Love does not have a fault, but had loved, it is doting. It is a kind of bane fondly, if dot assimilate to a small clear water, that became clay fondly, let water become cloudy. Blindly help the child, can let him work not active, natural also won't the crow was fed back.
爱没有错，但爱过了，就是溺爱。溺爱是一种毒药，如果把小孩子比作一小盆清水，那溺爱就变成了泥土，让水变得浑浊。一味的帮助孩子，会让他做事不主动，自然也不会乌鸦反哺了。
Once having a person is so favorite his daughter. In a city, a little girl is loud and interrogatory oneself mom: "Woman! Where is my balloon put to be in by you again? Often can not change the thing that is me later, search to be not worn every time! " hear the daughter asks her with the mood that blame, she right now very sad. She wants to be illogical, obviously oneself are helping her momently, but she not only not feel grateful, cheesed still she. Daughter millet is inferior to one day one day to mom's manner, face mom's care, he always uses " knew " answer back and forth. A day night, a faery comes to her room, put a small coin below the pillow of millet.
曾经有一个人就是这样宠爱着自己的女儿。在一个城市中，一个小女孩大声质问着自己的妈妈：“娘！我的气球又被你放在哪里了？你以后能不能别老动是我的东西，每次都找不着！”听见女儿用埋怨的情绪问自己，她此时很伤心。她想不通，明明自己在时时刻刻帮着她，可她不仅不领情，还厌烦她。女儿小米对妈妈的态度一天不如一天，面对妈妈的关心，他总是用一句“知道了”来回应。一天晚上，一位仙子来到她的房间，把一个小小的硬币放在了小米的枕头下。
The following day, millet awakes, him discovery is in a very beautiful bedroom, everything of this house is pink. Rubbing oneself eye, extend a lazy waist, call out is worn mom, but nobody are responded to, he gets up immediately, seek mother. "Kitchen, without. Sitting room, without! Bedroom, also do not have! Are you in mom after all where ah? " millet is being searched anxiously. Be in at this moment, faery appeared, she says: "Hello, millet. I am a faery, I can hear the aspirations of everybody. Be in I experienced you last night very be fed up with your mom. Since such, let your person staying! Such, you also won't bore again who. Nevertheless, you yourself should feed yourself. " after millet listens actually very happy! Still crying: "Be in the home without mom eventually! Be in charge of me without mom eventually! " look at her, faery also is deep sigh: "Be how possibly by father mother's doting child is there prospect in the future? " say this word, with respect to quiet silence went. The day later, what millet passes is unusually hard. Because of her what won't, cook, clear away a thing, fold a quilt, buy food these won't. But gradually, she also learned these, she also is known eventually, she was brought up, this mom that helps oneself. In the meantime, the faery there is communicating millet mom!
第二天，小米醒来，发现自己在一个十分漂亮的卧室里，这个房子的一切都是粉色的。揉着自己的眼睛，伸个懒腰，呼喊着妈妈，可是无人回应，他马上起床，寻找妈妈。“厨房，没有。客厅，没有！卧室，也没有！妈妈你到底在哪儿啊？”小米焦急地寻找着。就在这时，仙子出现了，她说：“你好，小米。我是一个仙子，我可以听到每个人的心声。就在昨晚我感受到你十分讨厌***妈。既然这样，就让你一个人呆着吧！这样，你也不会再厌烦谁了。不过，你要自己养活自己了。”小米听后竟然十分开心！还叫着：“终于没有妈妈在家了！终于没有妈妈管着我了！”看着她，仙子也是一声长叹：“被爸爸妈妈溺爱的孩子怎么可能在将来有出息呢？”说完这句话，就悄无声息的走了。之后的日子，小米过的异常艰难。因为她什么都不会，做饭，收拾东西，叠被子，买菜这些都不会。但渐渐的，她也学会了这些，她也终于懂得，她长大了，该帮帮自己的妈妈了。同时，小米妈妈那边仙子正在沟通呢！
Need not worry, live in him millet when, faery comes to the side of of his mom again. She tells millet mom you already too too favorite millet, he can have done a lot of businesses, whats are helping her, that is doting. A lot of things you can let go. After communicating with millet mom, faery comes to the side of millet, tender ground asks her: "Did you experience mom's life now? " she nods, "Good, that can be the mother that should serve you well after you. I this takes you. " when mother and daughter 2 people photograph gets together when, millet attacks in mom's bosom, say in a low voice: "Mom, I am sorry, " after faery sees, satisfactory inclination disappeared.
不用担心，在小米自己生活的时候，仙子又来到了***妈的身边。她告诉小米妈妈你已经太过于宠爱小米，很多事情他已经可以做了，什么都帮着她，那就是溺爱。很多事情您可以放手了。跟小米妈妈交流后，仙子来到小米身边，温柔地问她：“现在你体会到妈妈的生活了吗？”她点点头，“好，那你以后可是要好好对待你的妈妈了。我这就带你回去。”当母女二人相聚时，小米一把扑到妈妈的怀里，小声地说：“妈妈，对不起，”仙子看到后，满意的点点头就消失了。
Love is not lacked in life, but our child lacks, be those who make allowances for parental life is not easy. Yes, parents is fierce we love us, because they are first time,husband grows. They make allowances for us, we also should make allowances for them just is! If you love them, not hesitant, with your action proof, you also love them. We are right of parents show sympathy, it is parents is the oldest comfort. If say to should give parents get one's own back, of that redound is to have action expression certainly, you love them.
人生中并不缺少爱，但我们小孩缺少的，是体谅父母生活的不易。对，父母凶我们是爱我们的，因为他们是第一次当家长。他们体谅我们，我们也应该体谅他们才是啊！如果你爱他们，就不要犹豫，用你的行动证明，你也爱他们。我们对父母的体谅，就是父母最大的安慰。如果说要给父母回报，那回报的一定是有行动表达，你爱他们。