Say honest word, my home does not have an example.
说实在话，我家没有家训。
Making is ancestor too lazy, or too miserly, do not agree to keep a word half language. But this thing, also be in with respect to inheritance the person's in one's heart.
许是老祖宗太懒惰，或太吝啬，不肯留下只字半语。但是这东西吧，也就传承在人的骨子里。
I am born, grow in native place. Parents is ferial in too busy, grandma body delicate in health. Come so, certainly mine is a grandfather mostly.
我出生、成长在老家。父母平日里太忙，奶奶身体又孱弱。如此一来，管教我的大多是爷爷。
My grandfather is a young old man of more than 70 years old, although had not read a book, but a principle that also oneself conduct oneself in society for the person.
我的爷爷是个七十多岁的小老头，虽没读过书，但也有自己为人处世的一套原则。
On the dining table of native place, divide main festival accident, it is 34 simple fish and vegetable dishes, the capacity is not much, just eat almost. Oneself fill the meal in the bowl, this can eat to fill how many ’ with respect to the formulary ‘ that has an acquiesce.
在老家的饭桌上，除重要节日意外，从来都是三四个简简单单的小菜，量不多，差不多刚好吃完。碗中的饭都是自己盛的，这就有个默认的规定‘能吃多少盛多少’。
It is quiet mostly on dinning hall, grandfather grandma considers that meal that eating his oneself, careful, serious.
饭堂上大多是安静的，爷爷奶奶自顾吃着自己的那口饭，仔仔细细、认认真真。
Only alone I, eating a meal to resemble is like fighting, edge of the desk in the bowl ins disorder one piece. Him nature also looks distractedly, did not eat a few, put aside a chopstick to miss take flight.
唯独我，吃个饭像是打仗一样，碗里桌边一片狼藉。自然自己也看得心烦意乱，没吃几口，就一搁筷子想逃跑。
At this moment, the grandfather called me, collect of the ground like my have a guilty conscience answers dining table. A ground places the Mi Yili that sees the grandfather will scatter on the desktop with the chopstick only rise, in the mouth that is put into oneself, resemble sampling what does the delicate mastication that be like the ground wear, groan is like the ground to say: “ is not wasteful. ”
这时，爷爷叫住了我，我做贼心虚般地凑回饭桌。只见爷爷用筷子将散落在桌面上的米一粒一粒地夹起来，放进自己的口中，像品尝什么美味似地咀嚼着，叹息似地说：“不要浪费啊。”
I stand in aside, look at the grandfather's movement and he clean bowl, feel to there is a place on the face immediately hot and dry. Hold the bowl that removes me in both hands silently again, eat the meal with fully cold within clean readily readily.
我站在一旁，看着爷爷的动作和他干净的碗，顿时觉得脸上有点燥热。又默默地捧起我的碗，一口一口将里头冷透的饭菜吃干净。
Evermore, what my bowl resembles him completely is same.
从此以后，我的碗干净地就像他的一样。
The family member says, the grandfather is a sodden good person, very busy person. Really, every time what does neighbor neighbour have busy, he is grabbing a side; The company has what work, he also is being driven the tireddest. Give evening early to return everyday, he cannot be found in the home, do not know to be in busy what. Also come to even street edge butcher even “ bullies ” he, flicker is worn the fruit that buys a quantity to rot easily greatly.
家里人都说，爷爷是个烂好人、大忙人。的确，每次街坊邻居有什么忙，他都抢着帮；公司有什么活，他也赶着最累的。每天早出晚归，家里都找不到他，不知道在忙什么。甚至连街边小贩也来“欺负”他，忽悠着买量大易烂的水果。
This day, he comes home travel-stainedly again, look is not quite good, appraise writes a composition plan encounter what vexed trouble again. Good question closely not easily went out former by, it is such as expected. His children people say he is foolish, go eating be unable to speak out about one's grievances on collect, this granddaughter also has even me such some of feeling. His at the moment laughs again, avulsion tightens the brow that locking up, the furrow that joins winding move also is extended, buoyant ground says: “ is in an unfavorable situation is blessing, be in an unfavorable situation is blessing. ”
这日，他又风尘仆仆地回家，脸色不太好，估作文计又遇到什么糟心事了。好不容易逼问出了原由，果然又是如此。他的儿女们说他傻，凑上去吃哑巴亏，连我这个孙女也有些这样的感觉。他这会儿又笑起来，扯开紧锁着的眉毛，连蜿蜒着的皱纹也舒展开了，乐呵呵地说：“吃亏是福，吃亏是福嘛。”
Oh, be in an unfavorable situation is blessing! I think carefully, have it seems that so a few minutes of truths, be written down secretly. Try not self-consciously later to come, popularity good many.
哦，吃亏是福！我仔细一想，似乎有那么几分道理，便暗暗地记下了。后来不自觉地尝试开来，人缘一下好了不少。
With older generation person, my grandfather believes Buddha. He runs via frequentation cloister within, wanting always also to taking us a few juniors go up to meet with together. And before this old person is wrapping the figure of Buddha of gold lacquer every time, mix wave fly in decayed broken lection, making next the most sincere desires not have is “ my Sun Er is installed flatly, children career has, friend ……”
和老一辈人一样，我的爷爷信佛。他经常往寺庙里头跑，也总想着带着我们几个小辈一同去上一遭。而这个老人每次在裹着金漆的佛像前和飘飞零落的碎经文中，许下最虔诚的愿望无一都是“我的孙儿平平安安，儿女事业有成，朋友……”
Come however, he himself.
却来没有，他自己。
I never also had asked why he doesn't think more for oneself, I know he is to laughing at an answer surely: “ an old bone, so much dry what to want. Be your youth, requirement Budda is blessed more bless. ”
我也不曾问过他为何不为自己多想想，我知道他定是笑着回答：“都一把老骨头了，要那么多干什么。倒是你们年轻人哦，要求佛祖多保佑保佑喽。”
When I remember my young, ever also was before divine Buddha make next wishes, it is for oneself of brief oneself only however illicit, it is a bit unimportance, think of a way that shine and lives mostly. Nature also is disappoint later. And now, this goblet Buddha tells me “ thinks ” for other more.
我想起我幼时也曾在神佛面前许下心愿，却都只是为了自己短暂的一己之私，大多都是些微不足道、一闪而过的想法。后来自然也是辜负了的。而现在，这樽佛告诉我“多为他人想想”。
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I think all the time, my home is the home standard that is kept in a be tireless in teaching. It is not a grandfather, also not be a medium any person, it is aeriform, it is from generation blood of another acting person is mixed inheritance comes down in frame. A long time ago, precipitation of ground of every little bit is in that.
我一直认为，我家是存在一则诲人不倦的家训的。它不是爷爷，也不是家中的任何一个人，它是无形的，是从一代又一代人血液和骨子深处传承下来的。就悠远的，一点一滴地沉淀在那。
Regrettablly it is too abstruse, too abstruse, make me be understood hard. Be forced to use overflow long time to discover it, consider it, savour it, engrave it.
只可惜它太深奥，太玄妙，令我难以读懂。只好用漫漫长的时光来发现它，琢磨它，品味它，铭记它。
I think, through such process, ability can grow, just be lifetime.
我想，经过这样的过程，才会成长，才是一生吧。(文/郑欣悦)