“ becomes personal humanness, the adult amounts to personal ” , this word me by original do not realise understand gradually, to have deep experience, make drive finally the my progress, source motivation that is personal humanness!
“成己为人，成人达己”，这句话我由最初的不认识到逐渐了解、至有深刻体会，最终成为激励我进步、为己为人的源动力！
Remember that day midday, I am doing work in mandatory class. Abrupt, there is a classmate to pull me with the hand on the side, I had rolled a head, he what see one face is spellbound is pointing to a title on the notebook to say to me: I do not understand “ this composition problem, very difficult! How be done? I see ” , considered, rise seriously with his analysis next, told what he inscribes end main points, train of thought to begin direction, move, listen so that he nods again and again continuously, one pace also did not leave the line of sight notebook. After saying, he is immersed oneself in immediately wrote rise.
记得那天中午，我正在托管班里做作业。突然，旁边有位同学用手拉了拉我，我扭过头去，看到一脸茫然的他正指着本子上的一道题目对我说：“我不理解这条作文题，好难啊！怎样做啊？”我看了看，考虑了一下，然后认真地和他分析起来，并告诉了他题目的要点、思路的开展方向、步骤，直听得他连连点头，视线一步也没离开本子。说完后，他便立刻埋头写了起来。
Looking at him is to admit to be done really very, think of suddenly in my heart: If I do not know this subject, perhaps say he was taken additionally harder topic looks for me, how should I help him? Look, I still must want to be added hard more in each respects after, promote ego ceaselessly, such my ability help others better! Understand this reason, I am glad very. At this moment, he the outline that face about will come to communicate his place actively to had drafted with me and train of thought. I am open-eyed of the comprehension at him fast, the excellent place of essence of life that is conceived by him is attracted, ceaseless click of the tongue praises, discussed a few pertinent composition detail questions, note with him again. Course communication, he is like suddenly see the light, in a steady stream of train of thought is constant, an an excellent work was finished very quickly. My glad discovery, before his final version finally lets me be compared to the understanding of this article more comprehensive, I did not think of to be become the results of pupil teacher can be such big! He says a thank with me repeatedly, also become very happy in my heart! Original, the capacity that uses oneself helps others, it is a significant issue really, and helped others still can promote his better, I Where is what is there against it? I begin to understand: This is the “ that people often says becomes personal humanness probably, the adult amounted to personal ” .
看着他很是认真的做起来，我心里突然就想到：假如我不懂这个题目，或者说他拿了另外更难的题目来找我，我该如何帮助他呢？看来呀，以后我还得要在各个方面多加努力，不断提升自我，这样我才能更好地帮助到别人啊！明白到这个道理，我很是高兴。这时，他又转过身来主动跟我交流他所拟好的提纲与思路。我惊讶于他的悟性之速，并被他构思的精妙所吸引，不断啧啧称赞，并再次和他讨论了一些相关的作文细节问题、注意事项。经过交流，他有如茅塞顿开，思路源源不断，一篇佳作很快就完成了。我高兴的发现，他最后的定稿让我对这篇文章的理解比之前更加全面了，我没想到当了回小老师的收获会是如此之大！他连声跟我说谢谢，我心里也乐开了花！原来，用自己的能力帮助别人，真是件有意义的事，而且帮助了别人还能更好地促进自己，我又何乐而不为呢？我开始明白：这大概就是人们常说的“成己为人，成人达己”了吧。
To understand the implication of this word further, I consulted a dictionary technically. “ becomes personal humanness ” is ceaseless ego development, perfect oneself, serve for other; “ adult amounts to personal ” to help other make other people successful namely, also can create oneself value thereby, realize oneself ideal, kill two birds with one stone! I fell in love with this axiom at a draught, I think, if our everybody can be done so, our social progress is met certainly faster! Of course, I also know “ becomes personal humanness, the adult amounts to personal ” , can not be to say so simple, it needs us to give the effort with hardships altruisticly, I hope our classmate can begin to rise with respect to the action from now heartily, let this kind of goodness be carried on all the time go down.
为了进一步理解这句话的含义，我专门查了一下字典。“成己为人”就是不断自我发展，完善自己，为他人服务；“成人达己”就是帮助他人使他人成功，从而也能创造自己的价值，实现自己的理想，一举两得！我一下子爱上了这句至理名言，我想，如果我们所有人都能这样做，我们的社会进步一定会更快！当然，我也知道“成己为人，成人达己”，可不是说说这么简单，它需要我们无私的付出与艰辛的努力，我衷心希望我们的同学能从现在开始就行动起来，让这种美德一直发扬下去。(文/易紫宁)