Life at the world, our all the time is absent to get along with the person, accordingly, the wisdom of the ways one gets along with others appears particularly important. And this among them, the most elusory is word of ” of Tibet of a “ . Only slam the door is coxcombical, institutional “ hides the wisdom of ” , square can experienced and worldly-wise of accommodate to sb; Be contained only and do not show, square can calm, do a job with skill and ease.
人生于世,我们无时无刻不在与人相处,因此,待人接物的智慧就显得尤为重要。而这其中,最难以捉摸的就是一个“藏”字。唯有摒弃浮夸,学会“藏”的智慧,方能通融练达;唯有含而不露,方能心平气和,游刃有余。
Hide and do not show, it is a kind of character. Village cloud: “ tells spare time greatly, small know. ” has truly big wisdom person, often Aeolus is refined, bearing natural and graceful; And those coxcombical apprentice, it is some extremely trifling petty trick nevertheless. Its key depends on the character that hide and does not show. Environmental sanitation worker everyday work from dawn to night, the farmer is versed in days of whole laborious is moved with one's shoulder to collar, what still did a favour not to wish to keep the person of the full name however, they have such quality undoubtedly. People never notices them, they also do not seek get one's own back, it is general like earthnut only, the fructification of the true the knot is in him heart, the knot is in the corner that is not noticed; And that the most flowery flower, will blossom in people heart. The character that this kind hides and does not show just about let them win the respect of people.
藏而不露,是一种品质。庄子云:“大知闲闲,小知间间。”真正有大智的人,往往风神娴雅,气度雍容;而那些浮夸之徒,不过就是有些琐碎不堪的小聪明。其关键就在于藏而不露的品质。环卫工人每天起早贪黑,农民工整日辛勤劳动,还有哪些做了好事却不愿留下姓名的人,他们无疑都具有这样的品质。人们从不注意他们,他们也不求回报,只是像花生一般,将真善美的果实结在自己心中,结在不被人注意的角落里;而那最绚丽的花儿,将在人们心中绽放。正是这种藏而不露的品质让他们赢得了人们的尊重。
Hide and do not show, it is a kind of state. Although the iceberg is big, not was however for the most part in the sea; Although the building is tall, the most important still is to be buried in subterranean foundation then. Mao Zedong one's early years conceives one antrum to dedicate oneself to the service of one's motherland warm blood comes to Changsha normal school, composition of achievement of the composition after enter a school always fails however. Later, classics teacher Yuan Ji 6 give directions, he changes to have imposing manner for nothing before however the style of lack reservation, on the way that makes revolutionary great person, also write down a lot of vigorous and firm and grand poems. The youth's article often imposing manner stimulates raise, but real authority, its character reads contact to go to meaningful popularly, and among them deep desire is like undersea iceberg however, need to add mining greatly. If high-rise is sure to collapse without stable foundation, and if the person thinks attain to taller state, must learn to hide and do not show.
藏而不露,是一种境界。冰山虽大,大部分却没在海里;大楼虽高,最重要的还是那埋在地下的地基。毛泽东早年怀一腔报国热血来到长沙师范,入学后作文成绩作文却总是不及格。后来,经老师袁吉六指点,他一改以往空有气势却乏含蓄的风格,在成为革命伟人的路上,也写下许多雄浑壮阔的诗篇。年轻人的文章往往气势激扬,但真正的大家,其文字读来往往平易隽永,而其中深意却如海面下的冰山,需深加挖掘。高楼若无稳定的地基则必将倒塌,而人若想臻至更高境界,就必须学会藏而不露。
Hide and do not show, it is a kind of wisdom. King Gou Jian hides and do not show more, undergo self-imposed hardships so as to strengthen one's resolve to do sth, change “ 3000 jump over armour to be able to be swallowed ” ; Village hides and do not show, install deficient happy line, change lifetime peaceful and carefree swim world; Si Mayi hides and do not show, hide one's capacities and bide one's time, change the government and the public of final power use up all one's resources; Qing Yongzheng contends for emperor Chu Zhi with 8 virtuous king before accession of the Supreme Being, he not Xu not disease, do not show hill not roric, become generation flower eventually advocate. And Li Bai although literary talent matchless, but he too cross unruly or unrestrained, do not know to hide and be not shown, be born to also fail to be allowed for person place firstly eventually. Occasionally, the talent that “ hides him ” looks be like can lose opportunity, but little imagine, “ Tibet ” is retreat in order to advance, temporarily “ hides ” , show ” for the sake of the “ later. Hide and do not show, solid the great wisdom that is life.
藏而不露,是一种智慧。越王勾践藏而不露,卧薪尝胆,换来“三千越甲可吞吴”;庄子藏而不露,安贫乐道,换来一生安闲游世;司马懿藏而不露,韬光养晦,换来最终的权倾朝野;清雍正帝即位前与八贤王争夺皇储之位,他不徐不疾,不显山不露水,终成一代英主。而李白虽文才盖世,但他太过狂放,不知藏而不露,终其一生也没能为人所容。有时候,“藏”自己的才华看似会丧失机遇,但殊不知,“藏”是以退为进,一时的“藏”,为的是之后的“露”。藏而不露,实乃人生之大智慧。
Hide and do not show, conduct oneself in society indifferently, just can swim at worldly and wait for without place, from heart institute desire and do not even more quadrature.
藏而不露,淡然处世,方能游于世间而无所待,从心所欲而不逾矩。(文/王名扬)