Around spent the time of half month, land add add turned over a hand to get on this " teach thunder a letter from home " , this was 2016 the version of interpret forest press.
前后花了半个月的时间，陆陆续续翻完了手上这本《傅雷家书》，这是2016年译林出版社的版本。
Young son Fu Min of Fu Lei is in 2016 “ is written in after making up, be being written down again since a letter from home of Fu Lei of ‘ of income of textbook of Chinese of two years of middle schools after two ’ , the alleged ‘ high school student of all sorts of tort version is new a letter from home of thunder of teach of class mark ’ emerges in endlessly, I am right of those cull phrases but not meaning medley and unscramble multifariously object very much, consider as ‘ cannot see the woods for the trees ’ . Actually, parental family letter is not to publish creation, it is common family letter only, write in ……” of word of paper the daily life of a family
傅雷的小儿子傅敏在2016年的编后又记中写到“自从二〇〇四年中学语文课本收入‘傅雷家书两则’后，各种侵权版本的所谓‘中学生新课标’傅雷家书层出不穷，我对那些寻章摘句的拼凑以及五花八门的解读很不以为然，认为是‘见树不见林’。其实，父母的家信不是为发表而创作，只是普通的家信，写在纸上的家常话……”
Teaching material always garbles be used to, the person that the standard result that reads understanding often links original work becomes aware amazed. Remind designedly so, if want to buy " teach thunder a letter from home " , this version of interpret forest press is pretty good.
教材一贯断章取义惯了，阅读理解的标准答案往往连原作者都觉惊诧。所以特意提醒，如果想买《傅雷家书》，译林出版社的这个版本是不错的。
Resemble character of teach quick place, this book is common family letter compile truly, be full of the impression of garrulous long-winded be favored with so, the literary work that no matter be Fu Lei's literary work or its madam Zhumei,fragrances. Such a letter from home is not to do what read at a heat, can day-to-day digest a few. I suspect even, I cannot keep the content that I want to convey at a heat, because really so trifling that tighten.
就像傅敏所言，这书确是普通的家信辑录，所以尽是絮絮叨叨的底色，无论是傅雷的手笔还是其夫人朱梅馥的手笔。这样的家书是做不到一口气读完的，只能逐日消化一些。我甚至怀疑，我都不能一口气写完我所想要表达的内容，因为实在琐碎得紧。
Fu Lei is famous interpreter everybody and literary essayist.
傅雷是著名的翻译大家和文艺评论家。
Regard an interpreter as the home, main in order to translate Luo Man? Of Luo Lan " John? The Si Duo that capture profit's husband " , of red accept " artistic philosophy " , of Baerzake " tall old man " , and the book of the person such as Fu Ertai is famous. Say artful also, the screen of before a few days of Kindle protects indulgence still pushing " Fu Lei is classical translation complete works " (in all 45) , can saying is composing quite abundant.
作为翻译家，主要以翻译罗曼？罗兰的《约翰？克利斯朵夫》、丹纳的《艺术哲学》、巴尔扎克的《高老头》、以及伏尔泰等人的著作闻名。说来也巧，前几日kindle的屏保特惠还在推一套《傅雷经典译文全集》（共45册），可说是著作颇丰了。
And as literary essayist, serious gravity of Fu Lei is reputation is outer. Yang Jiang once had written an article to tell Fu Lei's anecdote, said to once translated an essay, it is not quite good that self-conscious interpret is gotten, the result is praised by Fu Lei. Because Fu Lei is all along earnest close, so Yang Jiang becomes him is as usual is perfunctory, then as usual is condescending. As a result Fu Lei couldn't help, break out on the spot: “ Yang Jiang, do you know? My praising is not easy. ” this is interesting one act really. Home Fu Lei, with Qian Zhongshu, Yang Jiang's couple it is best friend, allude at also having more in a letter from home, best friend even at any time fall out, visible Fu Lei is the person's gravity.
而作为文艺评论家，傅雷的认真严肃是声名在外的。杨绛曾经写过一篇文章讲傅雷的逸事，说曾经翻译了一篇散文，自觉译得不太好，结果被傅雷称赞。因为傅雷一向严肃得紧，所以杨绛就当他是照例敷衍，于是便照例谦逊。结果傅雷忍不住了，当场发作：“杨绛，你知道吗？我的称赞是不容易的。”这实在是有趣的一幕。傅雷家，与钱钟书、杨绛夫妇是至交，于家书中亦多有提及，至交尚且随时翻脸，可见傅雷为人之严肃。
Teach thunder a letter from home, basically be a letter from home of Fu Lei's couple and cornstalk Fu Cong. Fu Lei is right two sons, do not have a bowl of Shui Duanping. Fu Cong is world-renowned pianist, the beauty that has ” of “ piano poet praise, the appreciation of Fu Lei's couple to Fu Cong and love far very Yu Fumin, the incisively and vividly that show the ground flows in a letter from home.
