There can be a space between person and person. Some distances are distance of corporeal —— far and near; Returning some distances however is the distance on aeriform —— heart. Now, there is a kind of aeriform space between I and parents.
人与人之间都会有距离。有些距离是有形的——远近距离;然而还有些距离是无形的——心灵上的距离。现在,我和父母之间就有一种无形的距离。
I had gone up middle school, entered adolescence, although I had been an adolescent, but the knowledge that acquires in study is not quite much still, the experience of life respect is not quite rich also, so each respect still needs the guidance of teacher, parent and help. But, although I understand this reason, every time father mother chatters to me when keeping, I or meeting feel impatient, do not want to listen, still can bunt even sometimes they are a few sentences. I know father mother is good for me, I bunt they are incorrect, but I feel embarrassed again go apologizing to them. Gradually, we produced aeriform distance on the heart.
我已经上了中学,进入了青春期,虽然我已经是一名青少年了,但是在学习中学到的知识仍然不够多,生活方面的经验也不够丰富,所以各方面还需要老师、家长的指导和帮助。可是,尽管我明白这个道理,每当爸爸妈妈向我唠叨个不停时,我还是会觉得不耐烦、不想听,有时甚至还会顶撞他们几句。我知道爸爸妈妈是为我好,我顶撞他们是不对的,但我又不好意思去向他们道歉。渐渐地,我们在心灵上就产生了无形的距离。
As a result of this kind of aeriform distance between us, I become unlike I a few years ago am pure in that way. In one's childhood, I return the home everyday, metropolis and father mother all sorts of things in the school; The little secret between I and friend, I also can tell father mother; I often still can pour out the trouble that I write a composition, grievance to them. In one's childhood I pass very happily everyday.
由于我们之间的这种无形的距离,我变得不像几年前的我那样单纯了。小时候,我每天回到家,都会和爸爸妈妈将学校里的各种事情;我和朋友之间的小秘密,我也会告诉爸爸妈妈;我还会经常向他们倾诉我作文的烦恼、委屈。小时候的我每天都过得十分开心。
But now, everything produced tremendous change. I and father mother had acting channel, it is rarely in the home the thing the school, having what trouble or secret also is to hide in the heart, do not let parents know. And classes are over return the home, father mother always asked my “ to attend what class today however ah content of ” , “ learned ” , “ is unidentified white place asks a teacher ah ” this kind problem, and return more than ask me everywhere. After I reply impatiently, this thinking that they should rest talking around, asked no longer, can not think of they began the talk of harangue again however, want me to learn well, serious listen to a talk, attend class not to take a look, won't the problem must consult …… to the teacher the distance on I and parental heart already further and further.
但是现在,一切都发生了天翻地覆的变化。我和爸爸妈妈有了代沟,很少在家里将学校的事情,有什么烦恼或秘密也都是藏在心里,不让父母知道。而放学回到家,爸爸妈妈却总是问我“今天上了什么课呀”、“内容学会了吗”、“不明白的地方有没有问老师呀”这一类的问题,并且还不止一遍地问我。我不耐烦地回答完之后,本以为他们该歇一歇口舌、不再问了,可没想到他们却又开始了长篇大论的讲话,要我好好学习,认真听讲,上课不要走神,不会的题一定要向老师请教……我和父母心灵上的距离已经越来越远了。
I think, this kind of distance between us can narrow. I often should report my study case to father mother later, tell the thing that is in the school about oneself actively to wait to them, let the interior distance between us shorten gradually, make we become the intimate of keep no secrets from each other.
我认为,我们之间的这种距离是可以缩小的。我以后要经常向爸爸妈妈汇报自己的学习情况,主动给他们讲一讲有关自己在学校的事情等,让我们之间的心灵距离逐渐缩短,使我们变成无话不谈的知心朋友。(文/李奕萱)