Civilized and formal it is key of a gold, can the gate that open leads to the heart; Civilized and formal it is a bright lamp, can enlighten the road of the travel before us; Civilized and formal it is a composition, can interweave our aspirations; Civilized and formal it is a torch, what can deliver people is enthusiastic. Promote culture formal it is carry out travel the effective way of socialistic core viewpoint of value, since civilization is formal so important to us, so how should we do the Christian of a new era?
文明礼仪是一把金钥匙，能开启通往心灵的大门；文明礼仪是一盏明灯，能照亮我们前行的道路；文明礼仪是一首乐曲，能交织你我的心声；文明礼仪是一把火炬，能传递人们的热情。弘扬文明礼仪是践行社会主义核心价值观的有力途径，既然文明礼仪对我们如此重要，那么我们应该如何做一个新时代的文明人呢？
Do Christian, should know self-effacing. Know self-effacing it is a person establishs a body to conduct oneself in society the the most restful, happiest method. When Kong Rong is 4 years old, often eat pear together with the elder brother, every time, he always takes the smallest pear, let an elder brother greatly. Once, father of aperture be in harmony asks: Why do you always take “ small and not of give oneself airs? ” Kong Rong says: “ I am a little brother, the age is the smallest, should eat small, big still is to let eat to the elder brother! ” sees this, I think many people can give out deep feeling. Discipline of small off year of aperture be in harmony knows brotherly sister should mutual comity, mutual help, the truth of unitive friendly affection, the story that “ Kong Rong yields pear ” also circulates 1000 carry, taught people everything to should be known self-effacing formal.
做文明人，应懂得谦让。懂得谦让是一个人立身处世最平安、最快乐的方法。孔融四岁时，常常和哥哥一块吃梨，每次，他总是拿最小的梨，把大的让给哥哥。有一次，孔融爸爸问道：“你为什么总是拿小的而不拿大的呢？”孔融说：“我是弟弟，年龄最小，应该吃小的，大的还是让给哥哥吃吧！”看到这，我想不少人都会发出感慨吧。孔融小小年纪就懂得兄弟姐妹应该互相礼让，相互帮助，团结友爱的道理，“孔融让梨”的故事也就流传千载，教育了人们凡事应该懂得谦让的礼仪。
Do Christian, should learn to respect another person. Respecting another person is a kind of state, it is a kind of goodness, it is the primary quality with indispensable life. Ceng Zi is the child of Confucius, once he is beside Confucius serve sits, confucius asks him: The king of the sages and men of virtue before “ has sovereign moral conduct, essence of life wants the theory of secret, with the person that will teach the world, people can get along well, also resent without what between emperor and official in feudal times, do you know what they are? ” Ceng Zi listened, clear teacher Confucius is to should show his deepest sense, stand up from the matting that sitting immediately then, go to the outside of matting, respectfully reply: “ I am not quite clever, where can know, still ask a teacher to teach me these truths. “ avoids banquet ” is a kind of very courteous behavior here, ceng Zi composition hears a teacher to want to impart when knowledge gives him, he rises to consult, it is to show his respect to the teacher. What “ Ceng Zi avoids the story of banquet ” tells us to should learn to respect another person is formal.
做文明人，应学会尊重他人。尊重他人是一种境界，是一种美德，是人生必不可少的基本素质。曾子是孔子的弟子，有一次他在孔子身边侍坐，孔子问他：“以前的圣贤之王有至高无上的德行，精要奥妙的理论，用来教导天下之人，人们就能和睦相处，君王和臣子之间也没有什么不满，你知道它们是什么吗？”曾子听了，明白老师孔子是要指点他最深刻的道理，于是立刻从坐着的席子上站起来，走到席子外面，恭恭敬敬的回答道：“我不够聪明，哪里能知道，还请老师把这些道理教给我。”这里“避席”是一种非常礼貌的行为，曾子作文听到老师要传授知识给他时，他起身走到席子外向老师请教，是为了表示他对老师的尊重。“曾子避席”的故事告诉我们应该学会尊重他人的礼仪。
Do Christian, should accomplish equality to need a person. For the person that has superior ability to, know equality to need a person, it is the greatest, the rightest tone. Once, lenin leaves a floor, on the corridor of stair stricture, as it happens comes up against a workingwoman that carrying birdbath to go upstairs. That workingwoman sees is Lenin, want to give way to Lenin, him preparation is retreated. Lenin prevented her, say: “ need not such, you were carrying a thing to go half, and I begin for nothing now, ask you to go first! ” he asks “ ” word says very resonantly, very kind. Next Lenin tightens recumbent wall, let workingwoman go upstairs, he just goes down. Lenin as a great person, do not scorn another person because of him position nobility however, accomplished equality to need a person, does “ Lenin give way is the example of ” civilized and formal expression?
做文明人，应做到平等待人。对一个有优越才能的人来说，懂得平等待人，是最伟大、最正直的品质。有一次，列宁下楼，在楼梯狭窄的过道上，正好碰到一个端着水盆的女工上楼。那个女工看到是列宁，要给列宁让路，准备自己退回去。列宁阻止了她，说：“不必这样，你端着东西走了半截，而我现在空着手，请你先过去吧！”他把“请”字说得很响亮，很亲切。然后列宁紧靠着墙，让女工上楼了，他才下去。列宁身为一个伟人，却不因自己地位高贵而看不起他人，做到了平等待人，“列宁让路”的事例不就是文明礼仪的表现吗？
Do Christian, should learn good-tempered. Good-tempered and OK surmount everything, because of good-tempered need the heart with a big gain. Once, when barber is shaving beard to Premier Zhou, premier Zhou coughed suddenly, small knife gives lacerate the face instantly. Barber is very nervous, be at a loss temporarily. But those who make him open-eyed is, premier Zhou does not have blame him, kind instead ground says to him: This does not blame “ you, before I cough, did not greet sb to you, how do you know I want to move? ” although this is a bagatelle, but the goodness — that let us see week is the highest on premier body however is good-tempered, enlightenment we should learn good-tempered formal.
做文明人，应学会宽容。宽容可以超越一切，因为宽容需要一颗博大的心。有一次，理发师正在给周总理刮胡须的时候，周总理突然咳嗽了一声，刀子立即把脸给划破了。理发师十分紧张，一时不知所措。但是令他惊讶的是，周总理并没有责怪他，反而和蔼地对他说：“这并不怪你，我咳嗽之前并没有向你打招呼，你怎么知道我要动呢？”这虽然是件小事，但是却让我们看到了周总理身上最高贵的美德—宽容，启示了我们要学会宽容的礼仪。
A variety of example tell us, do a Christian, should know self-effacing, society to respect another person, accomplish equality to wait for person, society good-tempered etc. Carry out goes socialistic core viewpoint of value, let us act, civilization formal in be being engraved in the heart, make the one part of the life, make permanent habit.
种种事例告诉我们，做一个文明人，要懂得谦让、学会尊重他人、做到平等待人、学会宽容等。践行社会主义核心价值观，让我们行动起来，把文明礼仪刻在心中，成为生活的一部分，成为永久的习惯。(文/张莹)