Returning do not have read through " Fu Lei a letter from home " before, I think Fu Lei is a commonner father only for more a bit more severe just. Can read this postscript when me, I just am understanding the bludgeon education that Fu Lei belongs to one hundred percent to the son's education really.
在还没通读《傅雷家书》前，我以为傅雷只是一个较普通父亲来说更加严厉一点而已。可当我读完了这本书后，我才真真正正了解到傅雷对于儿子的教育属于不折不扣的棍棒教育。
Here the book leaves piece the first epistolary in, fu Lei ever had written a such words to son Fu Cong: "Had had pity on 45 years old, father sex talent is real arousal. " can be imagined, still be in when Fu Cong childhood period, got how many blow of father. Write in the book: The Fu Lei in those days is right Fu Cong exercise " monopolize type " education, he manages daily life of Fu Cong and study skill, manage personally, carry green Www.0279.NeT to give doubt from not concessional Fu Cong. Exchange a word for, the Fu Cong when resembles a marionette same, hold the post of a person to control, be subject to absolutely. Beyond spends the Fu Cong after be brought up outside foreign, and right now Yan Fu eventually " awareness " ! He realised he is right deeply certainly of too severe home, suddenly turn one's head, the son already left him far to go... the heart in those days is prickled extremely, resemble inserting the knife on the heart, let oneself breathe hard.
在此书开篇的第一封书信中，傅雷曾给儿子傅聪写过这样一句话：“可怜过了45岁，父性才真正觉醒。”可想而知，当傅聪还在幼年时期，就受到了父亲的多少打击。书中写道：那时的傅雷对傅聪行使“包办式”教育，他将傅聪的日常生活与学习一手操持，亲自管理，从不容许傅聪提绿色Www.0279.NeT出质疑。换句话来说，儿时的傅聪就像一个提线木偶一样，任人支配，绝对服从。长大后的傅聪以远度外洋，而此时的严父终于“觉悟”！他深深地认识到了自己对儿子的过于严家管教了，蓦然回首，儿子已离自己远去……那时的心无比刺痛，就像一把把刀插在了心上，让自己难以呼吸。
This wanting will " I am sorry " speak a mouth to the son personally, discover however already was in abroad personally from him, be forced to put this kind of speech in epistolary medium. In the letter those: "The child, I mistreated you, I I am sorry forever you, I fill forever atone for not this kind of fault! " " poor child, what how your childhood follows me completely is so similar? " " I did not love you, resemble loving deep-feltly so now, and the juncture that loving the most deep-feltly in this, came unluckily parting! " ... each word, each word, each punctuation mark, reflect gave this " Yan Fu " confess, hope to get a son excuse. The feel sad after this can'ts help letting a person read unceasingly.
本想将“对不起”亲自对儿子说出口，却发现自他已身在国外，便只好将此类话语放在书信中了。信中那些：“孩子，我虐待了你，我永远对不起你，我永远补赎不了这种罪过！”“可怜的孩子，怎么你的童年全跟我的那么相似呢？”“我从来没爱你，像现在这样爱得深切，而正在这爱得最深切的关头，偏偏来了离别！”……每一句话，每一个字，每一个标点符号，都体现出了这位“严父”的忏悔，希望得到儿子的原谅。这不禁让人读后心酸不已。
" teach thunder a letter from home " it is a father to the son teach with confabulate, the about-face that also drew up the manner of this father, disposition, education is watched however, he teachs the son's humanness ways of life in the letter, teach a son to pay attention to the path of study, the course that teachs son hardworking and thrifty housekeeping... in the life that associates to me again, also understood why father wants to father to me impose surelysubject sb to discipline, let me clutch learned.
《傅雷家书》是一个父亲对儿子的教导与谈心，却也写出了这位父亲的态度、性格、教育观的大转变，他在信中去教儿子的为人处世之道，教儿子注重学习之道，教儿子勤俭持家之道……再联想到我的生活中，也明白了父亲为什么要对我严加管教，让我抓紧学习了。
Read " teach thunder a letter from home " , I understood, father loves also as mother love same, it is great. Father loves to ours often unidentified manner, can be in only the life is reflected in medium dribs and drabs. They are sturdy to the child's love and dark, so, father loves to be like hill, cherish please get along with father every are divided when every!
读《傅雷家书》，我明白了，父爱也如同母爱一样，是伟大的。父亲对我们的爱往往不明声色，只会在生活中的点点滴滴中体现。他们对孩子的爱坚定而又深沉，所以，父爱如山，请珍惜与父亲相处的每时每分吧！