傅雷家书，主要是傅雷夫妇与长子傅聪的家书。傅雷对两个儿子，并没有一碗水端平。傅聪是世界著名的钢琴演奏家，有“钢琴诗人”的美誉，傅雷夫妇对于傅聪的欣赏和喜爱远甚于傅敏，在家书中流露地淋漓尽致。
However the father love that Fu Lei is permeated with, not be tender and clement however that kind, however severity is slashing even. Comfortable exterminate of good friend building writes “ in the politely in an artical used as a preface to Fu Lei the method of that appearance check child, object very much however. ” arrives is him Fu Lei, true disposition is revealed, in child of “ of the openness in the heart with Fu Cong, I mistreated you, I I am sorry forever you, I forever atone for cannot fill this kind of fault! …… conscience is permanent must not quiet. ”“…… is namely in the home, did not rare deficient moral to you and your mom thing ……”
然而傅雷洋溢着的父爱，却并不是温柔宽厚的那类，而是严厉甚至是苛刻的。傅雷的好友楼适夷在代序中委婉地写到“对于傅雷那样管束孩子的方法，却是很不以为然的。”到是傅雷自己，真性情流露，在与傅聪的心中坦诚“孩子，我虐待了你，我永远对不起你，我永远赎补不了这种罪过！……良心永久不得安宁。”“……就是在家里，对你和***妈做了不少有亏良心的事……”
Teach thunder godchild is extremely severe, it is scarcely close human relationship, madam Zhu Meifu often also gets the torment on spirit. Fu Lei is in a letter from home, although face a son to repent, often raising all sorts of requirements ceaselessly again at the same time, this is a contradiction really person. I can think even, " teach thunder a letter from home " can be chosen teaching material and teach key link to recommend read booklist, whether a few people think this kind of severe wolf pa teachs the course that means is a grow into useful timber.
傅雷教子极严，又是几乎不近人情，夫人朱梅馥也常常受到精神上的折磨。傅雷在家书中，虽然一面对儿子忏悔，一面又往往不断地提着各种要求，这实在是个矛盾的很的人。我甚至于会想，《傅雷家书》之所以会被选入教材及教纲推荐阅读书目，是否有一些人认为这种严厉的狼爸教育方式是成才之道。
Fu Lei serves as literary essayist, learn Chinese and Western of be linked together, flower French all beautiful, learn to raise strength to be different from general. Fu Cong learns piano, although Fu Lei does not have the practice of classical music, but the understanding to classical music and evaluation, have insight very deeply however. Besides music, fu Lei is in a letter from home artistic to literature, poetry, brushwork discussing also is force of work of it serves to show, can say " teach thunder a letter from home " it is the artistic accomplishment reader that has comparatived originally simply. However also absolutely, tell objectively, if was not had deep love for or do not have proper understanding to art, read will can feel dull dull.
傅雷作为文艺评论家，学贯中西，英法文俱佳，学养功底非同一般。傅聪是学钢琴的，傅雷虽然没有古典音乐的实践，但是对于古典音乐的理解和评价，却十分深刻有见地。除了音乐，傅雷在家书中对于文学、诗歌、绘画艺术的探讨亦是足见功力，可以说《傅雷家书》简直是一本相当好的艺术修养读物。然而也正是如此，客观地讲，如果对艺术没有热爱或没有一定的了解，读来会觉得索然无味的。
Discussion music and art, it is the one part content of a letter from home only, a lot of moment, fu Lei is the success and failure that discussing life with Fu Cong. Fu Lei often says, fu Cong's disposition and he very photograph resembling, sensitive and amorous. Be helpful for art, go against the life however.
