The ceremony is formal, letting is self-effacing, comity is a kind formal self-effacing. Comity is the traditional goodness of the Chinese nation. “ Kong Rong lets widely known of pear ” it may be said, familiar to the ear can detailed. In I am 56 years old when, listen to grandmother to tell “ Kong Rong to yield the story of pear ” , she also is such all the time of earnestly practise what one advocates.
礼是礼仪，让是谦让，礼让为一种礼仪的谦让。礼让是中华民族的传统美德。“孔融让梨”可谓家喻户晓，耳熟能详。在我五六岁的时候，就听外婆讲“孔融让梨”的故事，她也是这样一直身体力行的。
Listen to mom to say, great-grandmother is octogenarian, action inconvenience, everyday breakfast, grandmother always can have filled a bowl of congee to be put before great-grandmother, when a day of 3 eat make food, always also won't forget do 9 squashy dish to put her before, and take good bowl chopsticks put go up in table. After the home of fresh fruit recapture that buys is washed clean, grandmother takes great-grandmother to eat above all. When I grow, grandmother or all the time such, day after day, year answer a year, her comity, filial, honour old words and deeds behaves deeply bake in a pan is in my brain.
听妈妈说，曾祖母八十多岁了，行动不便，每天早餐，外婆总会盛好一碗粥放在曾祖母面前，一日三餐做菜时也总不会忘记做一两个熟透了的菜放到她面前，并且拿好碗筷摆放在餐桌上。买来的新鲜水果拿回家洗干净后，外婆首先拿给曾祖母吃。等到我长到八九岁了，外婆还是一直这样，日复一日，年复一年，她礼让、孝顺、尊老的言行举止深深地烙在我的脑海里。
I edify next growing to rise in such environment namely. Remembering that is the noon of a burning hot summer, just be 51, I and elder sister preparation sit the bus goes to a park playing, when the car on public transportation site will seek a seat, have a place only, the elder sister lets the seat to me sit. A boy of more than 20 years old, see elder sister years is young stand up to let a seat say to my elder sister: “ little little sister, you are small still, bump on the road, falling, sit to my seat! ”
我就是在这样的环境熏陶下成长起来的。记得那是一个炎热夏日的晌午，又刚好是五一节，我和姐姐准备坐公交车去公园玩，在公交站点上车来找座位时，只有一个座位了，姐姐把座位让给我坐。一个二十多岁的小伙子，见姐姐岁数小就站起来给我姐姐让座位说：“小妹妹，你还小，路上颠簸，不要摔着了，到我的座位上坐吧！”
Elder sister answer says: Uncle “ , do not have a thing, I am helped up so that live to stand the hand firmly, still be you sit! Between ” conversation, the bus passes a paragraph of uneven road surface, elder sister a reel, full marks / uncle eye pulls quickly the elder sister's hand, just make an elder sister unapt fall, later, the uncle just lets the seat to the elder sister. I and sister say at the same time almost: “ thanks an uncle! ”
姐姐回答说：“叔叔，没事，我扶得住把手站得稳，还是你坐吧！”说话间，公交车经过一段凹凸不平的路面，姐姐一个趔趄，满分/叔叔眼快一把拉住姐姐的手，才使姐姐不至于跌倒，后来，叔叔硬是把座位让给了姐姐。我和姐姐几乎同时说：“谢谢叔叔！”
I and elder sister sit together to begin to talk about study before long, work a little, talk about the story in has learned book, joyous sound laughs language, the uncle that stands by looks at us to laugh, he also laughs accordingly. Arrived a site, the uncle got off, we wave to be fastened to his path. At this moment, a grey-haired old grandma came on. I was looked around all around, at that time on the car full already. I think: Old grandma age is old, if she did not help firm grip up, fell how to do? Grandmother teachs us to want as a child honour old love young, we want bend forward travel practice, let the seat to old grandma sit. I and elder sister discuss, the elder sister agreed immediately. Then, I pulled the hand of the grandma to say: “ grandma, you sit down please! ” grandma feels very accident say: You take “ little boy! The grandma was standing to go, you so way station is worn insecure. I can let ”“ the elder sister holds me in the arms. ” old grandma is persuaded repeatedly in ours fall to agree to sit down eventually, the face that climbs full furrow showed gratified smile, the thumb since vertical stroke says: “ child is really sensible, your home adult teachs you really well! I and ground of elder sister understanding laughed at ” .
我和姐姐坐在一起不久就开始聊学习，聊作业，聊学过的书本里的故事，欢声笑语，站在旁边的叔叔看着我们笑，他也跟着笑。到了一个站点，叔叔下车了，我们挥手向他道别。这时，上来了一位白发苍苍的老奶奶。我环顾了一下四周，当时车上已座无虚席了。我想：老奶奶岁数大了，如果她没有扶稳把手，跌倒了怎么办？外婆从小就教育我们要尊老爱幼，我们要躬行实践，把座位让给老奶奶坐。我和姐姐一商量，姐姐马上同意了。于是，我拉了一下奶奶的手说：“奶奶，您请坐下吧！”奶奶感到很意外说：“小朋友你坐吧！奶奶站着就行了，你那么小站着不安全。”“我可以让姐姐抱我的。”老奶奶在我们的再三劝说下终于肯坐下了，爬满皱纹的脸露出了欣慰的笑容，竖起大拇指说：“小朋友真懂事，你们家大人把你们教育得真不错！”我和姐姐会心地笑了。
Comity, the family just is met perfect; Comity, the society just is met harmonious; Comity, the life just is met good. Comity, let me be benefited great, let us continue the goodness of “ comity ” to carry on go down with inheritance!
礼让，家庭才会美满；礼让，社会才会和谐；礼让，生活才会美好。礼让，让我受益多多，让我们把“礼让”的美德继续发扬和传承下去！(文/谢钰婷)