Lin Zhong has two ways, you can take a route only forever, yearning for another road.
林中有两条路,你永远只能走一条路,怀念着另一条路。
—— preface
——题记
Zhang Ailing says: “ married red rose, as time passes, turned a mosquito on the wall into redly blood, white still is smooth ’ of the bright moon before ‘ bed; Married white rose, white is a meal that touchs on the dress sticky child, red is ” of mole of a vermilion however. I think, the weakness —— that what this says is human nature cannot get be in forever disturbance.
张爱玲说:“娶了红玫瑰,久而久之,红的变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血,白的还是‘床前明月光’;娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上沾的一粒饭黏子,红的却是心口上一颗朱砂痣”。我想,这说的就是人性的弱点——得不到的永远在骚动。
You have such case: In one's childhood, mom bought two toys, call you and elder brother to choose. You compare an elder brother first the toy that one pace picked him to like, can play, you with respect to detest and reject oneself toy, feel the elder brother's toy is amused. You are crying to be troubled by call elder brother and you to change a toy. And after the toy that had an elder brother when you, that toy that still feels oneself begin to have is good.
你有没有这样的情况:小时候,妈妈买了两个玩具,叫你和哥哥挑选。你比哥哥先一步选了自己喜欢的玩具,可玩着玩着,你就厌弃了自己的玩具,觉得哥哥的玩具好玩。你哭着闹着叫哥哥和你换玩具。而当你有了哥哥的玩具后,还是觉得自己开始拥有的那个玩具好。
You have such time: Go when you bazaar buys the clothes, you like two clotheses inside very much, but your money can be bought only among them. You should buy the skirt of that white in indecisive —— all the time, still be the coat of that black. You thought for ages for ages, chose the coat of that black eventually. But after you are crossed a few times, had felt to regret however, should buy the skirt of that next white really at that time.
你有没有这样的时候:当你去商场买衣服,你好喜欢里面的两件衣服,可你的钱只能买其中一件。你一直在犹豫不决——该买那条白色的裙子呢,还是那件黑色的外套。你想了好久好久,终于选择了那件黑色的外套。可你穿过几次后,却觉得好后悔,当时真应该买下那条白色的裙子。
You have such feeling: You have a friend, she is very good to you, often accompany you when you are not happy, comfort you, listen to you to recount, for your help sb to get over a difficulty, for you sad. She also accompanies you to have a meal, shop, thing and you are shared, tell you to should learn well, remind you the weather became cold tote the clothes, the day heated up sunstroke prevention. As time passes, you feel however and she lives together too insipid and drab. Later, you knew a new “ friend ”—— she follows a composition you are told a lot of socially the ” of “ new issue that you never had listened to, she takes you to go Internet bar, go game hall, the person that tells love study with you is pedantry “ bookish ” . You feel to be stimulated very much together with her. You play everyday extremely. But one day, she is desolate you, your achievement also suffer a disastrous decline, those former good friends also all estranged you. You recalled your best friend suddenly, your “ intimate ” , and already also turned even her into you the passerby beside. You seemed what to know suddenly, be about to cry however without the tear.
你有没有这样的感受:你有一个朋友,她对你很好,常常在你不开心的时候陪伴你,安慰你,听你诉说,为你分忧,为你难过。她也陪你吃饭,逛街,有东西与你分享,告诉你应该好好学习,提醒你天冷了加衣,天热了防暑。久而久之,你却觉得和她在一起生活太平淡乏味。后来,你认识了一个新的“朋友”——她跟作文你讲许多社会上你从未听过的“新鲜事”,她带你去网吧,去游戏厅,跟你讲爱学习的人都是迂腐的“书呆子”。你觉得跟她在一起很刺激。你每天都玩得不亦乐乎。可是有一天,她冷落你了,你的成绩也一落千丈,从前的那些好友也全都疏远了你。你突然想起了你最好的朋友,你的“知己”,而连她也已变成了你身边的路人。你好像突然懂得了什么,却欲哭无泪。
Believe everybody has had such time. Had had good thing obviously, still think the move is better however, wait to had turned round to just wake up to reality one day, have at first so, had been best ah!
相信谁都有过这样的时候吧。明明已经拥有了好的东西,却还想着更好的,等有一天回过头才醒悟,原来最初拥有的,就已经是最好的了啊!
" boast swims on the west " in say after losing violet glow faery to honour treasure: “ once had affection of a sacred fire to appear in me before, I was not cherished well, not reach till afterthought of the ability after losing. If go up to the sky to give me the chance again, I cherish that girl ……” well certainly. A lot of person sees here cried, and I laughed however, it is “ breathes out those who breathe out ” to sneer. Have such if? Beyond question, it is trashy! Want to want to answer the toy that that you like afresh like you, but the toy has been played bad by the elder brother; With respect to new like you save money enough money buys the skirt of that white, but it has been bought by others; Want to had been been attributed to again with that good friend like you, but you ignored her, she is already needless also again right you are so good, saw you when the friend again ……
《大话西游》里至尊宝在失去紫霞仙子后说:“曾经有一份真挚的爱情出现在我的面前,我没有好好珍惜,直到失去后才追悔莫及。如果上天再给我一次机会的话,我一定好好珍惜那个女孩……”。好多人看到这里都哭了,而我却笑了,是“呵呵”的冷笑。有这样的如果吗?毋庸置疑,是没用的!就像你想重新要回那个你喜欢的玩具,可玩具已经被哥哥玩坏了;就像你重新攒足钱去买那条白色的裙子,可它已经被别人买走了;就像你想和那位好友重归于好,可你忽视了她,她也已经不必要再对你那么好,再把你当朋友看了……
A lot of things, it is to if,be done not have. You can do, cherish instantly place to have well only, not want when the ability after losing wants to cherish. Admire the scenery before well, the journey of life, just can not have complain without regret.
很多事情,是没有如果的。你能做的,只有好好珍惜当下所拥有的,莫要等到失去后才想要珍惜。好好欣赏眼前的风景,人生的旅途,才会无怨无悔。(文/优秀同学)