As the high school student, be in traitorous with confused period. Teacher all day pour exhortation into sb's ear, read, good to take an examination of high school, but be in the school to see textbook,do not read namely? More or less did the friend beside talk about love? Parents says Tan Lian love is too early however bad, who should listen to?
作为中学生，正处于叛逆和迷茫的时期。老师终日耳提面命，读书，为了考好的高中，可是在学校看课本不就是读书吗？身边的朋友多少谈了恋爱？父母却说谈恋爱太早不好，该听谁的？
Father sees I am confused, suggest I am read " 12 letters that give a young person " . Zhu Guangqian writes a high school student technically this book, discuss different topic with epistolary form
爸爸见我迷茫，便建议我读《给青年的十二封信》。这本书是朱光潜专门写给中学生的，以书信的形式探讨不同的话题
For instance amative respect, the high school student has a few good opinion more or less to the opposite sex, some affection reside the loves early student that goes up with reason, talked about cent even, divided talk. I think this is planted circumstance, resemble a plant, applied fertilizer first, grow very quickly, what leave temporarily is flourish, but of withered fast also. Without the love of corporeal foundation, what to take to talk, what to take to be in charge of? In life so reason controls more. For summary, what age does what thing, go thinking with reason.
比如恋爱方面，中学生对异性或多或少有一些好感，有些情感居与理智上的早恋的学生，甚至谈了分，分了谈。我认为这种情况，就像一盆植物，先施了肥，长得很快，一时开的茂盛，但凋零的也快。没有物质基础的爱情，拿什么谈，拿什么负责？所以在人生中理性支配更多。总结来说，什么年龄做什么事，用理性去思考。
My friend, she begins to talked about love to write a composition, she likes the graph that send check to give me. Change do a man student, whether can you also send check scheme to look to brother? Authorities person fan, the onlookers see most clearly, him little imagine privacy has a harm. I did not criticize her with serious tone, I hope she is in only rational to on the good impression of the opposite sex many somes, this kind of good impression is not real love, how long can be you maintained again? It is good admittedly to the pursuit of good love, but if do not promote the capability of oneself, be enmeshed in this kind of good impression only, cannot get real love. Picture " close Ju " in, the hero carries the real operation of the ” of the ”“ bell strains of music accompanied by drumbeats of friend of a twenty-five-stringed plucked instrument of “ musical instrument, increase the capacity of own itself, ability can attract a woman student.
我的一个朋友，她开始谈恋爱作文了，她喜欢发截图给我。换做男生，是否也会发截图给兄弟看？当局者迷，旁观者清，殊不知自己的隐私有危害。我没有以严肃的语气去批评她，我只希望她在对异性的好感上多一些理性，这种好感并不是真正的爱情，又能维持多久呢？对美好爱情的追求固然是好的，但是如果不提升自身的能力，只沉浸在这种好感中，是得不到真正的爱情的。像《关雎》中，主人公通过“琴瑟友之”“钟鼓乐之”的实际行动，加上自己本身的能力，才会吸引女生。
This book and " teach thunder a letter from home " have a few same place, to this kind of rational emphasis, how to live. Mr Zhu nods a labyrinth in confused middle finger, poke dense fog, be like him chatting with you. He resembles lantern person same, taking the expects pair of reason call to the high school student, doing a lantern person that pokes dense fog silently.
这本书和《傅雷家书》有一些相同处，对于这种理性的强调，如何生活。朱先生在迷茫中指点迷津，拨开迷雾，好像他就在和你交谈。他就像提灯人一样，带着对中学生的期盼对理性的号召，默默地做着一个拨开迷雾的提灯人。(文/王莉文)