I and mom are read together " why do I hit the child you " hind, of nose Gong Gong of mom, although I had not done father and mother, but I experience a parenthood from the between the lines of writer Bi Shumin experience, make me new hit child ” to “ parents this topic, had different understanding.
我与妈妈一起读完《孩子我为什么打你》后，妈妈的鼻子红红的，我虽然没有做过父母，但我从作家毕淑敏的字里行间体会到一个做家长的感受，让我重新对“父母打孩子”这个话题，有了不一样的理解。
Before reading this article, the person that I think all father and mother that play the child are extremely evil! Although my father mother had not hit me, but had scolded me. Although I am painful without what had experienced fleshy body, but what I had experienced the heart is painful. When be scolded, I do not know father mother completely why to want to scold their son, don't they feel distressed? Are they not sad?
读这篇文章前，我认为所有打孩子的父母都是万恶之人！我的爸爸妈妈虽然没有打过我，但是骂过我。我虽然没有体验过肉身之痛，但我体验过心灵之痛。在被骂的时候，我完全不懂爸爸妈妈为什么要骂他们的儿子，难道他们不心疼吗？他们不难过吗？
Read " why do I hit the child you " hind I calculate understood among them just a little.
读完了《孩子我为什么打你》后我算明白了其中一二。
" the child, why do I hit you " the aspirations that is author Bi Shumin, she this had not made one all one's life, had hit his child alone only; Either now and then, however often; Not be mention lightly, remember to the end of his life however, in child hour, the mother had not hit him, that is the mother thinks: “ you are so puerile, be like to wrap the green pea in pod, my for fear that any our slight collision, the life abrade with your weak childish. I do not have what day does not have night to take care for you, without complain without regret. ” (out " the child, why do I hit you " ) hour, parents always is bestowing favor on us, regard us as a Bao Yu to grasp write a composition in the hand not dare too loose, be afraid that let go falls to go up; Also not dare too close, be afraid of too close. I slept, we are so grown, was brought up, become mischievous, parental hope children will have a bright future, look at female Cheng Feng, do not hope we play every day naturally, remind us ceaselessly, but when how don't we also listen, parents can the weapon ——- with eventual use is beaten up.
《孩子，我为什么打你》是作者毕淑敏的心声，她这一辈子没打过任何人，唯独打过他的孩子；不是偶尔，而是经常；不是轻描淡写，而是刻骨铭心，在孩子小时，母亲并没有打过他，那是母亲想：“你那么稚嫩，好像一粒包在荚中的青豌豆，我生怕咱任何一点轻微的碰撞，将你稚弱的生命擦伤。我为你无日无夜的操劳，无怨无悔。”（出自《孩子，我为什么打你》）小时，父母总是宠着我们，把我们视为一块宝玉握在手里作文不敢太松，怕松手摔在地上；也不敢太紧，怕太紧。我睡了，我们就这样长大，长大了，变得顽皮了，父母亲望子成龙，望女成凤，自然不希望我们天天玩，则不断地提醒我们，但在我们怎么也不听的时候，父母只能使出最后的武器——-殴打。
Hit a person to sin, but a of the person that this world gave parenting absolving —— specially to hit is love. When parents hits us, perhaps active force is mixed the relation of counterforce, the hand that brings about them also aches. But, their heart is far more than hand so ache, far more than our body is so painful, had our blame to hit only cannot when, parents just can start work. Parents loves us than anybody. Hitting is love, it is parents be cared about to ours and be very fond of, parents hopes we become to taste the child that learns to hold actor concurrently, ability can hit us, scold us. The anguish that parental every time starts to experience, what compare us forever is ages ago and long, they are not fleshy bodies is painful, however of the heart painful!
打人犯法，但是这个世界给了为人父母者的一项特殊的赦免——打是爱。父母打我们的时候，也许作用力和反作用力的关系，导致他们的手也疼。但是，他们的心远不止手这么疼，远不止我们的肉体这么痛，只有到了我们非打不可的时候，父母才会动手。父母爱我们比任何人都爱。打是爱，是父母对我们的在意和疼爱，父母希望我们变成一个品学兼优的孩子，才会打我们，骂我们。父母的每一次下手所感受的痛楚，永远比我们的久远而悠长，他们不是肉身之痛，而是内心之痛！
Hitting is love, and it is the greatest love on this world, parental love, that is the Gao Ruhai that be like hill's deep love, I understood; Parents hits us, either be fed up with to ours, care to ours however, I understood; Hitting is love, it is parents' helpless love, soaking parents to children period make.
打是爱，而且是这世上最伟大的爱，父母之爱，那是如山高如海深的爱，我懂了；父母打我们，不是对我们的讨厌，而是对我们的关心，我懂了；打是爱，是父母无奈之爱，浸透着父母对儿女的期许。
I knew ……
我懂了……(文/王越之)