A match can bring light, also can destroy money at the same time, the key depends on you what ignite with it. The setback also is same, the setback can let you grow, ongoing, but also can let you backwater and regressive, the key depends on your manner after meeting it and method.
一根火柴可以带来光明，同时也可以毁灭财富，关键在于你用它来点燃什么。挫折也是一样的，挫折可以让你成长、前进，但也可以让你停滞与后退，关键在于你在遇上它之后的态度与方法。
The person has a process that grow, in this process setback it is most common, in growing to be in we, the setback always appears, each person has different view to the setback, someone says it is bounty, gentle alimentary move us; Someone says it is the marsh on growing road, let us jump over defect deeper, till be without effort. And I think it is the sunshine that grow, although very dazzling, also enlightened however ongoing journey, let us learn to take on. To the different view of the setback, also let us have different result. After some people meet defeat, stand no longer, stop to be in place; And it is difficult that somebody is greeted and go up, the fact also proves, latter can grow truly.
人都有一个成长的过程，在这个过程挫折是最为常见的，对于正处于成长中的我们，挫折总是出现，每一个人对于挫折都有不同的看法，有人说它是雨露，轻柔地滋养着我们；有人说它是成长路上的沼泽，让我们越陷越深，直至毫无力气。而我认为它是成长的阳光，虽然很刺眼，却也照亮了前进的路，让我们学会了担当。对于挫折的不同看法，也让我们有了不同的结果。有些人遇挫后就不再站起，停止在原地；而有人则迎难而上，事实也证明，后者是真正能成长的。
To a student, the biggest setback no more than takes an exam namely. Before memory, I face an exam to suffer a defeat the attitude that has had two kinds to differ. That day, I walk out of a classroom alone, accompanying an autumn wind and a street lamp to shine, I go on big driveway, with before same, the hand that what differ exclusively is me is much mediumer a horrible examination paper, right now I besides glance outside the mark, did not read examination paper of one composition eye more again. Before the setback, this I chose to escape, go on the street, my have one's mind stuffed with a blank, knowing to go back only is beat and scold, as if final before awaiting a rainstorm calm. As expected everything is undertaking as scheduled, I was not scolded less suddenly, finally, my general examination paper sent garbage can, the hope forgot it, begin to learn afresh, before I desertion, had thought over why to be met without careful and serious ground wrong. The 2nd times the exam came, I still am with so that mark returned the home, I want to cry a little, think old day is unjust, why coming down twice is this result. Knead examination paper into a group under my stretch, at this moment parents says to me: After “ rainstorm, always can see rainbow, want you to be able to come down alive in the rainstorm only. ” I brooded a little while, pick up the mistake that had examination paper to begin to analyse examination paper afresh, passed iteration exercise, lane of one by one understands. The 3rd times examination paper achievement came out, I took out a very more than be close friends before fraction. On the earth that goes in sunshine beamed, slowly homeward go. Right now, I understood god to everybody be fairness, want to insist to pay only, can have results. Setback, it is the sunshine on growing road forever, because it aroused us,advance.
对于一个学生而言，最大的挫折无非就是考试。回忆以前，我面对考试失利有过两种不同的态度。那天，我独自一人走出教室，伴随着阵阵秋风和路灯照耀，我走在大马路上，与以往一样，唯一不同的是我的手中多了一份惨不忍睹的试卷，此时我除了看一眼分数外，没有再多看一作文眼卷子。在挫折面前，这一次我选择了逃避，走在街上，我满脑子一片空白，只知道回去是一顿打骂，仿佛在等待着暴风雨前最后的平静。果然一切都如期进行着，我没少一顿骂，最后，我将试卷送给了垃圾桶，希望忘了它，重新开始学习，我丢掉之前都没有仔细认真地反思过为什么会错。第二次考试来临了，我依然是以原来那分数回了家，我有些想哭，认为老天不公，为什么两次下来都是这结果。我一气之下把卷子揉成了一个团，这时父母对我说：“暴风雨后，总能看见彩虹，只要你能在暴风雨中活下来。”我沉思了一会，重新拾起了试卷开始分析试卷的错误，经过了反复的练习，逐一弄懂。第三次试卷成绩出来了，我拿出了一个比以往要好很多的分数。走在阳光照耀的大地上，缓缓向家走去。此时，我明白了上帝对于每个人都是公平的，只要坚持付出，就会有收获。挫折，永远是成长路上的阳光，因为它激发了我们前进。
I think to grow, the setback is a pair of father and son, experience a setback only, just can have grow, a match can bring light, the setback can let me grow.
我认为成长、挫折是一对父子，只有经历挫折，才会有成长，一根火柴可以带来光明，一次挫折可以让我成长。(文/强哥)