From at the beginning, parents establishs below a lot of rule to me.
从一开始，父母就给我立下很多规矩。
From me begin to remember things rises to know, cannot the edge sees TV edge have a meal, the toy cannot want in shop act shamelessly. Be about to step the entrance door of nursery school, parents crouchs before me, playing my hand, ”“ is anteprandial if telling me to want “ to listen to a teacher should wash his hands ” ; Went up after elementary school, parents admonishs my “ attends class want ” of serious listen to a talk, “ and classmate are friendly get along these custom accompany ”…… to grow as mine, although brief, but useful, from at the beginning, I go in parents to go up for the road of my laid with respect to the habit.
从我记事起就知道，不能边看电视边吃饭，不能在商店耍赖要玩具。即将踏入幼儿园的大门，父母蹲在我面前，拉着我的手，告诉我要“听老师的话”“饭前要洗手”；上了小学以后，父母告诫我“上课要认真听讲”，“和同学友好相处”……这些规矩伴随着我的成长，虽简短，但中用，从一开始，我就习惯走在父母为我铺设的道路上。
Promote a middle school, strode broader environment, I began new study. Course is increasing, pressure is greater and greater also. Those custom of parents seem to apply to human association and study not completely, I want my space, indulge a few strange things, want oneself to do advocate, want freedom. Close child between, little everyday joyous voice laughs language, more it is the 10 thousand “ that all over 1000 we are for hello! ” , and “ knows, irritated dead! ”
升入中学，迈入了更宽广的环境，我开始了新的学习。学科越来越多，压力也越来越大。父母的那些规矩好像不完全适用于人际交往与学习，我想要自己的空间，沉迷于一些新鲜事物，想要自己做主，想要自由。亲子之间，少了平常的欢声笑语，更多的是千遍万遍的“我们都是为了你好！”，以及“知道知道，烦死了！”
, the exam suffers a defeat come home, crestfallen push a door, the look that is a mother head on and father tighten knitted brows. The mother has taken my report, fine fine ground gives me the issue on analytic study, I am not willing to listen to her to chatter, snatch report, preparation replies house. Father's fierce bounce from sofa, be blocked up in me before, cry to me angrily: You return “ have rule! ”
一次，考试失利回家，垂头丧气推开家门，迎面是母亲的目光和父亲紧皱的眉头。母亲拿过我的成绩单，细细地给我分析学习上的问题，我不愿意听她唠叨，便夺走成绩单，准备回屋。父亲猛的一下从沙发上弹起，堵在我的面前，愤怒地向我喊道：“你还有没有规矩了！”
Depressed long to write a composition I also am in this is flashy erupt: “ you restrict me by what! ”
压抑了很久的作文我也在这一瞬间爆发：“你们凭什么限制我！”
It is good that father is staring at me a little while, “ because, it is good that you return mishandled oneself, had not arrived formidably face everything! ”
父亲盯着我好一会儿，“因为，你还不能管理好自己，还没强大到面对一切！”
You return “ mishandled is good oneself! ”
“你还不能管理好自己！”
That day, father this one grave one's voice in speech is whirly all the time in the brain in me, I begin to examine my. I am the demand with alleged freedom comes nevertheless him indulge, feel parental custom is interfere inscrupulously to mine, as to powerful, I do not talk to go up at all actually.
那天，父亲这一句低沉的话音一直回旋在我的脑海里，我开始审视自己。我不过是以所谓自由的要求来放任自己，觉得父母的规矩是对我的横加干涉，至于强大，我其实根本就谈不上。
I no longer indulge electron product, begin to make detailed, the plan that fits oneself. The change is hard, want and tug-of-war of too much bad habit be locked in a seesaw struggle, my set sb's teeth insists to come down, discover these plan to become easier and easier gradually, the life more and more self-discipline, learn flourishing. Meanwhile, parents often also gives me praiseful look, the concern between us also gets lost harmonious, once quarrelled the situation of cold war ended.
我不再沉迷于电子产品，开始制定详细的、适合自己的计划。改变是艰难的，要和太多的坏习惯拉锯拔河，我咬紧牙关坚持下来，渐渐地发现这些计划变得越来越容易，生活越来越自律，学习蒸蒸日上。与此同时，父母也常常给予我赞扬的目光，我们之间的关系也转向和睦，曾经吵架冷战的局面结束了。
I begin to understand my parents. They are opposite at the beginning a variety of custom of my set, no more than is the choice that is afraid that I made what bad luck, there is safe feeling in their heart; Be brought up gradually as me, their interference may be concern of a kind of exceeding, it is the expression that a kind of sweat and agreeable loves.
我开始理解我的父母。他们在一开始对我设定的种种规矩，无非是怕我做了糟糕的选择，他们心里没有安全感；随着我渐渐长大，他们的干涉可能是一种过度的担心，是一种婉转的爱的表达。
And I, only oneself control oneself ceaselessly, ceaseless and powerful; Can face oneself study not only, still will face a society henceforth, finally, arrive to still can take care of them formidably, they just can end the protection to me.
而我，只有自己不断自律，不断强大；不仅能面对自己的学习，今后还能面对社会，最后，强大到还可以照顾他们，他们才会结束对我的保护。(文/孙振鹏)