[my conquer oneself]
【我战胜了自己】
Chen Yuyi of aviation grade elementary school
航空路小学陈宇羿
Gorky has said: The victory with the greatest “ is him conquer. ” is! A person always grows in the process in ceaseless him conquer those who rise, need victory sometimes lazy; Need victory sometimes commonplace; Need victory sometimes careless. They are like an only ferocious obstacle, ko them only, ability gains a success.
高尔基说过：“最伟大的胜利就是战胜自己。”是啊！一个人总是在不断战胜自己的过程中成长起来的，有时需要战胜懒惰；有时需要战胜平庸；有时需要战胜马虎。它们如一只只恶狠狠的拦路虎，只有把它们打倒，才能取得成功。
I as a child recreant, encountering a thing is to be able to hide, can procrastinate. , produced however I did not escape the trouble that go. In those days, I am in period of grow permanent teeth. One day, I have a front tooth to shake particularly badly, had a meal to also become an issue repeatedly finally, ground of father try every means helps me unplug this front tooth, but in the moment of truth I shrank back, mom says: “ this front tooth must unplug, cannot procrastinate again! ”
我从小就胆小，遇到事情是能躲就躲，能拖就拖。八岁那年，却发生了一件我没躲过去的事。那时，我正处于换牙时期。有一天，我有一颗门牙晃得特别厉害，最后连吃饭也成了问题，爸爸想方设法地帮我拔掉这颗门牙，但在关键时刻我都退缩了，妈妈说：“这颗门牙不得不拔，不能再拖了！”
After two days, mom takes me to go to a hospital, on the road that goes to a hospital, I pray secretly in the heart: Again a bit slower, a bit slower, best itself fell down, need not go to a hospital, but still reached a hospital finally.
两天后，妈妈带我去医院，去医院的路上，我在心里暗暗祈祷：慢一点、再慢一点，最好它自己就掉下来了，不用去医院，可是最后还是到了医院。
Reached a hospital, I am taken to go after mom registration of 2 buildings unplug the tooth is in, arrive stair, my leg resembles fill lead is same, one pace also went to be not moved, mom saw my idea it seems that, light tone delicate language: “ does not have a thing, the child, unplug tooth a bit does not ache, a little while good. I and mom got on ” building, in my heart particularly confused, wear like same only diabolical tear at my heart, emerge again in my heart that little boy that gave to a moment ago left a floor, foam of full mouth blood, quite fearsome. Of course, not be mom unplugs tooth, how to know not to ache? To me, the doctor points to seat, signal lets me sit down. Then, he opened spotlight, first anaesthetic infuse in my tooth flesh, take out the forceps that hooks frozen belt next, finally suddenly clip that ill tooth, I one breathless, ah? How had still done not have, I am a little urgent. “ went, can go. A redundant word also does not have Doctor ” , so fast, I dare believe scarcely, before going, my shoot a glance at that taking hematic silk front tooth in a dish, in the heart 10 thousand relaxed. Unplugged tooth, I am much more relaxed, have a meal much smoother also.
到了医院，妈妈挂号后带我去二楼的拔牙处，一到楼梯，我的腿就像灌了铅一样，一步也走不动了，妈妈似乎看出了我的心思，轻声细语道：“没事，孩子，拔牙一点儿都不疼，一会儿就好了。”我和妈妈上了楼，我心里特别慌，如同一只恶魔撕扯着我的心，我心里又浮现出了刚才下楼的那个小朋友，满嘴血沫子，怪吓人。当然了，又不是妈妈拔牙，怎么知道疼不疼呢？到我了，医生指了指座椅，示意让我坐下。接着，他打开了聚光灯，先把麻药注入我的牙肉里，然后拿出一把冰冷的带钩的钳子，最后猛地一下夹住那颗病牙，我一屏气，呀？怎么还没好，我有些急了。“行了，可以走了。”医生一句多余的话也没有，这么快，我简直不敢相信，走前，我瞥了一眼盘子里那颗带着血丝的门牙，心里一万个清爽。拔了牙，我轻松多了，吃饭也顺畅多了。
Actually, there is an enemy in our life, that is oneself, have him conquer only, ability problem be readily solved. Unplug like that tooth, if I was abandoning, may sequential meeting is more serious, other teeth can be affected, ill tooth can change much …… but I still went to a hospital finally, and unplug dropped ill tooth, oneself are much more comfortable also. So we should dare to challenge our, him conquer cowardly psychology.
