Father is a kind of the most contradictory biology on this world. They look be like severity, however the heart is soft. They want to make the child volant fly high, begin to be cared early again however. The result that they obtain for the child is proud, having countless afraid …… again however
父亲是这个世界上最矛盾的一种生物。他们看似严厉，却又内心柔软。他们想让孩子展翅高飞，却又开始早早地牵挂。他们为孩子取得的成绩骄傲，却又有着数不尽的担心……
Fu Lei is a such father, also be the delegate of father of whole the world.
傅雷就是这样的一个父亲，也是全天下父亲的代表。
The bagatelle that the son lives, do not wish every time to miss
儿子生活的琐事，点点不愿错过
Of the piano in the home put, of the light bright and dark, sent photograph date, the bagatelle bagatelle of all lives of …… of wrongly written or mispronounced characters inside correspondence, ground of Lei Dou All matters considers teach seriously, offer a son genuine proposal.
家中钢琴的摆放，光线的明亮阴暗，寄来的照片日期，信件里面的错别字……所有生活的小事琐事，傅雷都事无巨细地认真考虑，并给予儿子真诚的建议。
Teach Lei Yifeng is feudal write a letter to the son, all sorts of concern were full of in the heart: Whether does the homework use a heart, sleep is enough, the teacher is conscientious, the melody of the exercise is difficult, the arrangement of the journey whether too too compact ……
傅雷一封封地给儿子写信，心中充满了各种担心：功课是否用心，睡眠是否充足，老师是否负责，练习的曲子是否难懂，行程的安排是否太过紧凑……
Each bagatelle, each detail, fu Lei is having countless problems, between the lines is diffusing the affection of great care.
每一件小事，每一个细节，傅雷都有着无数的问题，字里行间弥漫着浓浓的关爱之情。
Although the son resembled the kite of the line,fly far, as father, fu Lei still binds a heart on son body closely, for fear that misses son every little bit grow. Although the son can ignore his care and proposal, as father, fu Lei or the godchild that cherish the most genuine heart to write down pains attainment piece.
尽管儿子像断了线的风筝飞远了，作为父亲，傅雷还是把一颗心紧紧绑在儿子身上，生怕错过儿子一点一滴的成长。尽管儿子会忽视他的关心和建议，作为父亲，傅雷还是怀着最真诚的心写下苦心造诣的教子篇。
“ wants much attention later, the pattern that the speech must notice when holding to the truth, manner, mood, tonetic. Should accomplish have reason more, the manner is more amiable. Holding to the truth is an arduous fight formerly, also be educational job, need good method, still having is endurance. Absolutely is not active fire, misunderstanding making a person. ” son Fu Cong and person's small stick to one's position, let Fu Lei worries and ponder, exhort for many times the son wants an attitude courteous, want very modest, should manage to also be not enraged continuously strong, get manage to also want Rao Ren.
“以后要多注意，坚持真理的时候必须注意讲话的方式、态度、语气、声调。要做到越有理由，态度越随和。坚持真理原是一件艰巨的斗争，也是教育工作，需要好的方法，还有是耐性。万万不能动火，令人误会。”儿子傅聪和人微小的争执，就让傅雷担心和思索，多次叮嘱儿子要态度谦恭，要虚怀若谷，要理直也不气壮，得理也要饶人。
This kind wide with magnanimous it is our father generation actually the humanness of that generation person conducts oneself in society method, also be us place of this blundering society is rare the good moral character that lack.
这种宽和大度其实是我们父辈那一代人的为人处世方法，也是我们这个浮躁社会所稀缺的美好品德。
The success or failure that the son struggles, he is attentive caress
儿子奋斗的成败，他细心呵护
Of Qu Yuan " from coquettish " the cloud: “ road is boundless its are long, I will fluctuate and search. ” reachs our father people of a certain kind to Fu Lei, struggling is the theme of their times, it is their pursuit and belief more. They work hard on respective post, hold the sun tomorrow in the palm with persistent enthusiasm, irrigate with arduous sweat the flower that gives a success.
屈原之《离骚》云：“路漫漫其修远兮，吾将上下而求索。”对于傅雷及我们的父辈，奋斗是他们时代的主题，更是他们的追求和信仰。他们在各自岗位上努力工作，用执着的干劲托起明天的太阳，用辛勤的汗水浇灌出成功的花儿。
Successful flower is very beautiful, the scenery that spends is very delightful, but although be spent,be like bright and beautiful, our father generation still keeps sensible before the success.
成功的花儿很美，花开的风景很宜人，但即使花开似锦，我们的父辈依然在成功面前保持理智。
Our country writes a composition oneself ancient advocate face successful on thin ice, want guard against arrogance, and this is Fu Lei the urge again and again to the son: “ is not triumphal turn sb's head just is strong best evidence. ” this also is father generation people admonish all the time of junior, the ear that “ matures the more, know more bow. ” faces the success that struggles to come, want to always hold sober head.
