Everybody needs to grow, and parents is the chief partner that company rears the child. In the world all parents hope his child can have prospect, can choose oneself to think to breed the child's method correctly severally. Often some of parent ignored the thing that the child grows to need truly, that is free-standing.
人人都需要成长，而父母则是陪伴养育孩子的首位搭档。天底下所有的父母都希望自己的孩子能有出息，可都各自选择了自己认为正确培育孩子的方法。往往有些家长忽视了孩子成长真正需要的东西，那就是自立。
Perhaps you can say to want her to have her success only, future is brought up to won't be sufferred from, can did she grow really?
也许你会说只要她有自己的成就，未来长大就不会苦，可她真的成长了么？
My good friend, everybody loves to be hated again again to her. Her disposition and study result are particularly good, often can be praised to hers by the teacher with admiration, she often still smiles, teach us patiently to solve a problem softly, already became the family education teacher that helps everybody study it seems that. Everybody is held out in this respect admire, like her quite. Of course, this has the father and mother that is attributed to her partly greatly, her parents is very happy with it help her arrange satchel every day, wash clothes cook, include everything her, let her get online school, sign up for extracurricular class. Listen to her to say her pa Mom learns to make her absorption once, so small issue monopolized even the dress that prepares to be worn the following day. Her two ground that put light say to want her to be able to be acted according to only to me on outstanding achievement, they also are not had complained. But, in the other side that gets along with her at ordinary times, everybody very intolerable. Should clean every time when decorating class, she is in with respect to a person aside foolish slow-witted slow-witted ground is standing, the composition looks at more than 50 people busy on busy below, it is ” of sea of sweat of a “ it seems that a medium Qing Dynasty flows, absolutely not ” of “ associate with an evil person. Once the school holds athletic meeting, the psychosis of whole class looks brand-new, because this everybody takes the activity seriously very much, preparative work is quite much, then I was holding toolhouse of tried run to of state of mind in the arms to take two broom, breathed out at a heat, giving broom at the same time, be full of at the same time those who expect looking at her, want her to also be participated in sweep the job, her look dodge is worn take aim floor, finger is holding the one part of the dress, close lightly close lightly lip, bashful ground looks at me the window beside says: “ lives this kind my pa Mom never lets me had been done now, should be being done also is when in one's childhood I play, cleaned, I not quite meeting. ” is looked at all the time self-confident in inscribing the sea, binocular put light, she what abandon anything but becomes such charming be ashamed, I also am can sigh with emotion only extremely ah!
我的一个好朋友，大家都对她又爱又恨。她的性格和学习成绩特别好，经常能够受到老师对她的表扬与赞赏，她还常常微笑，温柔耐心地教我们解题，似乎已成为帮助大家学习的家教老师了。大家在这方面都挺佩服，挺喜欢她。当然，这有大一部分归功于她的父母，她的父母乐此不疲的天天帮她整理书包，洗衣做饭，包容她的一切，让她上网校，报课外班。有一次听她说她的爸妈为了让她专心学习，连准备第二天穿的衣服这么小的事都包办了。她两眼放光地对我说只要她能奉上优异的成绩，他们也就无怨了。但是，在平时与她相处的其他方面，大家又十分无法忍受。每当要打扫布置班级时，她就一个人在一旁傻呆呆地站着，作文看着五十余人忙上忙下，似乎是一片“汗海”中的一条清流，绝不“同流合污”。有一次学校举行运动会，全班的精神状态都焕然一新，由于这次活动大家都很重视，准备工作都挺多的，于是我便抱着试一试的心态跑向工具房拿了两把扫把，呼了一口气，一边递着扫把，一边满怀期待的望着她，要她也参与打扫工作，她的目光闪躲着瞄了瞄地板，手指捏着衣服的一角，抿了抿嘴唇，羞答答地看着我身旁的窗户说：“这种活我爸妈现在从没让我做过，要做也是小时候我玩的时候打扫了一下，我不太会。”看着一直在题海中自信，双目放光，决不放弃的她变得如此娇羞，我也是只能感慨万分了啊！
The parent nowadays, often monopolize replace, stripped the opportunity that the child grows unexpectedly this loves flatter oneself namely, they are excessive value a score, let children lived to remain book only, theorematic.
如今的家长，经常包办代替，剥夺了孩子成长的机会竟自以为这就是爱，她们过度重视分数，让孩子们生活只剩下了书本，定理。
We should be free-standing, both neither is to reject to help, also not be to count another person, want to learn independent life, no matter be study, still live, should free-standing. Of course, parents also should not know to let children learn only, also want to let the child there is his day on life competence.
我们应该自立，既不是拒绝帮助，也不是依赖他人，要学会独立生活，不管是学习，还是生活，都应该自立。当然，父母也应不要只知让孩子们学习，也要让孩子在生活本领上有自己的一片天。