其实，我们的生活中有一个敌人，那就是自己，只有战胜自己，才能把问题迎刃而解。就像那次拔牙，如果我在去医院的路上就放弃了，可能后果会更严重，其他的牙会被感染，病牙会变更多……但最后我还是去到了医院，并且拔掉了病牙，自己也舒服多了。所以我们要敢于去挑战自己，战胜自己的胆怯心理。
Morning of Shenyang of contest alley elementary school exceeds
大赛巷小学沈晨超
Gorky has said: The victory with the greatest “ is him conquer. ” is! Everybody can have greatly little weakness on the body, crying conquer after these defect, also can laugh to say these things to others to listen, that paragraph of experience also may be him most be reluctant to leave!
高尔基说过：“最伟大的胜利就是战胜自己。”是啊！每个人身上都会有大大小小的缺点，在哭着战胜这些缺点之后，也会笑着把这些事讲给别人听，那段经历也可能会是自己最留恋的呢！
Respecting defect, I most a bit what Mom letting father headaches, be afraid of namely black. When on me 4 grade, mom still does not have abdication to devote into in fuel, should go once Yichang attends an important meeting. Be about to set out 7:30 in the morning, come back till late night ability. Hear this news, I am so anxious that I scratch my head continuously, irritated straight stamp. Knock the sound of clavier without adjoining father, urge the sound that I black out without mom, am I sleeping how possibly? In case how does the sound with have strange do? In case how does there is sth fishy do? Think of these, I fear even more. Finally, I took a string of onion of the cross of exorcise evil spirits and kitchen from the bookshelf, tibet is below the pillow, install to let him heart a bit.
说到缺点，我最让爸妈头疼的一点，就是怕黑。在我上四年级时，妈妈还没辞职投身于柴米油盐中，有一次要去宜昌参加一场重要的会议。早晨七点半就要出发，直到深夜才能回来。一听这消息，我着急得直挠头，烦得直跺脚。没有隔壁爸爸敲键盘的声音，没有妈妈催我关灯的声音，我怎么可能睡得着呢？万一有奇怪的声音怎么办？万一有鬼怎么办？想到这些，我越发害怕。最后，我从书架上拿了辟邪的十字架和厨房的一串洋葱，藏在枕头底下，让自己心安一点。
In the evening, I pulled a curtain, involved the lamp, cover the head in the quilt, whole person with a rustle quivers, there is cross closely in the hand, there is onion on the neck. Below noiseless environment, I was asleep.
晚上，我拉上了窗帘，关了灯，把头蒙在被子里，整个人瑟瑟发抖，手里紧紧攥着十字架，脖子上挂着洋葱。在寂静的环境下，我睡着了。
Had done not have a little while, I should get out of bed on toilet. Just went in corridor, abrupt discovery appeared by the window a “ person ” that wears white dress! I shrank the body to go back at a draught, the hand that holding cross is already oozy cold sweat. I stealthily smell head, silent observation ” of that “ person, ” of that “ person was moved unexpectedly! I run back to a bedroom awkwardly immediately, wanting to go the method of the toilet.
没过一会儿，我要下床上厕所。刚走到走廊里，突然发现窗户旁出现了一个穿白衣服的“人”！我一下子把身子缩了回去，握着十字架的手早已渗出冷汗。我悄悄探出头，静静观察那个“人”，那“人”居然动了一下！我马上狼狈地跑回卧室，想着去厕所的方法。
Slowly, seemed to give birth to a sinister in appearance devil in my heart. He says to me: The toilet on “ and life which important, do you still want to be stupid? ” listens this word, I closed the door of with the door left unlocked again, crouch oneself into lid of a ball to be in the quilt. Passed a little while, fast hold back did not live, also should know who ” of that “ person is after all at least to death namely! Then I opened the door to rush out, strong when arriving in the sitting room, a cool wind comes over, ” of that “ person seemed to notice me, begin acutely to shake! I fling caution to the winds the lamp that the ground turned on sitting room and toilet. From the toilet comes out, before I return bosom of park of both hands put the palms together, keep thinking: Father Is am sorry, I ought not to alter your document; Mom Is am sorry, I ought not to be forged on examination paper sign; The little brother Is am sorry, I ought not to do the snacks …… that I ought not to eat you of these deficient worry. I hearten finally, open open one's eyes, come to light, alas! So ” of that “ person is a curtain! Abrupt, the lamp destroyed, power cut, “ person ” was moved again, “ ah the frightening cry sound with deafening ……” is given out from inside my mouth immediately.
