Know afresh " father " two words
重新认识“父亲”两个字
I had read a lot of articles that write father, be like " back " , " father's flower fell " , " father loves to be like a boat " etc, I am touched by these articles. In my impression, father is dark, severe, sedate like Dashanyang, picture can rely on like large tree. But he does not accompany our play, the eye that also does not know us is wet with mirth.
我读过很多写父亲的文章,如《背影》、《爸爸的花儿落了》、《父爱如舟》等,我都被这些文章感动。在我的印象里,父亲都是深沉、严厉的,像大山样稳重,像大树般可以依靠。但是他不陪我们游戏,也不懂我们的眼湿和欢笑。
"Greenery shade strong summer is long " , summer is longer than night by day, what to suit to work? It is to read of course. I confuse this summer vacation went up the book of Mr Feng Zikai, right " make father " more feeling is very deep. After reading this article, I was known afresh " father " these two words.
“绿树阴浓夏日长”,夏天白天比夜晚长,适合干什么呢?当然是读书了。这个暑假我迷上了丰子恺先生的书,对《作父亲》更是感触很深。读完这篇文章后,我重新认识了“父亲”这两个字。
The young man and woman that this article told Feng Zikai and him people a petty thing that buys a chickling. Chicken peddles price of with the cry and Yours Excellency vanity of children drive up chicken. And Feng Zikai does not have get behind actually, still be the scheme that butcher of neighbour sister-in-law lays bare uses, feng Zikai just was not duped. After he knows, also did not get angry, pacify the child at the same time however, go to the word get down that teachs the child to lie at the same time.
这篇文章讲了丰子恺和他的儿女们买小鸡的一件小事。鸡贩用孩子们的哭和大人的虚荣心而抬高鸡价。而丰子恺竟然没有识破,还是邻居大嫂点破小贩使用的计谋,丰子恺才没有上当。他知道后也没有生气,而是一面安抚孩子,一面把教孩子撒谎的话吞下去。
When " Yi You, Yi You " in the ear that chickling cry passes into the children that learning, children gallop downstair, return prostrate chair, lane dropped pencil. Chair of Feng Zikai uprear, collect the first stroke of a Chinese character, did not abuse the child like a few father, drag the child even, leave a floor accordingly however, regard the chickling with vivid general snowball and children as admire like artwork. Mr Feng Zikai very understand the child, want: "But countryside resides lonely deserted, renounce ab extra temptation absolutely and force a flock of children to live in seclusion in a few rooms that see be used to this one Sunday, be like a little cruel also. And let this ' Yi oh, Yi oh ' the Cen Ji that will break door front courtyard, regard as a kind of ornament of the Chun Zhou of long spare time " . Read here, I want to be really " understanding banzai " these 4 words applause acclaim. Those children have a such father, know the father that children yearn for, really extremely happy. After this father knew a way of butcher, did not get angry, brush tear to small child at the same time however, one side acceptance the next time it is certain that chicken was peddled buy to them. He is sensible still ground general " on the mouth that has seen cannot come to an agreement or understanding, cannot say to want on wanted mouth " this word get down! Because he knows, this word is to teaching the child to lie.
当“咿呦、咿呦”的小鸡叫声传入正在学习的孩子们的耳中,孩子们飞奔到楼下,还弄倒了椅子、弄掉了铅笔。丰子恺扶起椅子,捡起笔,并没有像一些父亲骂孩子,甚至把孩子拽回来,而是跟着下楼,把活雪球一般的小鸡和孩子们当作艺术品一样欣赏。丰子恺先生很理解孩子,想:“但乡居寂廖,绝对摒除外来的诱惑而强迫一群孩子在看惯的几间屋子里隐居这一个星期日,似也有些残忍。且让这个‘咿哟、咿哟’来打破门庭的岑寂,当作长闲的春昼的一种点缀吧”。读到这儿,我真想为“理解万岁”这四个字鼓掌喝彩。那些孩子有这样一个父亲,懂得孩子们渴望的父亲,真是幸福极了。这个爸爸知道了小贩的套路后,没有生气,而是一面给小的孩子擦眼泪,一面承诺下一次鸡贩来了一定给他们买。他还理智地将“看见好的嘴上不可说好,想要的嘴上不可说要”这句话吞下!因为他知道,这句话是在教孩子撒谎。
The child that a lot of parents blame him is dilatory, lie, should seek an account from him body first actually. Parents is children allow teacher, their every word and deed, can make the model that children learn. The parent works dilatory, does his child work how is the meeting deft? The parent often lies, how is the child likely with sincere need a person? Parent coma, how does the child blossom in understanding?
很多家长抱怨自己的孩子拖拖拉拉、撒谎,其实应该先从自己身上找原因。父母是孩子们的第一任老师,他们的一言一行,都会成为孩子们学习的榜样。家长做事拖拉,他的孩子做事怎么会麻利呢?家长经常撒谎,孩子怎么可能以诚待人吗?家长麻木,孩子怎么会心里开花呢?
A lot of father are chameleon, the child has behaved joyful, did bad thing of a wee bit to stamp with fury. They go out and friend card games, mobile phone coming home does not leave a hand, basic disaccord child communicates. You say father does not accompany me, he says to want to earn money raise the home, without that leisure. That need not Mr Feng Zikai earn money raise the home?
很多爸爸是变色龙,孩子表现好了眉开眼笑,做了一丁点儿错事就暴跳如雷。他们出门和朋友打牌,回家手机不离手,基本不和孩子交流。你一说爸爸不陪我,他就说要挣钱养家,没有那闲工夫。那难道丰子恺先生不用挣钱养家吗?
I am good the children that envy Mr Feng Zikai have to play together, the father that knows child demand. This father's true not simple. Such father loves irrigated young animal, can you blossom how?
我好羡慕丰子恺先生的孩子们有一个玩在一起、知道孩子需求的父亲。这位父亲真的不简单。有这样的父爱浇灌的苗,怎能不开花?