‘ encountering does not have final result certainly, but certain significant, good-bye is easy, good-bye is very difficult however, wish all happiness as agreed upon and to ’
‘相遇不一定有结局，但一定有意义，再见容易，再见却很难，愿所有美好如约而至’
—— preface
——题记
‘ hits me to memory rises, mom is the appearance of a middleaged woman, so I always forget, mom also once was a beautiful season girl. The motion picture that this word gives ’ to be directed by Gu Ling oneself " hello, li Huanying " among them story is according to Gu Ling oneself is written, why so much person is touched weep? That is lay a finger on the to the mother love of their bottom of the heart and ashamed remorse.
‘打我有记忆起，妈妈就是个中年妇女的样子，所以我总忘记，妈妈曾经也是个花季少女。’这句话出自由贾玲导演的电影《你好，李焕英》其中的故事是根据贾玲自身编写，为什么有那么多的人感动落泪呢？那就是触碰他们心底的对母亲的爱与愧疚。
My the wording and purpose of what one writes has had a lot of people, arrive greatly hero of guest of bookman Chinese ink, hero, small to the close friends, person beside. But seem, I never had written her — seriously my mother
我笔下有过很多人，大到文人墨客、英雄豪杰，小到亲朋好友、身边之人。但好像，我从来没有认认真真写过她—我的母亲
As the daughter, I have ashamed at the heart really. Each issue that concerns with her appears ordinary and common, seem undeserved I expend idea, spent writing to go grandiose one concerns the article at her; Perhaps say, no matter I am used how euphuism, on her body, appear so pale. Be said to there is a book that does not write forever on “ world like Xiao Fuxing, that is a mother. I use ” classics year thick Chinese ink writes down these two words gently, after that it fine to nibble is broken, excessive is immediately full in the mouth tender.
作为女儿，我的确于心有愧。与她有关的每一件事都显得平凡而普通，好像不值得我费尽心思、用尽笔墨去铺张一篇有关于她的文章；或者说，无论我用上多么华丽的词藻，在她身上，都显得那么苍白无力。就如肖复兴所说“世上有一部永远都写不完的书，那便是母亲。”我用经年的浓墨轻轻写下这两个字，而后把它细细嚼碎，口中顿时溢满温柔。
My Mom grows very youngly actually, we go twice, see a back can think we are good sisters only, at that time in one's childhood I, want her to be being gotten on foot, need to be being held in the arms even occasionally, up-to-date, I discover so I had compared her taller, although classics regular meeting speaks she I am her elder sister, but tell the truth, still be pretty feel sad, we resemble is a friend, have the thing with interesting what I can say with her, say my friend with her, tell a bit that is in the school, she also won't impatient; The image that I can like me, she also won't say me, this is the alleged and true friend in people mouth probably!
我妈其实长得很年轻，我们两个走到一起，只看背影都会以为我们是好姐妹，当时小时候的我，走路要她领着，有时候甚至需要抱着，直到现在，我发现原来我已经比她高了一头，虽然经常会调侃她我是她姐姐，但是说实话，还是蛮心酸的，我们像是朋友，有什么有趣的事我都会和她说，和她说我的朋友，讲在学校的点滴，她也不会不耐烦；我会将我喜欢的偶像，她也不会说我，这大概就是人们口中所谓真正的朋友吧！
Memory rises in one's childhood, in my impression, I and the its memory that often produce between Mom are not much, say to also be ashamed, that thing makes me have a place hard open one's mouth, think now in those days oneself are really innocent and babyish, I what await in those days am reading elementary school 3 grade, because be unable to bear or endure small sell a shop curious dot and snacks alluring and a person of extraordinary powers on the body does not have a single cent or penny at that time, but there is pig of a big gold to put cash pot in the home, I took a few coin with respect to on the sly, for the first time and full marks / was not discovered, then I began the operation 2 times, took a few again, this as it happens was bumped into by my Mom be full of, very awkward, air is caky, can expect, my Mom my right on the face said, have sincere words and earnest wishes tell a truth with me, be an upright person must clean, that later, although see the fund on the table, also won't be taken.
