This world does not have rubbish, put the resource of amlposition buy only. Same, this world does not have so called defect, have undetected advantage only.
这个世界没有垃圾,只有放错位置的资源。同样的,这个世界没有所谓的缺点,只有未被发现的优点。
Each person feels to his blemish feel regretful, those who want hard make up for, the result is not to put into practice hard, it is goodish. Adj eye look upon, with respect to can surprizing discovery, demerit also can become advantage, recreant and OK saying is careful, can saying harum-scarum is brave. So we do not overcome our weakness constrainedly, use the result that oneself “ defect ” often can get expect is less than sometimes. Once upon a time, a person suffers from read obstacle disease, the article that others can read a few minutes, he should count a hour on the flower, bumpy ability is read, but also because such, he is an ordinary person to the understanding of article deepness can not of compare. Read rate originally slow it is the difficulty that he cannot overcome, little imagine, this becomes him to surmount a magic weapon of get the upper hand of of others however. By it is of view, do not be oneself alleged defect and careladen, try hard to disentomb, eventually one day you can make some field only just.
每一个人对自己的缺陷都感深感遗憾,想要努力的弥补,结果不是难以付诸行动,就是差强人意。辩证的眼光看待,就会惊喜的发现,短处也会变成长处,胆小可以说是谨慎,鲁莽可以说是勇敢。所以我们不要勉强克服自己的缺点,有时利用自己的“缺点”往往能得到意想不到的效果。从前,有一个人患有阅读障碍症,别人几分钟就能读完的文章,他要花上数小时,磕磕绊绊才能读完,但也正因为如此,他对文章深度的理解是常人所无法匹敌的。本来阅读速度慢是他无法克服的困难,殊不知,这却成为他超越别人的制胜法宝。由是观之,不要为自己所谓缺点而忧心,努力发掘,终有一天你会成为某一方面的专才。
So, how can just change adverse have advantageous, make our remain invincible?
那么,如何才能化不利有有利,使我们立于不败之地呢?
Above all, to oneself accurate acknowledge. Have objective understanding ego only, find the different place of oneself and others, even if is the inferior position in people look, also full marks / make your surprise likely at the ordinary person, move toward successful a magic weapon. Li Bai, a such wanton people, allow his compromise out of consideration for the general interest at influential officials, hide one's capacities and bide one's time at official circles, the “ blemish ” on disposition is deadly undoubtedly. If mix mark at official circles, many are met only on today's history renown not classics politician. The “ that the Li Bai that is case of this individual character however gave us to leave passionate bold and unconstrained is inherent I just need useful, a thousand pieces of gold comes loose to return answer come name of ” through the ages sentence, there was a Shi Xian on the history that lets us.
首先,对自己准确的认知 。只有客观的认识自我,找到自己与别人的不同之处,即便是别人眼中的劣势,也满分/有可能成为你异于常人,走向成功的法宝。李白,这样一个放荡不羁的人,让他委曲求全于权贵,韬光养晦于官场,性格上的“缺陷”无疑是致命的。如果混迹于官场,今天的历史上只会多一个名不经传政客。然而正是这个性格的李白给我们留下了激情豪放的“天生我才必有用,千金散尽还复来”千古名句,让我们的历史上有了一位诗仙。
Moreover, we want those who understand thing value to reflect can get the influence of environmental element. The ability of small tricks despises for gentleman place. The ability that can is dog pilfer came secretly for Meng Changjun fox-fur robe, let its have heavy ceremony sends a person and be able to leave by allow the Qin Dynasty, the art of crow aided his to cheat city gate, make its final extricate oneself Yu Qin. In black Yang Zaibai's lubricious Yang Qun very dazzling, affected the aesthetic perception of goatherd, black fur became its defect, the “ beacon ” that but in white snow-field Hei Yang became goatherd,searchs Yang Qun, the fur of same black became its good point. This shows, aught park can have its specific value in specific environment.
再者,我们要明白事物价值的体现会受到环境因素的影响。鸡鸣狗盗之技为君子所不齿。可正是狗盗之技为孟尝君偷来了狐裘,让其有重礼送人而得以被允离秦,鸡鸣之术助其骗开了城门,让其最终脱身于秦。黑羊在白色的羊群中十分扎眼,影响了牧羊人的美感,黑色的皮毛成了它的缺点,可是在白茫茫的雪原中黑羊成了牧羊人寻找羊群的“灯塔”,同样的黑色的皮毛成了它的优点。由此可见,任何事物置于特定的环境之中都会有其特定的价值。
Be certain him —— is inherent I just need useful, the certain on our body is so called today defect, perhaps will become a flight of stairs that aids us to move toward a success tomorrow.
坚信自己——天生我才必有用,今天我们身上某一个所谓的缺点,也许明天会成为助我们走向成功的阶梯。(文/佚名)