慢慢地，我的心中好像生出了一个面目狰狞的恶魔。他对我说：“上厕所和命哪个重要，你还想犯傻啊？”一听这话，我又把虚掩的门关上了，把自己蜷缩成一个球盖在被子里。过了一会儿，快憋不住了，就是死也至少要知道那“人”到底是谁啊！于是我打开门冲了出去，冲到客厅里时，一阵凉风袭来，那“人”好像注意到了我，开始剧烈地抖动！我不顾一切地打开了客厅和厕所的灯。从厕所出来时，我还双手合十置于胸前，不停地想着：爸爸对不起，我不该改你的文件；妈妈对不起，我不该在试卷上伪造签字；弟弟对不起，我不该吃你的零食……我不该做这些亏心事的。最后我鼓起勇气，睁开眼，真相大白，唉！原来那个“人”是窗帘啊！突然，灯灭了，停电了，“人”又动了一下，“啊……”震耳欲聋的惨叫声立刻从我的口中发出。
I hide at the back of sofa, shakily strung curtain. I moved a chair again, station above the lid that opened gate, it is tripping operation so ah! I opened total floodgate, domestic Li Youming shined.
我躲在沙发后面，颤抖着系上了窗帘。我又搬了只椅子，站在上面打开了闸门的盖子，原来是跳闸了啊！我打开了总闸，家里又明亮了起来。
Original, those “ ghost ” are the phonism of people, psychedelic nevertheless, the part that still has a few imaginations inside, ghost is not terrible, terrible is that devil in him heart. Before the position is being held in taking the advantage of it to still do not have the heart in you, yourself should eliminate it first, ability moves toward a success, further upward.
原来，那些“鬼”不过是人们的幻听、幻觉，还有一些想象的成分在内，鬼并不可怕，可怕的是自己心中的那个恶魔。趁它还没在你的心中占据地位前，你自己要先消灭它，才能走向成功，更上一层楼。
Difficulty is bedspring, you are weak it is strong. Experience this not only yield my victory oneself, still let me know, we often are in scared while and oversight the essence of incident, so calm the earth's surface just is to breaking out a circumstance it is good sense!
困难是弹簧，你弱它就强。这次经历不但让我战胜了自己，还让我知道，我们经常在恐惧的同时而忽略了事件的本质，所以冷静地面对突发情况才是是硬道理！
Xiang Yulong of Xue of elementary school of red star grade
红星路小学薛向玉龙
Gorky has said: The victory with the greatest “ is him conquer. ” is! A person always grows in the process in ceaseless him conquer rise, need victory sometimes lazy; Need victory sometimes commonplace; Need victory sometimes careless. They are like an only ferocious obstacle, ko them only, we just can move toward a success!
高尔基说过：“最伟大的胜利就是战胜自己。”是啊！一个人总是在不断战胜自己的过程中成长起来的，有时需要战胜懒惰；有时需要战胜平庸；有时需要战胜马虎。它们如一只只恶狠狠的拦路虎，只有把它们打倒，我们才能走向成功！
I all the time since it is a person that fears to stand on the stage to make a speech, I attended last term match of a spoken English, in my heart very fear, of countless be anxious to also coming over to me. Can I say not fluently when make a speech? I can is voice too small? The classmates below the stage if boo, how should I do? My heart is trembling, worry is worn like the tear at like devil's talons my heart. Right now, the classmate with our class best grade is making a speech fluent on the stage and humorously, her sound mild and indirect is pleasant, the smile on the face also is like a bright flower, the audience below the stage people must applause to come for her, see her presentation, my complexion immediately dim composition / come down, also disappeared even bits of last bits confidence. The classmate that makes a speech next, each is alight, and my recreant like spadger, mix in phoenix group in, be not sneaked away greyly by their dazzling ray line autumn.
