Enjoy talk secret alone
独享交谈的秘密
In our life, chatting is indispensable. It can let we and other communicate, the demand that communicates information, him expression is waited a moment. But, if do not know how reasonable chat with other, may cause contradiction, arouse conflict.
在我们的生活中，交谈是必不可少的。它可以让我们和他人沟通、传达信息、表达自己的需求等等。但，如果不知道如何合理和他人交谈，便可能会引发矛盾、激起冲突。
The dusk that a the setting sun falls gradually, I and domestic person have a meal in dining-room. Before our seat two desks are sitting a middleaged man. His constitution is giant, strong, a person took two places. At this moment, a clerk that is carrying two cups of beverage has gone beside him. Because carefe does not have cap, so she goes up not carefully to aspersed a bit beverage and did not notice in leg of that middleaged man.
一个夕阳渐落的傍晚，我和家人在餐厅吃饭。在我们的座位前两桌坐着一位中年男子。他体格庞大，身强力壮，一个人占了两个位置。这时，一位端着两杯饮料的服务员从他身边走过。由于饮料瓶是没有盖子的，所以她不小心在那位中年男子腿上洒了一点饮料并没有注意到。
Middleaged man sees the clerk aspersed beverage to still do not have an apology, stand up angrily, cross arrived on the side of the clerk, complexion is aglow: "You what attitude of attending to guests is this? Aspersed beverage still do not apologize? ! " his sound is like thunder greatly. Cat-and-dog dining-room instantly is originally quiet come down, everybody's look gathers to their body. "What do you say excuse me, gentleman? " clerk water of a mist. "Do you sprinkle water to my body don't you still know? ! " middleaged man blue veins is cruel case, condemned a bad language. The clerk is mixed because of insecurity fear incoherent, risk cold sweat continuously. Clients also control perspires, some pays hurriedly even.
中年男子见服务员洒了饮料还没道歉，便愤怒地站起来，一跨便到了服务员的旁边，面色通红：“你这是什么服务态度？把饮料洒了还不道歉？！”他声大如雷。本来吵吵闹闹的餐厅顷刻安静了下来，大家的目光都聚集到了他们身上。“请问您说什么，先生？”服务员一头雾水。“你把水洒到了我身上你还不知道？！”中年男子青筋暴起，并骂了句脏话。服务员因紧张和害怕语无伦次，直冒冷汗。顾客们也手心出汗，有的甚至匆匆付钱走了。
refuse to budge is worn, inn boss hears sound to come out, after understanding a situation, go to middleaged man in front of. His bodily form is lesser, height compares a clerk only 9 centimeters tall, formed bright contrast with middleaged man. Everybody was worried for him. See he is smiling to say only: "Gentleman, hello, the inn that I am this inn is long. Feel embarrassed, our clerk asperses beverage not carefully on your body, the clothes you is dirty, very feel sorry! My inn brought bad experience to you, after us also will more notice this on one hand service! " the station is in aside the clerk also says ceaselessly " I am sorry " , take out a clean dishcloth to help middleaged man wipe his trousers. "Irrespective, it is good to notice next time. " after middleaged man heard their word, expression changes alleviated, spirit pass the time in a leisurely way largely.
正僵持着，店老板闻声出来，了解了情况后，走到中年男子跟前。他体型较小，身高只比服务员高一两厘米，与中年男子形成了鲜明对比。大家都为他捏了一把汗。只见他微笑着说：“先生，你好，我是本店的店长。不好意思，我们的服务员不小心将饮料洒在了您身上，把您的衣服弄脏了，非常抱歉！我店给您带来了不好的体验，我们以后也将更注意这一方面的服务！”站在一旁服务员也不断地说“对不起”，并拿出一块干净的抹布帮中年男子擦拭他的裤子。“没关系，下次注意就好。”中年男子听了他们的话后，神情变缓和了，气消了大半。
This dining-room conflict lets the crux that I understood to reasonable, harmony chats, namely the secret that I enjoy alone: Smile, courteous, sober.
这次餐厅冲突让我明白了合理、和谐交谈的关键，也就是我独享的秘密：微笑、礼貌、冷静。