“ can have two such women in every man life, married red rose, as time passes, turned a mosquito on the wall into redly blood, white still is smooth ” of the bright moon before “ bed; Married white rose, white is a meal on the dress is stuck child, red is the mole of a vermilion on the pit of the stomach however. ”
“每个男人生命中都会有这样的俩个女人，娶了红玫瑰，久而久之，红的变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白的还是“床前明月光”；娶了白玫瑰，白的便是衣服上的一粒饭粘子，红的却是心口上的一颗朱砂痣。”
This is Zhang Ailing novel " red rose and white rose " in a paragraph of the most classical word, drew up the aspirations of Chinese numerous male. And the hardships that what I talk is backside of this paragraph of love and but. To a lot of men, unavailable natural talent is best, but got thing may not won't be lost. Most person such, brace up protect also Yi Ran. If have in that way a person, he can treat each paragraphs of feeling seriously and do not have regret the result finally, the process that wants happiness not merely more want perfect result; If have in that way a person, he can be in after having red rose peacefully auspicious day to remembering with concern too bright moon smooth ” ; If have a such people really, that should be much better.
这是张爱玲小说《红玫瑰与白玫瑰》中最经典的一段话，写出了中国众多男性的心声。而我谈的就是这段爱情背后的艰辛与无奈。对于许多男人来说，得不到的自然才是最好的，但是得到了的东西未必就不会失去。大多数人这样，振保也亦然。如果有那样一个人，他可以认真对待每一段感情并无悔于最后的结果，不只要美好的过程更要完美的结果；如果有那样一个人，他能在有了红玫瑰以后安然的过好日子不去惦记着那个“床前明月光”；如果真有这样一个人，那该是多好。
Those who make my feeling deep is not charming pistil what kind of gorgeous with coquetry, be in however she and brace up protect parting and old hind again the body get fat when meet again. Old later, brace up protect strand the pressure at the life, charming pistil also does not write a composition to be the same as again that kind lives former days wonderful, this made me deep numerate of years but with affairs of human life fugacious. Charming pistil is one dies of old age blasted rose, as time passes also became a mosquito blood extremely common. And smoke a surname, she is defeated was in above oneself muddled and ignorance, be defeated was in oneself inherent change pattern above. She loves brace up protect, but just also do not want brace up protect, if she marries another man to also still can love another man. But change a think of a way, smoke a surname has with others finally catch, also be brace up protect oneself to facilitate single-handed. Can say, a surname of Zhen Baohe smoke is joyless, this paragraph of marriage also never happy.
令我感触深刻的并不是娇蕊怎样的艳丽与媚态，而是在她与振保离别多年后再次重逢时的身体发胖。多年以后，振保困于生活的压力，娇蕊也不作文再同往日那般活的精彩，这让我深深读出了岁月的无奈和世事的无常。娇蕊是一朵凋谢枯萎的玫瑰，久而久之也便成了一抹蚊子血极其普通了。而烟郦，她输在了自己的懵懂与无知上面，输在了自己的固有化模式上面。她爱振保，但也不只是要振保，她若是嫁给另一个男人也仍然会去爱另一个男人。但换个想法，烟郦最后与别人有染，也是振保自己一手促成的。可以说，振保和烟郦都不快乐，这段婚姻也从未幸福。
3 characters in the book are pathos, we can not be in after losing, just know cherish, also cannot be in when getting too go avaricious. We are known only how to love oneself, ability is qualified go say how to love others. “ love ” is a very big theme, a surname of smoke of Zhen Baojiao pistil loved lifetime, also defeated lifetime, and our one survival is too long. Those who thanks to is, charming pistil is in leave brace up the person that that encountered to be opposite eventually after protecting, although she becomes a losing red rose already.
书中三个人物都是悲情的，我们并不能在失去以后才懂得珍惜，也不能在得到的时候太去贪心。我们只有懂得如何爱自己，才能有资格去说怎样爱别人。“爱”从来就是一个很大的主题，振保娇蕊烟郦爱了一生，也败了一生，而我们的一生还太长了。多亏的是，娇蕊在离开振保以后终于遇到了那个对的人，尽管她已然成为一个落败的红玫瑰。
Probably, love itself is solemn and stirring the noumenon that coexists with beauty. Affection comes in, know regret not to wish regret.
或许，爱情本身就是悲壮和美丽并存的本体。情至深处，知悔不愿悔。(文/千叶姨太)