讨论音乐与艺术，只是家书的一部分内容，很多时候，傅雷是在与傅聪探讨人生的得失。傅雷常常说，傅聪的性格与他极为相像，敏感而多情。有利于艺术，却不利于生活。
Fu Cong marries 3 times all one's life, marriage does not calculate twist, but also be to have turn from side to side one time, this resembles actually extremely Fu Lei. Zhu Meifu once admonished in a letter from home Fu Cong “ I feel your love not only, one catchs, in your present age, do not calculate little. ”
傅聪一生结婚三次，婚姻不算坎坷，但也是有一番折腾的，这其实像极了傅雷。朱梅馥曾经在家书中告诫傅聪“我觉得你的爱情不专，一个接着一个，在你现在的年龄，不算少了。”
When Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu are engaged 20 years old, zhu Meifu 15 years old at that time, it is its cousin. After be engaged, teach thunder immediately goes to France to study abroad. Fu Lei arrives France, immediately fell in love with De Lin of French woman Ma, write to maternal requirement break off an engagement. But result before long, fu Lei discovers Madelin and much person to love concerns, anger and part company, even within an inch of commits suicide. So Fu Lei writes “ in a letter from home country of my 20 annual expenditure, around going abroad and your mom had been engaged, but 4 years when going abroad among, to her view 3 biquadratic are changed, shake very badly. This concrete example can regard your referenced ……” as this very much still is only.
傅雷与朱梅馥订婚时20岁，朱梅馥当时15岁，是其表妹。订婚后，傅雷随即赴法国留学。傅雷到法国，随即爱上了法国女子玛德琳，并写信给母亲要求退婚。但是结果不久，傅雷发现玛德琳与多人有恋爱关系，愤而分手，甚至差点自杀。所以傅雷在家书中写到“我二十岁出国，出国前后和***妈已经订婚，但在出国的四年中间，对她的看法三番四次的改变，动摇得很厉害。这个实在的例子很可以作为你的参考……”这还只是一出。
The extramarital love —— of pomegranate of Home Lei Yucheng returns teach of more famous —— of a paragraph of legal case by Zhang Ailing intact write into the novel " Yan Baoyan sends beautiful building to meet " . Fu Lei and bang millet are old acquaintance, and the 3rd wife that get married and is bang millet. Get married at the same time and, get married pomegranate and teach Home Lei Yi are neighbour. And Zhang Ailing and get married pomegranate is boudoir honey. The character concerns in the main such. Because criticize Zhang Ailing's novel,Fu Lei is, composition and Zhang Ailing knot issued Liang Zi, be written into the novel by Zhang Ailing then.
更为著名的一段公案——傅雷与成家榴的婚外恋——还被张爱玲原封不动写成了小说《殷宝滟送花楼会》。傅雷与刘海粟是旧交，而成家和是刘海粟的第三任妻子。同时成家和、成家榴与傅雷一家又是邻居。而张爱玲与成家榴是闺蜜。人物关系大抵如此。傅雷是因为批评张爱玲的小说，作文与张爱玲结下了梁子，于是被张爱玲写进了小说里。
I saw the picture that carries on the book, zhu Meifu grows quite good-lookingly actually. Allegedly, play skill is well when the missonary school reads in those days piano, fu Lei falls in love at first sight. And get married pomegranate, can find on the net get married the group photo of sibling and Fu Lei's couple, grow very good-lookingly also. The Xiao Fangfang after Hong Kong shadow is to get married mixed daughter, say according to her her aunt is a belle really then, pardonable also Fu Lei wants fetch to pulled a dream to entangle.
我看了书上刊载的照片，朱梅馥其实长得相当好看。据说，当年在教会学校读书时弹得一手好钢琴，是傅雷一见钟情的。而成家榴，网上能找到成家兄妹与傅雷夫妇的合影，长得也非常好看。香港影后萧芳芳便是成家和的女儿，据她说她阿姨那真是美女，也难怪傅雷要魂牵梦萦了。
Before “ is being written to think back to in the letter that Zhu Meifu gives Fu Cong later, I follow the case of your father, in those days you are 5 years old, the little brother is 2 years old, the fight of my heart is acuteness, for resentment, cannot bear, I can go; But I consider repeatedly, feeling is not so simple, I went, the child should bear hardships, I not so should capricious, selfish, sacrificed for ‘ my ’ your happiness. I eventually ground of stoop to compromise was borne come down. ……”
朱梅馥在后来给傅聪的信中写到“回想到二十年前，我跟你爸爸的情形，那时你五岁，弟弟二岁，我内心的斗争是剧烈的，为了怨恨，不能忍受，我可以一走了之；可是我再三考虑，觉得不是那么简单，我走了，孩子要吃苦，我不应该那么任性、自私，为了一个‘我’而牺牲了你们的幸福。我终于委曲求全地忍受了下来。……”
Zhu Meifu is the wife of a clement mercy and mother, although had not left ocean, but culture level also extremely tall. Besides the life that should take care of the whole family, it is the assistant on teach thunder job more. Fu Lei's a letter from home and interpret draft are by Zhu Meifu copy out is copied, the word is written very beautifully. A few affection in Fu Lei are off the rails in, showed huge is borne and exercise restraint. Occupy Fu Min to recollect, should get married only at that time pomegranate is not beside Fu Lei, fu Lei misfires almost, it is Zhumei fragrances to get married every time pomegranate calls, make her fast come in the home.
