What is safe feeling? Safe feeling is to face difficulty not to fear, not nervous, because you believe yourself,can solve can overcome. Oneself give oneself safe sense, want you to have enough and hard case only, you believe you are not afraid that wind blows rain to hit, believe oneself cannot be replaced, believe oneself can find way when inner ear.
安全感是什么？安全感是面对困难不害怕，不紧张，因为你相信自己能解决能克服。安全感是自己给自己的，只要你有足够坚硬的外壳，你就相信自己不怕风吹雨打，相信自己不可替代，相信自己能在迷路时找到方向。
If you let option submissively the person, let others pulling you to go, navigation is used when this is just like inner ear, doesn't machine of ten thousand skill have report how to do? Was the conservatory that keeps out wind and rain for the rose thrown how to do? That person that leads a way to you walked, pay no attention to you, or he himself is stray also, how to do again? Again although, that brings passerby to do your beacon forever, how can decide what he brings again, it is a right way, where is a way that you like? Remove 10 thousand conditions, you were on him place is how-to that you like and right way, so, whether can you become his model alive?
若你将选择权拱手让人，让别人牵着你走，这就好比迷路时使用导航，万一手机没电了怎么办呢？为玫瑰遮风挡雨的温室被掀翻了怎么办呢？给你引路的那个人跑了，不理你了，或者他自己也迷路了，又怎么办？再即使，那个引路人永远做你的灯塔，又如何能确定他所引的，是一个正确的方向，一条你所喜欢的路呢？退一万步，你走上了他所指引的那条你喜欢的且正确的路，那么，你是否能活成他的样子呢？
If have the person that confused a road likewise, you hold a group in the arms to warm oneself, recount respective affliction, comforting each other, flatter oneself found a bosom friend. Probably you are absent anxious seek a way, no longer angst, be content with the current situation, probably you still remember original intention, the likelihood progresses jointly, also found a way, but do not know to leave a paragraph of way, he can arrive station, whether still have his person of the same trade?
若有同样迷了路的人，你们抱团取暖，诉说各自的苦难，在互相安慰，自以为找到了知己。或许你们不在着急找路，不再焦虑，安于现状，或许你们仍记得初衷，可能共同进步，也找到了路，但不知下一段路，他会不会到站，能否还有他同行？
Be like running water personally then, flow ceaselessly day and night, the person is shining in destroying, often go. Then the heart is like shut-off of water, dormant without moment, make the person is in messy in living.
于是身如流水，日夜不停流去，人在闪灭中老去。于是心如止水，没有片刻静止，使人在散乱中活着。
Ask oneself, why to get lost? Why is the map familiar with first before coming, program course, perhaps fill report to the mobile phone? The issue becomes simple.
问问自己吧，为何迷路？来之前为何不先熟悉地图，规划路线，或者给手机充满电呢？问题变得简单了。
Common saying says: "The master gets the door, cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine relies on an individual. "Suffering is tired cry on 100 thousand times, the thing also won't become relaxed; Read a book 100 times, carry out 100 times again, knowledge and skill are in together with you. Shi Tiesheng was opened by the life a big joke, the mother leads a way to him, ground altar gives him edificatory, blind child is comforted to him, he and life speak, speak with oneself heart soul, found oneself finally. Among that rapid river quaky megalith, either because of its hard crust, understand oneself fixed position deeply because of him however, won't follow running water so and go.
俗话说： "师傅领进门，修行靠个人。"苦累喊上千百遍，事情也不会变轻松；读百遍书，再实践百遍，知识和技能便与你同在。史铁生被生活开了个大玩笑，母亲给他引路，地坛给他启迪，盲童给他安慰，他与生命对话，与自己的心魂对话，最终找到了自己。那湍急的河流中间战栗的巨石，不是因为其坚硬的外壳，而是因为他深深明白自己的定位，所以不会随流水而去。
Doing not have the life of basis to resemble is bubble same, expand increasingly in brief peace and happiness, final instant is undone. The " house " that only oneself build most firm, living most set one's mind at, also suit oneself most.
没有根基的生活就像是泡沫一样，在短暂的安乐中日益膨胀，最后瞬间破灭。只有自己建的"房子"最牢靠，住着最安心，也最适合自己。
Believe oneself, find oneself. The road swings well before, all things expects.
相信自己，找到自己。前路好好荡荡，万事尽可期待。(文/洪榕)