I think momently, everywhere becomes an alarm bell to you, do ” of mirror of face “ dutiful, no matter be in,be an upright person respect, in respect of trifling matters of everyday life, in artistic and cultural respect, playing attitude side. —— Fu Lei
我想时时刻刻、随处给你做个警钟，做面“忠实的镜子”，无论在做人方面，在生活细节方面，在艺术修养方面，在演奏姿态方面。——傅雷
Two ground of “ book, affection of father and son ” , I experience the massiness of these 6 words again. Fu Cong, alone abroad studies abroad, in the time that does not have convenient communication, domestic parents holds to epistolary means, maintain connection with the son. Typed in the book arrive from January 18, 1954 more than 100 letters June 3, 1966, each are the real situation is revealed.
“两地书，父子情”，我再次感受到这六个字的厚重。傅聪，只身国外留学，在没有方便通讯的年代里，国内的父母坚持用书信的方式，和儿子保持联系。书中录入了从一九五四年一月十八日到一九六六年六月三日的一百多封信，每一封都是真情流露。
Read this book, leave impression the deepest, should be the about art topic that Mr Fu Lei talks about to the son. Among them, having a lot of words is to make me clinking approve of, the concert with for instance right amount “ can stimulate your art, raise your level; Overmuch concert can paralytic your feeling, make your performance fails life and new move, damage your artistic ” thereby.
读这本书，留下印象最深的，应该就是傅雷先生给儿子聊到的关于艺术的话题了。其中，有很多话是让我无比赞同，比如“适量的音乐会能刺激你的艺术，提高你的水平；过多的音乐会只能麻痹你的感觉，使你的表演缺少生气与新鲜感，从而损害你的艺术”。
Of course, talk about artistic topic, also pursue the career that piano performs because of Fu Cong just about, and Mr Fu Lei is in the letter more it is the sincere advice about teaching the child: “ does not have recognize a person when, confidential of confide of blurt out of avoid by all means. First too take no account of the object that talks with you, second too the another person ” that takes no account of its place drag in.
当然，聊艺术话题，也正是因为傅聪从事钢琴演奏的事业，而傅雷先生在信中更多的是关于教导孩子的忠言：“没有认清一个人的时候，切忌随口吐露心腹。一则太不考虑和你说话的对象，二则太不考虑事情所牵扯的另外一个人”。
In the book little also of course not the nag of a father to the son, remind him to want calculated to spend money for example ah, should have taken care of oneself wife, still have teach him how to raise him, how what “ memory learns ”…… to altogether, what include in the letter is as father, outer to leading a wandering life country, those who be far from the flesh and blood of birthplace is ardent enjoin, care and the love that lack impossibly.
书中当然也少不了一个父亲对儿子的唠叨，比如说提醒他要有计划的花钱呀、要照顾好自己的妻子啊，还有教他如何提高自己，如何“回忆所学”……总而言之，信里包含的是一个身为父亲，对漂泊在外国，远离故乡的骨肉的殷切嘱咐、关心以及不可能缺少的爱。
Often can see such word —— is very long in the letter the composition letter that did not see you, receive now, looked glad excited, or be “ did not give you more than 50 days to write a letter, thousands of words, begin to write or paint of have no way; Often do not write a letter uneasy; Really contradictory 100 ” . Parents longs to get the child's information, also long to let the child know his life, also or it is oneself want those who bring the child to admonish. These speech, what love namely is best reflect!
信中经常可以看到这样的字眼——很久没有看到你的作文信，今日收到，看了又高兴又激动，又或是“五十多天没给你写信了，千言万语，无从下笔；老不写信又心神不安；真是矛盾百出”。父母渴望得到孩子的消息，也渴望让孩子知道自己的生活，亦或是自己要带给孩子的告诫。这些话语，就是爱的最好体现！
This book gives me the greatest experience, it is two words —— inheritance and hold to.
这本书给我最大的体会，就是两个词——传承与坚持。
Can say, each word in the book, including the experience of oneself responsibility and life. As a father, he is sure can use some kind of means, communicate these the child entirely. Time, space, became father and son cut off, but do not hold back. More seal a letter with, the about a hundred character of on 1000, to child proof, these cutting off the obstacle that won't become father to communicate love and responsibility to him. I believe, fu Cong also is met certainly inheritance comes down, no matter be planted with where means.
可以说，书中的每一个字，都包含着自己的责任与生活的经验。作为一个父亲，他必定会用某种方式，将这些全部传达给孩子。时间、空间，成为了父子的阻隔，但一眼阻挡不住。更是以一封封信，上百上千的文字，向孩子证明，这些阻隔都不会成为父亲对他传达爱与责任的拦路虎。我相信，傅聪一定也会传承下来，无论以哪种方式。
Still have a kind of power, perforative move makes this book, that holds to namely. No matter a got-up affair how, no matter the body how, not be the reason that does not write a letter. Although have some of time, also can defer somewhat. But, day after day, year answer a year hold to, just be most make moving heart!
还有一种力量，贯穿着整本书，那就是坚持。无论事态如何，无论身体如何，都不是不写信的理由。虽然有些时候，也会有所推迟。但是，日复一日、年复一年的坚持，才是最打动人心的！
Fu Laoxian gives birth to the intention what to explain is father love, explain father love with the character, every father can not convey father to love so, so, have some of envy Fu Cong really. But I think, mr Fu Lei spoke all father on the world to want to say however the —— of that true love in the heart passes bury love not character love.
傅老先生用心诠释什么是父爱，用文字诠释父爱，并不是每个父亲都能如此表达父爱的，所以，真的有些羡慕傅聪。但是我想，傅雷先生说出了世上所有父亲想说却又埋藏在心里的那份真爱——传爱不言爱。
Father love is a book, be worth you all one's life to be read attentively. And life resembles is road, exploration is searched in the book, have a such father, how-to, convoy, should be greatest lucky! Reread " teach thunder a letter from home " , results quite abundant!
父爱就是一本书，值得你一辈子用心去读。而人生就像是在书中寻路、探索，有这样一位父亲，指引、护航，该是莫大的幸运！再读《傅雷家书》，收获颇丰！(文/樊龙煜彤)