我国自作文古就倡导面对成功如履薄冰，要戒骄戒躁，而这正是傅雷对儿子的叮咛：“不为胜利冲昏头脑才是坚强的最好证据。”这也是父辈们一直告诫晚辈的，“越是成熟的麦穗，越懂得弯腰。”面对奋斗得来的成功，要时刻保持清醒的头脑。
The success is everybody longing, father generation people hope of course the child can go well. The flower that succeeds however is again beautiful, also the flower blossoms when be defeated, this also is life is portraiture —— has a success to have failure really, also have a climax low.
成功是人人渴望的，父辈们当然希望孩子能够一声顺遂。然而成功的花儿再美，也有花开花败的时候，这也是人生的真是写照——有成功有失败，有高潮也有低落。
Face unsuccessful anguish to reduce the child, to enhance the child fight setback ability, the heart that father teachs with earnestly and tirelessly, for the Tie Yikai armour with child firm casting.
为了减轻孩子面对失败的痛苦，为了增强孩子的抗挫折能力，父亲以谆谆教导之心，为孩子铸就坚强的铁衣铠甲。
Success or failure of “ gain and loss as far as possible have no regard for, beg only exhaust can, feel no regret at the heart. An another fall grows ”“ in the past, want to climb only, regular meeting climbs a peak gradually, stand aloof be in small over me. Miserable tear is to foster you of the heart spill a thick liquid, do not experience the person of acerb anguish, won't have the compassion with solid big gain heart ……”
“得失成败尽量置之度外，只求竭尽所能，无愧于心。”“一个又一个的筋斗栽过去，只要爬得起来，一定会逐渐攀上高峰，超脱在小我之上。辛酸的眼泪是培养你心灵的洒浆，不经历尖锐痛苦的人，不会有深厚博大的同情心……”
Fu Lei mixes the care to the son teach, with the pen in the hand, caky inside the word to each. Father's idea appears exquisite all the more in between the lines, moving all the more also.
傅雷把对儿子的关心和教导，用手中的笔，凝固到每一行的字里面。父亲的心思在字里行间显得格外细腻，也格外动人。
An urge again and again, it is the love of father generation
一句句叮咛，都是父辈的爱意
Anthology of “ ripe essence manages, cease the clothing that seek variety is light. ” this is Du Zimei the urge again and again to the son, educational son should promote literature accomplishment.
“熟精文选理，休觅彩衣轻。”这是杜子美对儿子的叮咛，教育儿子要提升文学素养。
Must become aware eventually on “ paper shallow, know this matter to want absolutely bend forward row. ” this is Liu Fang's old man the urge again and again to the son, the importance that admonishs to be carried out personally.
“纸上得来终觉浅，绝知此事要躬行。”这是陆放翁对儿子的叮咛，告诫亲身实践的重要性。
“ is connected small hang down 9 age, dan Mi pear and millet. ” this is Tao Yuanliang the urge again and again to the son, remind a son to want hard aspirant.
“通小垂九龄，但觅梨与粟。”这是陶渊亮对儿子的叮咛，提醒儿子要努力上进。
“ blame not seek fame and wealth is not had with bright annals, blame is halcyon without as a result far. ” this is Zhu Geliang the urge again and again to the son, expect a son can administer a country of neat home of cultivate one's morality makes the same score the world.
“非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。”这是诸葛亮对儿子的叮咛，期盼儿子能修身齐家治国平天下。
These words are father completely to the son teach, also be generation of whole male relative of a senior generation to junior period make, included dark and true father to love to kiss affection.
这些话全是父亲对儿子的教导，也是整个父辈对晚辈的期许，包含了深沉真挚的父爱亲情。
The grandfather loves father to send father, father loves father to send a son again, the son continues even inheritance. Dark father loves to look be like billows not Jing, great however and touching. They look seem insipid speech, containing the wisdom that go throughall the vicissitudes of life and the condition to the care of junior however.
爷爷把父爱传给父亲，父亲又把父爱传给儿子，儿子还要继续传承。深沉的父爱看似波澜不惊，却伟大感人。他们看似平淡的话语，却包含着历经沧桑的智慧和对晚辈的关心之情。
The urge again and again that listens to father, carve their word in the head, write down their love in the heart, it is a horse with the dream, it is a wing in order to love, plan horse gallops, go approaching Xiang Guangming's tomorrow, receive good life.
听听父亲的叮咛吧，把他们的话刻在脑中，把他们的爱记在心里，以梦为马，以爱为翅，策马奔腾，去奔向光明的未来，迎接美好的人生。(文/吴美怡)