朱梅馥是一个宽厚仁慈的妻子与母亲，虽然没有留过洋，但是文化水平亦极高。除了要照顾一家老少的生活，更是傅雷工作上的助手。傅雷的家书和译稿都是由朱梅馥誊抄，字写得极为漂亮。在傅雷的几次情感出轨中，表现出了极大的隐忍和克制。据傅敏回忆，当时只要成家榴不在傅雷身边，傅雷就几乎无法工作，每次都是朱梅馥给成家榴打电话，让她快到家里来。
Explain past events of these the Eight Diagrams, arriving is not to want Hei Fulei. Although having a variety of can'ting bear, fu Lei's couple is done not have however in a letter from home evasive. Fu Lei often reviews his shortcoming in a letter from home, teach Fu Cong not to weigh skip at the same time his the track of an overturned cart. How to look, this old gentleman is a person of open and upright. Go up somehow, read " teach thunder a letter from home " one kind reads Russell " confess is recorded " feeling.
讲这些八卦往事，到不是要黑傅雷。虽然有着种种不堪，傅雷夫妇在家书中却并没有回避。傅雷常常在家书中检讨自己的缺点，并同时教导傅聪不要重蹈他的覆辙。怎么看，这位老先生都是一位磊落的人。某种程度上，读《傅雷家书》有一种读卢梭的《忏悔录》的感觉。
Fu Lei is pounded in opposing right motion 57 years, right-wing cap is taken. In 3 years of difficult period, the life got very big impact, health of body and mind also is destroyed badly. When every time catastrophe begins, fu Lei's couple can'ts bear be insulted, in anger die, yu Jiazhong of in pairs hang oneself. When commit suicide, they spread quilt on the ground, the sound when preventing bench to be kicked alarms neighbour, this detail can react very much their strength of character.
傅雷在五七年反右运动中受到冲击，右派的帽子带到六一年。在三年困难时期中，生活受到了很大影响，身心健康也受到严重摧残。当六六年十年浩劫开始的时候，傅雷夫妇不堪受辱，愤然弃世，双双自缢于家中。自尽时，他们在地上铺了棉被，防止凳子踢倒时的声音惊动邻居，这个细节很能反应他们的风骨。
The posthumous papers of Fu Lei's couple, I its cento hereat, read will can't help ining tears like that:
傅雷夫妇的遗书，我把它摘录于此，读来不禁潸然：
Person show:
人秀：
Although the so-called evidence of a crime that oppose a party (one side small glasses and a piece of faded old illustrated magazine or newspaper) be in the ferret in our home, of 100 Mo Bian, the thing that but we also do not admit to death,is ourselves (the thing that the manage inside box of real department deposit gives) . Even if we have ten million crime, never had had idea of change of weather however. The evidence of a crime that we also know ferret although find it hard to vindicate oneself, in brilliant Communist Party leader and great wool chairman lead the People's Republic of China under, come anything but so and sentence severe punishment. Just suffer a wrong is not white, cannot the day of rinse is even sadder than be imprisoned. It is to teach a Fu Cong of a traitor to come solely what is more,the rather that, before people already even death would not expiate all his crimes! More resemble what is more,the rather that what we come from old society this kind is fecal early should exit historical arena automatically!
尽管所谓反党罪证（一面小镜子和一张褪色的旧画报）是在我们家里搜出的，百口莫辩的，可是我们至死也不承认是我们自己的东西（实系寄存箱内理出之物）。我们纵有千万罪行，却从来不曾有过变天思想。我们也知道搜出的罪证虽然有口难辩，在英明的共产党领导和伟大的毛主席领导之下的中华人民共和国，决不至因之而判重刑。只是含冤不白，无法洗刷的日子比坐牢还要难过。何况光是教育出一个叛徒傅聪来，在人民面前已经死有余辜了！更何况像我们这种来自旧社会的渣滓早应该自动退出历史舞台了！
Because you are afterbirth elder brother of Mei Fu, because we do not have close kin flesh and blood, thing of deal with problems arising from an accident can entrust you only. If you are accepted with footing relation inconvenience, processing goes again after class or forensic ask for instructions up please.