回忆起小时候，在我的印象里，我与老妈之间发生的事情记忆并不多，说来也惭愧，那件事情都令我有点难以启齿，现在想起来那时的自己真天真幼稚，那时候的我应该在读小学三年级，由于禁不住小卖铺稀奇小东西和零食的诱惑而且当时身上豪无分文，但家里有一个大金猪存钱罐，我就偷偷地拿了几个硬币，第一次并满分/没有被发现，于是我开始了二次行动，又拿了几个，这次正好被我妈撞了个满怀，很尴尬，空气都凝固了，能料到，我妈把我劈头盖脸的说了一顿，有语重心长的跟我讲道理，做人一定要干干净净的，那次以后，即使看到桌子上的钱，也不会去拿了。
The kids style of work at that time also is the ’ of ‘ black history that makes me awkward, but what have old Mom fortunately is seasonable check, I just can arrive such now integrity!
当时的小孩子作风也是让我尴尬的‘黑历史’，但还好有老妈的及时制止，我才会到现在都如此正直！
To adolescence we, it is an age that makes a person be anxious very much, include myself very anxious, like Li Huanying place of medium an actor's lines says ‘ serves as your daughter, make you glad although not be,did not accomplish ’ repeatedly also did not make old Mom happy, but when also making her happy without a few, want recently a few months, old Mom seems to be done not have really happy over- , because return,take an examination of, so old Mom pays close attention to my achievement all the more, but in take an exam last time, a lot of more degenerative, but every mom is mouth of knives of Li Huanying ‘ , although ’ of bean curd heart said me, but after saying still the settlement with my sincere words and earnest wishes problem, discover the prime cause that the problem is in, can encourage me taking an examination of well the next time, buy time goes raising his, when I have, meeting and old Mom quarrel greatly one, but later feel, this can not solve any problems, my every time of stubborn do not have li head, after so every time makes a noise, I am met very ashamed remorses.
对于青春期的我们，是一个非常令人发愁的年龄，包括我自己都很愁，像李焕英中的一句台词所说‘作为你的女儿，连让你高兴一次都没做到’虽然不是一次也没让老妈开心，但是也没有几次让她开心的时候，想想最近几个月，老妈好像真没开心过，因为还有几个月就要中考，所以老妈格外关注我的成绩，但在上一次考试，退步了很多，但每个妈妈都是李焕英‘刀子嘴，豆腐心’虽然把我说了一顿，但是说完之后仍然与我语重心长的解决问题，发现问题所在的根本原因，会鼓励我在下一次好好考，争取时间去提高自己，我有的时候会和老妈大吵一架，但之后觉得，这并不能解决任何问题，我每一次犟的都无厘头，所以每一次吵完之后我都会很愧疚。
Be in occasionally, old Mom can make a few lovely motions suddenly, I begin to be able to stay, but had answered a god to just can feel slowly, its also are staying in dream of a girl in her heart really, also can like to dress up when she is small perhaps, like high-heeled shoes, like the castle, but rise from a day that when become a mother, she also grows from a girl became virtuous wife fine mother, original years is not the thief of youth of spirit away old Mom, I just am.
在有时候，老妈会突然做一些可爱的动作，我开始会呆住，但慢慢回过神来才会觉得，其实在她的心中也住着一个少女梦，她也许小的的时候也会喜欢打扮，喜欢高跟鞋，喜欢城堡，但是从成为母亲的那一天起，她也从一个少女成长成为了一个贤妻良母，原来岁月不是偷走老妈青春的小偷，我才是。
The daughter that I did not come to ‘ , it is good to want her health pleasure only ’ , each mothers are great, although sometimes their word lets us understand hard, but the valuable experience that was brought up to just can discover that is she sends you only, also be that one unique slabstone in your life.
‘我未来的女儿啊，只要她健康快乐就好了’，每一位母亲都是伟大的，即使有时她们的话难以让我们去理解，但是只有长大了才会发现那是她送给你的宝贵经验，也是你人生中那一块独一无二的铺路石。
‘ Mom, how do you love to laugh so? ’
‘妈，你怎么那么爱笑啊？’
‘ gave birth to you because of Mom! ’
‘因为妈生了你啊！’(文/郭慕含)