Good bowl and good bowl photograph are touched, those who give out is ringing and euphonic sound; And defective goods cannot produce pleasant resonance with good bowl however. This carries the tricks of the trade of the bowl namely, want the good bowl with true winkle, the bowl in him hand must enough and outstanding, ability and truly outstanding bowl generation are resonant.
好碗与好碗相碰，发出的是清脆悦耳的声音；而次品却无法与好碗产生动听的共鸣。这就是挑碗的诀窍，要想挑出真正的好碗，自己手中的碗必须足够优秀，才能与真正优秀的碗产生共鸣。
Be an upright person social Yi Ran, we can come up against a lot of people in life, associate with the friend of a lot of have a common goal, accompany and spend lifetime all right. Alleged things of one kind come together, person with group cent, what give out euphonic resonance with good bowl is good bowl, the person that with outstanding person the knot is earnest also is paragon necessarily. Accordingly, the “ friend that wants him promotion encircles the quality of ” , want to promote oneself height above all. Want to encounter the person with pinnacled body, should climb hard first climb, reach high.
做人处世亦然，我们会在生命中碰到许多人，结交许多志同道合的朋友，结伴而行过完一生。所谓物以类聚，人以群分，与好碗发出悦耳的共鸣的便是好碗，与优秀的人结为挚者也必然是优秀之人。因此，想要提升自己的“朋友圈”的质量，就首先要提升自己的高度。想要遇到身在高处的人，就先要努力攀爬，到达高处。
Think absolutely of the ancients friendly feelings: Li Duyou affection is passed to be a much-told story, shi Xian and poetic emperor nature are met awake photograph cherish; Li Qing is illuminated with Zhao Mingcheng 2 people have a common goal, the talent matchs a talented woman to become heaven-made union eventually, the union of two outstanding people makes them more outstanding; Sun Ce and too Shi Ci loves each other to kill the scarce warmth in the knot becomes a large number of heroes of chaos caused by war of the Three Kingdoms for the bosom friend and rising. Modern friendly feelings follows this pattern likewise: Each other admire Marx and Engels, keep abreast of hand in hand, become revolutionary precursor jointly; Liang Saicheng and continuous heavy rain of golden high mountain are Chinese the literary world two great leading authorities, cherish of same awake photograph, the ties goes the friendship of a paragraph of envy making a person. The person of visible Gao Shuiping always can find as proportional as his actual strength associate, the collision ability of talent and talent bumps into a considerable success. Hero of heroic total cherish, want to be a bosom friend with Du Fu knot, be about to have poetics human nature of Li Bai, the person that approach close of as identical as him ambition, ability, this is normal human feelings.
想古人情谊正是如此：李杜友情被传为佳话，诗仙与诗圣自然会惺惺相惜；李清照与赵明诚二人志同道合，才子配才女终成天作之合，两个优秀的人的结合让他们更加优秀；孙策与太史慈相爱相杀结为挚友成为三国战乱群雄并起中少见的温情。近现代的情谊同样遵循这个规律：马克思与恩格斯彼此欣赏，携手并进，共同成为革命先驱者；梁思成和金岳霖乃中国文坛两大泰斗，同样惺惺相惜，结出一段令人羡慕的友情。可见高水平的人总能找到与自己的实力相称的同伴，才华与才华的碰撞才能撞出可观的成就。英雄总惜英雄，想要与杜甫结为挚友，就要有李白的诗情人性，接近与自己志向相同、能力相近者，这是人之常情。
Is actual strength disparate cannot become a friend? Not be of course. The person of most success is amiable. Although you can be encountered,be acquainted with its even, will surely not intersect with him however, bosom friend, ascend his association encircles the body. At best is general friend only, it is a bosom friend very hard with his knot. After all, actual strength not good person be forced slavishly dependent, pick up phrases from others and show them off as one's own. After all, it is difficult that annals differs conspire, brambling cannot understand high aspirations forever, also target swan with grand the knot is a bosom friend impossibly forever. Uncle tooth is done not have without excellent musical instrument ability and a much-told story of running water of high mountain of Zhong Zi period; The ability that provides intermediate to do not have Jing world cannot be a bosom friend with Bao Shuya knot, mutual side is helped up. And incompetent Ming Xi ancestor can suffer Wei Zhongxian only order about; Puny Bei can be evil jointly with crafty and evil wolf only.
实力迥异就不能成为朋友吗？当然不是。大多数成功之人都是平易近人的。即使你能遇见甚至与其相识，却未必能与他相交、相知，跻身他的交往圈。充其量只是一般朋友，很难与他结为挚友。毕竟，实力不济者只好仰人鼻息、拾人牙慧。毕竟，志不同难共谋，燕雀永远无法理解鸿鹄之志，也永远不可能与鸿鹄结为挚友。伯牙没有高超的琴技就没有和钟子期高山流水的佳话；管仲没有惊世之才就无法与鲍叔牙结为知己，互相帮扶。而无能的明熹宗只能受魏忠贤的摆布；弱小的狈则只能与奸邪的狼共同为奸。
Want to compare a shoulder with the sun, be about to have the firm will like the strong assistant like roc and huge rock. Want with outstanding person accompany travel, be about to have as proportional as him actual strength. Want to have such actual strength, promote oneself hard with respect to the requirement, want the dignitary before the person, “ pain suffers after VIP first ” , only oneself try hard ceaselessly, ability is obtained approbate, ascend body more the circle of high quality scales, know more powerful person. Have stand erect altitude only, numerous hill of ability general view, look at farther scenery.
想要与太阳比肩，就要有大鹏般强壮的羽翼与磐石般坚强的毅力。想要与优秀的人结伴而行，就要有与他相称的实力。要有这样的实力，就要求努力提升自己，想要人前显贵，先要人后受“罪”，只有自己不断努力，才能获得认可，跻身更高档次的圈子，结识更强大的人。只有屹立高处，才能一览众山、望到更远的风景。
Ascend height is in, it is difficult to say to be done easily. All our current situations are him give a decision. Do not accumulate Kui pace not to have down to a thousand li, do not accumulate small stream without with Cheng Jianghai. It is very easy to decline from the summit, but mount the summit to need us however truly hardheaded pay hard, accordingly, the position that we must hold the most ablaze advances ceaselessly!
跻身高处，说来容易做起来难。我们的一切现状都是自己的付出所决定的。不积跬步无以至千里，不积小流无以成江海。从山顶跌落很容易，但爬上山顶却需要我们真正脚踏实地付出努力，因此，我们必须保持最激昂的状态不断前进！(文/田增炜)