尽管乘客旅途劳顿，心情不佳可以理解，但喋喋不休地抱怨，对空乘颐指气使，仿佛自己花钱买了机票，就该享受唯我独尊的服务。
flattery is not respect; Selfishness is not respect. Please don't forget: the purpose of passengers is to arrive at their destination smoothly. Respect the work of the drivers and passengers, and give understanding and support, which is not only convenient for others, but also convenient for yourself. For those who eat in the subway, swim naked on the beach and spill in the hospital, please don't forget that civilization is the restraint of their own inflated desires and respect for the basic rights of others
阿谀奉承，不是尊重；自私自利，也不是尊重。请千万别忘记：旅客出行，顺利到达作文目的地才是目的。尊重司乘人员的工作，并给予理解和支持，这不仅方便了他人，更方便了自己。那些在地铁吃东西、在海滩裸泳、在医院撒泼的人，请千万别忘记：文明就是对自身膨胀欲望的克制和对他人基本权利的尊重。
respect is not only about personal morality, but also about the meaning of nation or culture. Respecting other nations means respecting one's own nation. Respecting other people's national customs and religious beliefs should be its due meaning. Unfortunately, suicide bombings occurred in many places in Sri Lanka on Christian Easter on April 21, killing and wounding more than 700 people that day. It is said that the attackers were in retaliation for the massacre of two mosques in New Zealand on March 15. In that incident, white extremist Christian tarante committed a crime alone, killing and wounding 100 Muslim civilians. This is a so-called“ Blood for teeth; Revenge is also a typical“ Fundamentalism” The return of the terrorist offensive. The bloodbath of terrorism has triggered global panic and outrage for a time, but the bloody conflict caused by the exclusion of national beliefs has a long history
尊重不止关乎个人道德，亦关乎民族或文化之义。尊重其他民族就是尊重自己的民族，尊重他人的民族习俗和宗教信仰本该是应有之义。然而，遗憾的是，4月21日基督教复活节，斯里兰卡多处相继发生自杀式爆炸袭击，当天就造成七百多人死伤。据说，袭击者是为了报复3月15日发生在新西兰两大清真寺的屠杀事件。那起事件中，白人极端基督徒塔兰特独狼作案，死伤百人穆斯林平民。这是一场所谓的“以牙还牙、以血还血”的报复，也是一次典型的“基地主义”式恐怖攻势的回归。恐怖主义的血雨腥风，一时间引发全球恐慌和凛然公愤，但因民族信仰的排异而引发的流血冲突，却由来已久。
The loss of life is sad, while the lack of mutual respect, contempt and even hostility of human groups are in urgent need of solution. Yu Dafu said in the "meeting in memory of Lu Xun":“ A nation without heroes is a sad slave state, and a nation with heroes and no respect is an incurable group of creatures” If national customs and religious beliefs do not belong to the other, they must come from this; Those who enter are masters and those who leave are slaves; If those who enter attach to it and those who leave pollute it, then the disaster to mankind will not be a natural disaster, but a man-made disaster
生命的消逝令人悲痛，而人类族群彼此尊重的匮乏、蔑视甚至敌视的泛滥，却急需求解。郁达夫在《纪念鲁迅大会上》说：“一个没有英雄的民族是可悲的奴隶之邦，一个有英雄而不知尊重的民族则是不可救药的生物之群。”如若民族习俗，宗教信仰，不入于彼，则必出于此；入者主之，出者奴之；入者附之，出者污之，那么祸害人类的终不会是天灾，其必定是人祸。
“ Respect is a fair deal between people” Tagore's words enlighten us that respect should become an indispensable cultivation of a person and even a nation's culture. Even if waving your fist is your freedom, it should stop at the tip of my nose. In this world, I would like to respect and understand, and exchange my heart for my heart
“尊重，是人与人之间的公平交易。”泰戈尔的话启示我们，尊重应该成为一个人乃至一个民族一种文化不可或缺的修养，即便挥舞拳头是你的自由，那也应止于我的鼻尖。在这世间，愿尊重而理解，以心换得心。(文/黄壕钿)