A few days ago I see an article on the net, be called " cold door goes out again hard expensive child " . Means says to be in instantly, we inside this society, he wants the child of cold door stand out, want to succeed, that generation that compares our father people of a certain kind is more difficult. This topic caused particularly extensive discussion.
前几天我在网上看到一篇文章，叫做《寒门再难出贵子》。意思是说在当下，我们这个社会里面，寒门的小孩儿他想要出人头地，想要成功，比我们父辈的那一代更难了。这篇话题引起了特别广泛的讨论。
Take the story beside me to say first, I have very the friend that be close friends, her home is in that village the poorest, how had not parents read a book, but parents gets on 3 children for coming out from the country university, read a graduate student. He tells me to say he feels he is particularly lucky all the time, parents connects elementary school one grade is done not have had gone up, it is very important to feel to read unexpectedly, they take again much pain, also want to let the university on 3 children. Became a white-collar now, become useful to the society person.
先拿我身边的故事说吧，我有一个很要好的朋友，她家在那个村子算是最穷的，父母都没怎么读过书，可父母把三个孩子从农村供出来上大学、读研究生。他告诉我说他一直都觉得自己特别幸运，父母连小学一年级都没上过，居然觉得读书很重要，他们吃再多的苦，也要让三个孩子上大学。现在都成了白领，成为对社会有用的人。
Be brought up slowly as oneself, I understand the issue that is in this to be able to have a few imparity socially gradually, a few people have a lot of advantageous requirements, we are done not have, we also do not have the shortcut that a few people have a lot of, but we cannot complain, the life of each person is endless and identical, some people are born to containing golden key, some people are born to lose pa Mom.
随着自己的慢慢长大，我渐渐明白在这个社会上会有一些不平等的事，一些人有很多优越的条件，我们都没有，一些人有很多的捷径我们也没有，可是我们不能抱怨，每一个人的人生都是不尽相同的，有些人出生就含着金钥匙，有些人出生就失去爸妈。
Life can not compare a gender, our life how, depend on completely oneself feeling, you are in all one's life experience a newspaper to complain, your lifetime is the lifetime that complain; You are in all one's life experience touch, your lifetime is touched lifetime; You all one's life aspire at changing this society, your lifetime is the lifetime of a fighter.
人生是没有可比性的，我们的人生怎么样，完全取决于自己的感受，你一辈子都在感受报怨，那你的一生就是抱怨的一生；你一辈子都在感受感动，那你的一生就是感动的一生；你一辈子都立志于改变这个社会，那你的一生就是一个斗士的一生。
England has a newsreel, be called " life 7 years " , piece in 7 years old of child that visited 12 to come from different estate, visited these child to arrive 7 every years afresh again of film discover finally, the child of wealthy person still is wealthy person, the poor's child still is a poor, but the child that face of follow the fashion has a poverty that calls Nick, he struggles to what pass his finally turned an university into the professor, the fish that has slip through the net is inside the palm of visible destiny. And, the example of counterattack of cold door children in real life is without number more.
英国有一部纪录片，叫做《人生七年》，片中访问了十二个来自不同阶层的七岁小孩儿，每七年再去重新访问这些小孩儿到了影片的最后就发现，富人的孩子还是富人，穷人的孩子还是穷人，但是赶时髦面有一个叫尼克的贫穷的小孩儿，他到最后通过自己的奋斗变成了一名大学教授，可见命运的手掌里面是有漏网之鱼的。而且，现实生活中寒门子弟逆袭的例子更是数不胜数。
Suffer failure when us so when, we cannot all reasons end arrives be born on, why is the parents that cannot blame oneself more inferior to the parents of others, because family financial situation is bad, break all likelihoods of one individual success without behead.
所以当我们遭受失败的时候，我们不能把所有的原因都归结到出生上，更不能抱怨自己的父母为什么不如别人的父母，因为家境不好，并没有斩断一个人成功的所有可能。
When it is difficult that I am encountered in life, I go up with respect to the weather station that can be in our school, and I am thinking that time, although you achievement is so good without others now, not be so outstanding, but you should hold on to regular meeting to succeed only, because I believe old day won't the person that treat unfairly tries hard, he can make your glow calorific sooner or later.
当我在人生遇到困难的时候，我就会在我们学校的天台上走一走，而那时候我就在想，即使你现在成绩没有别人那么好，不是那么优秀，但是你只要坚持下去就一定会成功的，因为我相信老天不会亏待努力的人，他总有一天会让你发光发热。
We are major the person is not to be born of rich and powerful family, we should rely on ourselves, so you want to believe, the destiny gives you a lower than others starting point, it is to let you struggle with your lifetime the old practice that gives to strike back absolutely.
我们大部分人都不是出生豪门的，我们都要靠自己，所以你要相信，命运给你一个比别人低的起点，是让你用你的一生去奋斗出一个绝地反击的故事。
There is independence in the story, have a dream, have courage, have long-suffering, it is not the fairy tale of a success will come when conditions are ripe, do not have sufferings of a bit world impossibly! This story is a where there is a will there is a way, burn one's boats, 102 the Qin Dynasty close to belong to Hunan eventually; This story is pains person day is not lost, undergo self-imposed hardships so as to strengthen one's resolve to do sth, 3000 jump over armour to be able to be swallowed.
在故事里有独立，有梦想，有勇气，有坚忍，它不是一个水到渠成的童话，不可能没有一点人间疾苦！这个故事是有志者事竟成，破釜沉舟，百二秦关终属楚；这个故事是苦心人天不负，卧薪尝胆，三千越甲可吞吴。