我一直以来都是一个害怕站在台上演讲的人，上学期我参加了一场英语口语比赛，我心里十分害怕，无数的担忧也正向我袭来。我会不会在演讲的时候说得不流利？我会不会声音太小？台下的同学们要是喝倒彩，我该怎么办？我的心在颤抖，忧虑像魔爪般撕扯着我的心。此时，我们班成绩最好的同学正在台上流利而幽默地演讲，她的声音婉转动听，脸上的笑容也如一朵灿烂的花，台下的观众们不得不为她鼓起掌来，看到她的演讲，我的脸色顿时暗淡了作文/下来，就连最后一点点信心也消失了。接下来演讲的同学，个个神采奕奕，而我就像一只胆小的麻雀，混在凤凰群里，被他们耀眼的光芒衬得灰不溜秋的。
One in an instant, to me. I go up to the stage slowly. “ everybody is good! I am because 23 ……” are nervous, sound is asp, also sweat often on forehead, in my heart secretly complain of suffering, had done the psychology that is mocked by classmates, next, I did not happen when what continue to go to below read. The humour in because I alternate,making a speech, the audience that leaves the stage people give amusing, hear classmates' bright and clear laughter, I picked up confidence again again, read more dedicatedly go down, also do often make a motion, the echo in so big classroom is worn my clear speech sound, the audience below the stage people listening attentively to absorbedly, this gave me confidence and encourage. After passing a few minutes, my speech ends, corners of the mouth can'ts help a smile since float, I believe I am hopeful! Classmates look at me silently, abrupt, rang an enthusiastic applause, I am extremely glad! Because of me eventually conquer oneself stage fright psychology, got the affirmation of other.
一转眼，到我了。我慢慢地向台上走去。“大家好！我是23号……”因为紧张，声音颤颤抖抖，额头上也不时地冒汗，我心里暗暗叫苦，已经做好被同学们嘲笑的心理了，然后，我当什么都没发生继续往下面读。因为我穿插在演讲中的幽默，把台下的观众们都给逗笑了，听到同学们爽朗的笑声，我又重拾了信心，更加专注地读了下去，也不时地做做动作，偌大的教室里回响着我清晰的演讲声，台下的观众们也全神贯注地倾听着，这给了我信心和鼓励。过了几分钟以后，我的演讲完毕，嘴角不禁浮起一丝笑意，我相信自己有希望了！同学们静静地看着我，突然，响起了一片热烈的掌声，我高兴极了！因为我终于战胜了自己的怯场心理，并得到了他人的肯定。
Arrive as a child big, we had experienced a challenge a lot of times. In this process, you are timid perhaps over- , perhaps had hesitated, perhaps insecurity passes, perhaps had abandoned, but most moment, we can face the challenge of the life. Actually, in this one process, the most difficult is not the task is arduous, not be difficult dreariness, not be adversary more is powerful, however of own heart be fear of, panicky, shrink back and spellbound, also because such, what the person wants victory finally still is him.
从小到大，我们经历过很多次挑战。在这个过程中，你也许怯懦过，也许彷徨过，也许紧张过，也许放弃过，但大多数时候，我们能面对生活的挑战。其实，在这一过程中，最难的不是任务的艰巨，不是困难的可怕，更不是对手的强大，而是自己内心的惧怕、恐慌、退缩和茫然，也正因为如此，人最终要战胜的还是自己。
North Yun of 3 small Zhao Jue hope
北三小赵珏芸希
What challenge sex has most on the world is not others, not be recreant, not be actuation, however the devil in him heart. Also because of such, I should challenge myself more, him conquer.
世界上最具挑战性的不是别人，不是胆小，不是冲动，而是自己心中的魔鬼。也正因如此，我更要挑战自己，战胜自己。
, I read elementary school 2 grade. After classes are over, I still am keeping operation in the school, is this why? Because do not have a person,will receive me. What I am received previously everyday is grandfather, but he forgot to receive me however today, just began me and did not care about, thinking grandfather to receive me everyday, come late also be possible, but won't not come absolutely. But be put in control to be afraid of in the home,fell because of me, contain in the mouth to be afraid of the good-for-nothing or queer character that changed, also because of such, let me have serious dependence, natural me also won't a person goes back. The eye looks at colour of sky gradually late, I also kept operation, but the parent still did not come, I can't help fearing to rise: Won't they want me? Without giving thought to,can lose me in the school! Give me already completely perhaps forgot? Want to fear. Passed a little while again, still do not see the figure of grandfather, complain in the heart: How to still come? Should die urgently I ah! Complain to look around at the same time at the same time, hear footstep to look outside, wish grandfather appears before me immediately.
