People saying: Character has surely more break, and Confucius is in " the analects of confucius " in also put forward: Gentleman is about to slow at Yan Ermin at going.
人们常言道：言多必有失，而孔子在《论语》中也提出：君子欲讷于言而敏于行。
Slow, it is to point to talking the respect is tacit and quick the person at get right on the job. The novel that in Japanese writer the alcohol that cross a border writes " blunt feeling force " medium Mr S is Japan some exercitation graduate student of famous hospital, his adviser is very severe, the mistake that often makes to him censures inscrupulously. Classmates see no less than going to, but Mr S still is mixed with clement smile extremely powerful executive force undertakes amendatory according to what adviser place censures one by one. Later, depend on masterly medical skill and honest and tolerant bearing, age became Mr S gently dean, and become Japan provide quite famous spent operation is presiding.
讷，是指在说话方面沉默寡言而敏于实干之人。在日本作家渡边醇一创作的小说《钝感力》中的S君是日本某知名医院的实习研究生，他的导师十分严厉，经常对他犯的错误横加指责。同学们都看不下去了，但S君还是以宽厚的笑容和极强的执行力一一按照导师所指责的进行改正。后来，凭借精湛的医术和忠厚的人品，S君年纪轻轻就当上了院长，并且成为日本颇具知名度的手术首席。
Although Mr S is not good at one's words, but he is “ slows at Yan Ermin the delegate character at travel ” . He does not bunt with the teacher, choose to listen to the teacher's proposal however, the operation that does not break strict him requirement is normative, mix finally because of precise manner extremely powerful executive force, win oneself due get one's own back.
尽管S君不善言辞，但他正是“讷于言而敏于行”的代表人物。他不与老师顶撞，而是选择听取老师的建议，并不断严格要求自己的手术规范，最终因为严谨的态度和极强的执行力，获得自己应有的回报。
Magnificent an ancient name for China, also not be short of such example naturally. Mei Yiqi of President Yuan Qinghua once was by person address sb respectfully “ is close-lipped gentleman ” . Attend in those days in him admit when the exam puts a list of names posted up, a lot of examinees see a list of names posted up before rush up in a crowd, some compositions glad suffering is mad, some is crestfallen, some weeping bitterly, but the Mei Yiqi outside the crowd appears especially sober, till all examinees are retreated,he just sees a list of names posted up after. When speaking with the student at ordinary times, former the “ gibberish ” of the president's harangue also is skipped, the speech also appears concise and comprehensive, but he is studied assiduously learn and humanness is decent, get of teacher and classmates revere.
泱泱华夏，自然也不缺这样的典范。原清华校长梅贻琦曾经被人尊称为“寡言君子”。在他当年参加录取考试放榜之时，许多考生一拥而上前去看榜，有的欣喜苦狂，有的垂头丧气，有的痛哭流涕，但人群外的梅贻琦显得分外冷静，直至所有考生退下后他才去看榜。在平时与学生讲话时，原先校长的长篇大论的“废话”也被略去，讲话也显得言简意赅，但他刻苦钻研学且为人正派，深受老师和同学们的敬仰。
Although he is done not have everywhere announce him content morality, but the commanding elevation that his every act all without exception is showing him morality level. That makes he never “ quick Yu Yan ” but “ quick at the expression of travel ” enough lets popular feeling Yue Cheng take.
即使他没有四处宣物自己的道德，但他的一举一动无不显示着自己道德水平的制高点。那使他不曾“敏于言”但“敏于行”的表现足以让人心悦诚服。
Silent, do not represent phonate without ability, however a kind more show dark sth used to one's own advantage.
沉默，并不代表没有能力发声，而是一种更显深沉的资本。
Common saying says one bottle of “ is malcontent, half bottle is ramshackle ” , those who give out the sound of roaring noisy often is those do not have replete bottle, and the sea is noiseless and breathed, but everybody cannot say the sea is not quite extensive and magnificent.
俗话说“一瓶子不满，半瓶子晃荡”，发出喧哗聒噪之声的往往是那些没有装满的瓶子，而大海从来都是寂静无声的，但是谁也不能说大海不够辽阔和雄奇。
Often the fast person of show off talking around always is accomplished very hard best, and accomplish best person, often be the heart below ability goes however, had done the person of each thing dependably. “ slows at Yan Ermin at travel ” , it is little speech, work more, ability is close to ” of gentleman of a “ on real significance.
常常逞口舌之快的人总是很难做到最好，而做到最好的人，却往往都是能耐下心去，踏踏实实地做好每一件事的人。“讷于言而敏于行”，就是少说话，多做事，才能在真正意义上接近一个“君子”。(文/李祎想)