In the life, we always can encounter a lot of setbacks, some people save atone for in what await others, but some him people are him save atone for. When encountering difficulty, might as well oneself try to solve, “ day goes be good at, gentleman with constantly strive to become stronger. ” relies on other blindly is cannot from go up at all those who solve a problem.
生活中，我们总会遇到许多挫折，有的人在等待别人的救赎，但有的人自己就是自己的救赎。当遇到困难时，不妨自己试着解决，“天行健，君子以自强不息。”一味依靠他人是不能从根本上解决问题的。
In each respects, we ourselves should create an opportunity for oneself, strenuous up, indefatigable pursuit, admire with its beg others, try hard as oneself.
在各个方面，我们都应该自己为自己创造机会，奋发向上，不懈追求，与其仰求别人，不如自己努力。
Wild bluebonnet decline was defeated, believe the sun can rise the following day, oneself can anabiosis eventually. As expected, the sun rises, bluebonnet anabiosised. But, if sun in succession day or a few in succession didn't rise on time? Is the story still met satisfactory? The answer cans be imagined. So, ask for help is inferior to begging oneself, when facing difficulty, we ourselves ought to hold our destiny, only oneself just are the host with unripe people on one's own side.
荒野的矢车菊萎败了，相信太阳第二天会升起，自己终能复苏。果然，太阳升起来了，矢车菊复苏了。可是，如果太阳一连几天或一连几个月没有按时升起呢？故事还会圆满吗？答案是可想而知的。所以，求人不如求己，在面对困难时，我们应当自己把握住自己的命运，只有自己才是自己人生的主人。
A person walks into temple in, genuflect kowtows before avalokitesvara resembles do obeisance to, but he discovers to there also is a person beside oneself also genuflect is over there. Then the individual grows with avalokitesvara exactly like, after an inquiry, be informed that individual is avalokitesvara. Avalokitesvara told him himself to also encounter a tired tickler, nevertheless avalokitesvara knows, ask for help is inferior to begging oneself. Yes, ask for help is inferior to begging oneself, find out the method that save oneself, place a hope at others perhaps can be full marks only / all in vain.
有一个人走进庙里，跪在观音像前叩拜，但他发现自己身边也有一个人也跪在那里。那个人长得和观音一模一样，一番询问后，得知那个人就是观音。观音告诉他自己也遇到了一件困难事，不过观音知道，求人不如求己。是的，求人不如求己，找出自救的方法，寄希望于别人也许只能是满分/一场空。
Shi Tailong of giant star of top level movie is born in poor familial, after countless program ponders, he thought of to become an actor, in refusing of Hollywood, flower of history peaceful dragon became smooth all savings. Then, he works in Hollywood will feed oneself. After a few years, shi Tailong gained an opportunity eventually by right of his effort. A person's mind of whole body of history peaceful dragon that prepares through a few years threw a TV series in, and this serials achieved complete at that time beauty highest close inspect a record. Think now, if Shi Tailong just awaits inactively at that time, do not go striving for, does he still have an opportunity to gain today's success?
顶尖级电影巨星史泰龙出生在一个贫苦的家族，在无数次的规划思索后，他想到了当演员，在好莱坞的一次次拒绝中，史泰龙花光了所有积蓄。于是，他便在好莱坞打工来养活自己。几年后，史泰龙凭借自己的努力终于获得了一次机会。经过几年准备的史泰龙全身心地投入了电视连续剧中，而这部连续剧创下了当时全美最高收视记录。现在想想，如果当时史泰龙只是消极地等待，不去争取，他还有机会取得今天的成就吗？
Regnaller gentleman ticks off carry out by Wuwang humiliate, be reduced to poverty is slave. But he is docile and obedient to Wu Wang, be without complaint. After 3 years, wu Wang believes he has submitted oneself to the rule of eventually, put the couple that tick off carry out to go back to the motherland. After the course prepares for a long time, gou Jian defeated Wu Guo eventually. From this history thing, because others rescues them to his,the success that we can see Gou Jian is not, the perseverance that relies on him himself however is finished break up dish. So, ask for help is inferior to begging already.
越王国君勾践被吴王羞辱，沦落为奴隶。但他对吴王百依百顺，毫无怨言。三年后，吴王终于相信他已经臣服，放勾践夫妇回国。经过长期准备后，勾践终于打败了吴国。从这个史事，我们可以看出勾践的成功不是因为别人对他的施救，而是靠他自己的毅力完成翻盘。所以，求人不如求已。
“ is poor and beneficial firm, do not drop the annals of high official position. ” is in difficult unfavorable situation, we should learn more gritty, should learn not to lose tall Yuan Zhizhi more, it is control of power to make decisions in him hand, rely on oneself to gain a success. After all, ask for help is inferior to begging oneself.
“穷且益坚，不坠青云之志。”在艰难的处境中，我们更要学会坚韧不拔，更要学会不丢失高远之志，把决定权掌握在自己手里，靠自己取得成功。毕竟，求人不如求己。(文/黄诗涵)