八岁那年，我读小学二年级。放学之后，我还在学校里写着作业，这是为什么呢？因为没有人来接我。以前每天来接我的是外公，但是今天他却忘记了来接我，刚开始我并没有在意，想着外公每天来接我，来迟了也是有可能的，但绝不会不来。因为我可是家里放在手心怕摔了，含在嘴里怕化了的宝贝，也正因如此，让我有了严重的依赖性，自然我也不会一个人回去。眼看着天色渐晚，我也写完了作业，可是家长还是没来，我不禁害怕起来：他们不会不要我了吧？会不会把我丢在学校不管了！或者已经完全把我给忘记了呢？想想都害怕。又过了一会儿，还是不见外公的身影，便在心里抱怨道：怎么还不来？要急死我啊！一边抱怨一边左顾右盼，听到脚步声就往外看，恨不得外公立刻出现在我面前。
The eye looks at those does not have the parent to receive classmates on the class oneself went, I generated doubt in the heart: Why they themselves can come home, am I not OK however? I myself also should go back, then, I secretly resolved. God of ……” of “ rumble grand is really beyond the mark, when to rain bad, rain now unluckily! I complain ceaselessly in the heart, also was forced to borrow an umbrella to the teacher, the satchel since the back takes school entrance slowly.
眼看着班上那些没家长来接的同学都自己走了，我在心里产生了疑惑：为什么他们可以自己回家，我却不可以呢？我也要自己回去，于是，我暗暗下定决心。“轰隆隆……”老天爷真过分，什么时候下雨不好，偏偏现在下雨！我在心里不停抱怨，也只好向老师借了把伞，背起书包慢吞吞地走到学校门口。
I step one pace hesitantly, firm preparation walks out of school gate mouth, the teacher that listens in the classroom only is calling my name. I feel happy secretly in the heart: The teacher is to not be at ease certainly my person goes, want to send me to come home. The ground runs back to my excitedly classroom, result teacher says: Your language writ drops “ be in the classroom. ” listens this word, I am extremely disappointed. But also be forced to took Chinese book outfit to enter satchel in, tooting mouth walks along school gate mouth.
我迟疑地迈出一步，刚准备走出校门口，只听在教室里的老师喊着我的名字。我在心中暗喜：老师一定是不放心我一个人走，要送我回家。我兴冲冲地跑回教室，结果老师说：“你的语文书掉在教室里了。”一听这话，我失望极了。但也只好拿起语文书装进了书包里，嘟着嘴巴走到校门口。
I what be at the door school do not wish to go out tardy, but think of: If I do not go out all the time, cannot return the home, later also not dare oneself come home, still issueing so big rain, do not come home, perhaps can be frozen to death …… thinks of this, I strong have courage, stride ground develops a school gate, in returning the home a little while.
在校门口的我迟迟不愿出去，可是一想到：如果我一直都不出去，就回不了家，以后也不敢自己回家，还下着这么大的雨，不回家，说不定会被冻死……想到这，我便壮起胆子，大步流星地冲出校门，不一会儿就回到了家中。
See me what come back alone, the person in the home can'ts help muttering path: How does “ forget receive the child? ” is self-condemned after be over, begin to speak highly of again I myself can come home, I am patting chest to say proudly: “ it doesn't matter, I am to want my to come home after all, the society is independent. Can not depend on you, otherwise I may whats are done bad. Home ” person hears this word, nod gladly continuously.
看到独自回来的我，家里的人不禁喃喃自语道：“怎么忘记接孩子呢？”自责完之后又开始夸赞我能自己回家了，我拍着胸脯自豪地说：“没什么，我终究是要自己回家，学会独立的。不可以依赖你们，不然我可能会什么都做不好。”家人一听这话，高兴地直点头。
After passing that day, I begin to depend on grandma of mother father, grandfather no longer, mastered independence slowly. Be! Only ability of constant challenge ego scores a success. I said a word proudly still that day: “ my conquer oneself, I challenge a success, I should continue to cheer, continue to surmount oneself, do more marvellous oneself! I also can take ” this kind of courage rushs forth all the time!