因为你是梅馥的胞兄，因为我们别无至亲骨肉，善后事只能委托你了。如你以立场关系不便接受，则请向上级或法院请示后再行处理。
Entrust several things to be as follows:
委托数事如下：
One, 55·29 of chummage of Dai Fujiu month yuan (add cash) .
一、代付九月份房租55·29元（附现款）。
2, Wu Kang building (bottom of sea route of the Huaihe River) 606 rooms Shen Zhongzhang Tuodaixiuaomi eggplant is automatic male watch, ask reassign.
二、武康大楼（淮海路底）606室沈仲章托代修奥米茄自动男手表一只，请交还。
3, money of involuntary discharge of urine of surplus of reason old mother, handle by person show.
三、故老母余剩遗款，由人秀处理。
4, old pocket watch (steel) , old small female table, give baby-sitter Zhou Judi.
四、旧挂表（钢）一只，旧小女表一只，赠保姆周菊娣。
5, one paper gives 600 yuan of deposit receipt Zhou Judi, make interim living cost. She is working people, lifetime Gu is bitter, we do not wish be put into trouble of her without reason.
五、六百元存单一纸给周菊娣，作过渡时期生活费。她是劳动人民，一生孤苦，我们不愿她无故受累。
6, our home deposits check of aunt teach appearance single paper 600 yuan, ask reassign.
六、姑母傅仪寄存我们家存单一纸六百元，请交还。
7, the couplet of check of aunt teach appearance justice receipt of mountain villa graveyard one paper, look for this through after Gong Weibing ransacks, be being alled over must not, be very sorry.
七、姑母傅仪寄存之联义山庄墓地收据一纸，此次经过红卫兵搜查后遍觅不得，很抱歉。
8, check of aunt teach appearance the decorations of our home, be taken by Gong Weibing at the same time from some with us confiscate, can with deposit receipt 3 paper (in all 370 yuan) small deposit 3 pieces, as compensation.
八、姑母傅仪寄存我们家之饰物，与我们自有的同时被红卫兵取去没收，只能以存单三纸（共370元）又小额储蓄三张，作为赔偿。
9, check of Zhu Chun of 3 elder sister the decorations of our home, also be confiscated along with all the others, ask acting apology. Two of her check suitcase (3 buildings) be sealed temporarily, one of china wooden case, after waiting for the pubic open the envelop in the future, by you era is gotten. Still furnished number, ask Zhou Judi knows.
九、三姐朱纯寄存我们家之饰物，亦被一并充公，请代道歉。她寄存衣箱贰只（三楼）暂时被封，瓷器木箱壹只，将来待公家启封后由你代领。尚有家具数件，问周菊娣便知。
10, old for private use abstruse rice eggplant is automatic male watch, old male watch, this give drafting quick with the daughter-in-law, but fear hampering their political footing, reason asks person show to be handled freely.
十、旧自用奥米茄自动男手表一只，又旧男手表一只，本拟给敏儿与儿媳，但恐妨碍他们的政治立场，故请人秀自由处理。
11, show paper money 53. 30 yuan, regard us as cremate cost.
十一、现钞53。30元，作为我们火葬费。
12, the furniture that upstairs Song Jia uses, press sheet to call in by Chen Shutao.
十二、楼上宋家借用之家具，由陈叔陶按单收回。
13, from furnished, manage by the your department. The pubic of pending of books calligraphy and painting decides.
十三、自有家具，由你处理。图书字画听候公家决定。
Make you are our be put into trouble, really disturbed, but also can not hold in the palm without other, of the forgive of forgive!
使你为我们受累，实在不安，但也别无他人可托，谅之谅之！
Teach thunder plum fragrances
傅雷梅馥
On September 2, 1966 night
一九六六年九月二日夜
" teach thunder a letter from home " the domestic wind family education that if just regard as,revealed teacher family name, think it is OK to have the place that draw lessons from, rather flow at utility.
《傅雷家书》如果只是当作展示了傅氏的家风家教，并以为有可以借鉴之处，就未免流于功利了。
I break a paragraph of word that loves Lou Kuoyi to say in an artical used as a preface however, the correct path of “ life, it is to depend on advancing ceaselessly, and everything actual, also be in ground of in big strides to stride ahead really. Our after-thought goes, also want the advancement that did not come to be mixed today just about, increase a minute of power. ”
我倒是破爱楼适夷在代序中说的一段话，“人生的正道，是在于不断地前进，而现实的一切，也确实在大踏步地向前迈进。我们回想过去，也正是要为今天和未来的前进，增添一分力量。”
This is the epistolary market that suits to often break up originally.
这是一本适合常常翻起的书信集。(文/鲁爷)