We always get drunk in my China great country. What fluctuated 5000 is civilized and the feeling of pride is medium. But on China earth a few character are be worth people pride truly. The filial piety heart that I think is not termless compliant parents. 2 it is to learn to refute their wrong notion. So filial it is to be parents intently, is not to bestowing favor on them, I think this is both between not contradictory.
我们总是沉醉在我中华泱泱大国。5000年上下的文明而骄傲的感觉中。但是中华大地上一些品质是真正的值得人们骄傲。我认为的孝心不是无条件的顺从父母。二是学会反驳他们错误的观点。所以孝顺是一心一意为父母，而不是宠着他们，我想这两者之间并不矛盾。
Filial piety of 100 be apt to is first, you are not filial, can make whole socially allergy, the boss in the company also won't tolerate such person existence is disobedient after 3 is not have, be big. Had learned in us " in flying southeast the peacock " why doesn't Jiao Zhongqing's mother like Liu Lanzhi, the mother saw with one's own eyes that I think to know Jiao Zhongqing looks at him son and Liu Lanzhi marriage a few years that, but do not have children namely, I think this is worried mother's most furious place, and end product is Jiao Zhongqing in the mother next press resting Liu Lanzhi, but they still each other love each other. In ancient time, what be rested is female reticent second returns a married woman's parents' home, come back to be able to suffer the bad opinion on public affairs of the neighbor in the temple, what have Liu Lanzhi only so is helpless. I have close father and mother. Press hold brother concurrently. And violated the commitment with Jiao Zhongqing. Gentleman regards as huge rock, concubine should do Pu Wei. Suicide of two people in pairs leaves the world, remain bilateral family is only infinite compunction and tear.
百善孝为先，你不孝顺，则会使整个社会上的反感，公司中的老板也不会容忍这样的人存在不孝有三无后为大。在我们学过的《孔雀东南飞中》焦仲卿的母亲为什么不喜欢刘兰芝，我想一想知道焦仲卿的母亲眼看着自己儿子与刘兰芝结婚那几年，但就是没有子女，我想这是焦母最气愤的地方，而最后结果是焦仲卿在母亲的逼迫下休了刘兰芝，但他们依然彼此相爱。在古代，被休之女是无言秒回娘家的，回来就会遭到寺里街坊的不好言论，所以只有刘兰芝的无奈。我有亲父母。逼迫兼兄弟。而违背了与焦仲卿的承诺。君当作磐石，妾当做蒲苇。两人双双自杀离开人世，剩下的只有双方家人无限悔恨和眼泪。
From inside this story it is an apparent parents the story of impending marriage, but Jiao Zhongqing why most commit suicide after the composition, because at that time in her heart very contradictory, it is the virtuous wife that loving her at the same time, it is the command that the mother Yours Excellency at the same time, no matter he makes what kind of choice, can make he feels special painful or it is compunctious all one's life, so when his final decision certain and special anguish, so Jiao Zhongqing chose to be far from easily lay, died, here is anxious intermediate Qing Taxiao suitable? I consider as, what is resembling now because of him the poppet that listens to parents, a bit dare not refute a mother, by his mother growl later was dumbfounded, so filial what be? It is a person that dares to refute parental mistake, and not be darling like absolutely female same. If otherwise, jiao Zhongqing is such end.
从这个故事中是一个明显的父母逼迫婚姻的故事，但焦仲卿为什么最作文后自杀，因为当时她心里十分矛盾，一边是爱着她的贤惠妻子，一边又是母亲大人的命令，不管他做出什么样的选择，都会使他感到非常痛苦或是内疚一辈子，所以他的最后决定时一定非常痛苦，所以焦仲卿选择了一个容易的远离世俗，一死了之，在这里焦仲卿他孝顺吗？我认为是的，因为他现在就像是一个什么都听父母的乖孩子，丝毫不敢反驳母亲，被他母亲吼了一句之后就傻眼了，所以孝顺是什么？是一个敢于反驳父母错误的人，而绝对不是像一个乖乖女一样的。如若不然，焦仲卿就是这样的下场。
Not come singly but in pairs. Also have filial parents undivided attention. Person of Yang Jiangjin day, 14 years old arrive along with father field mow, suddenly the change between brushwood goes a fierce tiger, hold father, yang Xiang bare-handed, to help father, ignore oneself safety and danger, what fierce tiger clutchs before pop-up is guttural, fierce tiger is put down eventually, father ran away. The Zhulinzhong in the dream cries, extend bamboo shoot to collect a branch to come home the give presents that do boiling water is parental.
无独有偶。也有孝顺父母一心一意的。阳江晋朝人，14岁随父亲到田间割草，忽然草丛间窜出一只猛虎，把父亲叼走了，杨香手无寸铁，为了救父亲，不顾自己的安危，跳上前扼住猛虎的咽喉，猛虎终于放下，父亲逃走了。梦中竹林中哭泣，伸出竹笋采枝回家做汤孝敬父母亲。
Filial piety heart is to be thankful attentively what does parents need most, there is acting channel between this, but also should understand each other, refute the other side serious mistake, should not resemble the comply with with euqally termless arms of a big head commanding, the person that should believe is very great really.
孝心是用心去感恩父母最需要什么，这之间有代沟，但也要互相理解，反驳对方严重错误，不应该像一个大头兵一样无条件的遵从命令，要相信的人真的很伟大。(文/强哥)