那天过后，我开始不再依赖妈妈爸爸、爷爷奶奶了，慢慢学会了独立。是啊！只有不断挑战自我才能获得成功。那天我还自豪地说了一句话：“我战胜了自己，我挑战成功了，我要继续加油，继续一次次超越自己，做更棒的自己！”我也会带着这种勇气一直往前冲！
Shi Han of Zou of aviation grade elementary school
航空路小学邹诗涵
Gorky has said: The victory with the greatest “ is him conquer. ” is! A person always grows in the process in ceaseless him conquer rise, need victory sometimes lazy; Need victory sometimes commonplace; Need victory sometimes careless. They are like an only ferocious obstacle, ko only they, ability gains a success.
高尔基说过：“最伟大的胜利就是战胜自己。”是啊！一个人总是在不断战胜自己的过程中成长起来的，有时需要战胜懒惰；有时需要战胜平庸；有时需要战胜马虎。它们如一只只恶狠狠的拦路虎，只有打倒它们，才能取得成功。
In one's childhood I am a very timid girl, with respect to reaching the sky black can be frightened to cry, but when 7 years old, produced a thing to yield my victory oneself.
小时候的我是一个十分胆小的女孩，就连天黑都可以被吓哭，但在七岁时，发生了一件事让我战胜了自己。
, I am in phase of grow permanent teeth. One day, I had a tooth to loosen, keep asking mother: “ can I go to this tooth get down? If true get down went, abdomen can by dental lacerate ……” I still can keep saying to mom: “ toothache! Toothache! ” lets mom take me to unplug tooth. Mom does not know how to should answer my question, be forced to take me to unplug to the hospital tooth.
七岁那年，我正处于换牙阶段。有一天，我有一颗牙松了，就不停地问妈妈：“我会不会把这颗牙吞下去？如果真的吞下去了，肚子会不会被牙齿划破……”我还会不停地对妈妈说：“牙疼！牙疼！”让妈妈带我去拔牙。妈妈不知道该怎么回答我的问题，只好带我到医院去拔牙了。
We came to a hospital, after mom helped me register name, we sit in wait aside. A less than me boy is before my, he has 6 years old only, see that dentist uses that tooth that loosened forceps him to be pulled forcibly only, the instant in the mouth poured out of a lot of blood, he ground cried greatly. See this occasion, I can't help fearing to rise, keep thinking in brain: Can the blood that I give return many a little bit than him? In case am I exsanguine and overmuch how does dizzy past also wake not to do again? This a series of imagination, let me want to abandon unplugging tooth.
我们来到了医院，妈妈帮我挂了号后，我们便坐在一旁等候。在我的前面是一个比我小的男孩，他只有六岁，只见那位牙科医生用一把钳子把他松了的那颗牙用力一拉，嘴里瞬间流出了许多的血，他哇哇地大哭了一场。一见这场面，我不禁害怕起来，不停地在脑海里想：我出的血会不会比他还多一些？万一我失血过多晕过去再也醒不来怎么办？这一系列的想象，让我想要放弃拔牙了。
I just wanted to let mom take away me, but at this moment the doctor calls me: “ child, come over! I went by slowly, above the bench that lies in that Zhang Lengbing to put on the ice, can eat off mouth Zhang Dedou a tiger, the eye is shut closely. The doctor is pulled forcibly, when hear “ Ka ” only, that tooth fell down. What feeling also is done not have, and a bit blood also did not flow, it seems that whats did not happen same. Walk out of a hospital, I am extremely glad, can eat delicious cough up again eventually! My conquer unplug tooth this one difficulty, conquer oneself cowardly psychology.
我刚想让妈妈带我走，但这时医生叫我：“小朋友，过来吧！我慢慢地走了过去，躺在了那张冷冰冰的凳子上面，把嘴张得都可以吃掉一头老虎，眼睛闭得紧紧的。医生用力一拉，只听见“咔”的一声，那颗牙掉下来了。什么感觉也没有，而且一点血也没有流出来，似乎什么都没有发生一样。走出医院，我高兴极了，终于又可以吃好吃的咯！我战胜了拔牙这一困难，战胜了自己的胆怯心理。
Our “ enemy ” in the life is ourselves, have conquer only oneself, ability gains a success.
生活中我们的“敌人”就是我们自己，只有战胜了自己，才能取得成功。