He has those who serve as a man is ad cool-headed and sober, analysing a problem always is rational has according to; He also has those who serve as the husband to take on responsible, his shoulder is clement and strong; He also has the kind humour that serves as father, the child that is him esteems from beginning to end, the person that is loving greatly.
他有作为男人的沉着冷静，分析问题总是有理有据；他也有作为丈夫的担当负责，他的肩膀宽厚结实；他也有作为父亲的亲切幽默，是他的孩子始终崇敬的、深爱着的人。
He is my father, I and the man that maternal place relies on.
他是我的父亲，我和母亲所依靠的男人。
All the time since, I always think to love a mother to want to surpass father, very deep also to maternal dependence. Father always serves as emancipator, dissolve in time when the wife and daughter produces contradiction. If somebody asks me: If “ did not come you can be mixed only the one party in parents lives, who can you choose? ”“ mom! ” is to be without hesitant interlocution certainly.
一直以来，我总是认为爱母亲要胜过父亲，对母亲的依赖也很深。父亲总是作为救星，在妻女产生矛盾时及时化解。如果有人问我：“如果未来你只能和父母中的一方生活，你会选谁？”“妈妈！”一定是毫无犹豫地问答。
Change happening is in a year this when leave home town. Go from abode, I cannot differentiate constantly is the direction that leads to the school by the side of which; Stand in unfamiliar crossroad, I seek the way that leads to the home below neon lamp. I am very spellbound, also do not want to increase trouble to maternal person, if father is here, he can pat the shoulder that pats me certainly: “ mere trifle, went a few times to remember more, how can be the gene of our Home Laocai differred than others? ” handholds with his wide hand next my hand, the inn name that remembering roadside at the same time is wanting to be free to ramble again at the same time.
转变发生在离开家乡的这一年。从住处走出来，我时常无法分辨哪边是通往学校的方向；站在陌生的十字路口，我在霓虹灯下寻找通往家的路。我很茫然，也不想给母亲徒增烦恼，如果父亲在这儿，他一定会拍拍我的肩膀：“小意思，多走几趟就记得了，我们老蔡家的基因怎么会比别人差呢？”然后用他宽大的手握住我的手，一边记着路边的店名一边想着有空再来逛逛。
Two people have a meal regular meeting feels doleful. I and mother are being taken respective tired, sometimes atmosphere is met without reason is grave. We are right look, can laugh suddenly, begin to recall the mirth that dashed along on dining table once upon a time. Orbit meets the likelihood suddenly wet, but turn in an instant bead, smile attentively, the life is met again very good. We cherish in the heart severally the longing of pair of father and husband, embrace together warm oneself to the heart.
两个人吃饭常会感到寂寞。我和母亲带着各自的疲倦，有时气氛会无故低沉。我们对望一眼，会突然笑起来，开始回味从前饭桌上滔滔不绝的欢笑。可能眼眶会忽然湿润，但转转眼珠子，用心微笑，生活又会很美好。我们各自在心里怀抱对父亲和丈夫的思念，拥在一起给心灵取暖。
The course of junior high school is much, work is hard also. A lot of moment, it is tired long in dead end of problem composition end, the lamplight of desk lamp becomes very harsh, negative sentiment spreads at a draught, in the heart very lose. Call father, he always comforts me:
初中的课程多了，作业也难了。很多时候，长时间困在题作文目的死胡同里，台灯的灯光变得很刺目，消极的情绪一下子蔓延开，心里很失落。打电话给父亲，他总是安慰我：
“ is fastened urgent, come slowly, what does difficult problem calculate? I teach you, you issue affirmative metropolis! ” ponders slightly, a few teach, dispel the clouds and see the sun-restore justice. He wore a ladder for me in alley, pulling me to mount housetop, let me discover, actually exit is in next turning, deceptive time is quiet next hearts will hope to look at a sky, always can search see the result.
“别急，慢慢来，难题算什么？我教你，你下回肯定都会了！”稍加思索，几番点拨，拨云见日。他为胡同里的我架了一座梯子，拉着我爬上屋顶，让我发现，其实出口就在下一个拐弯处，迷惑的时候静下心来望望天空，总能寻见答案。
It is very simple that “…… thinks so? He gives out ” again the word accent of bullish humour sex, I can think of a phone even that he the ” of “ clown type of that classic pop double look smiles, all sorts of complex flavor emerge mind.
“……这样想是不是很简单？”他又发出上扬的幽默性的话调，我甚至能想到电话那头他那经典的瞪大双眼的“小丑式”微笑，各种复杂的滋味涌上心头。
“ is, very simple really, how cannot think of before me? ”
“是啊，真的很简单，我之前怎么没有想到呢？”
Actually, father is the pillar with this the most principal home all the time, he is likely not so the affection that is good at conveying him, but he can offer to take a walk together when I am tired; He can like to eat rice cake to take long car to come back authenticly from Shou Ning belt designedly because of me; He can be in those who cross a street when the shoulder that encircles me; He can be in of every Zhou Wu come in the evening beside I and mother, give us the hug of a love.
其实，父亲一直是这个家最重要的支柱，他可能不那么善于表达他的情感，但他会在我累的时候提议一起去散步；他会因为我喜欢吃米糕特意坐很久的车从寿宁带正宗的回来；他会在过马路的时圈住我的肩膀；他会在每个周五的晚上赶来我和母亲的身边，给我们一个爱的拥抱。
My father is loving us all the time, we are depending on him deeply all the time also. If somebody asks me now: Do you love “ more your father or mother? ”
我的父亲一直爱着我们，我们也一直深深依赖着他。如果现在有人问我：“你更爱你的父亲还是母亲？”
I am loving “ at the same time they, coequal also love is worn they. We are inseparable whole, mutual care, not prejudicial. ”
“我同时爱着他们，也同等爱着他们。我们是密不可分的整体，互相关爱，没有偏心。”(文/蔡安秦)