A lot of people think “ mend the fold after a sheep is lost, when be not late ” . But, I do not feel so however, mend the fold after a sheep is lost is very much moment is evening.
很多人都以为“亡羊补牢，为时未晚”。但是，我却不这样觉得，亡羊补牢很多时候是晚的。
In a lot of moment, we may feel to want a mistake to be corrected in time only, the loss can be redeemed. But, some are wrong, can injure another person especially, calculate you how to apologize, how to redeem, the result still also can cause harm to others.
在很多时候，我们可能会觉得只要错误及时去改正，损失就可以挽回。但是，有些错误，尤其是会伤害到他人的，就算你怎么道歉，怎么挽回，结果也依然会给别人造成伤害。
Having a conte is such: A little boy often name-calling, the term of name-calling is very acridity. His father gave him a board, a nail still has a hammer, let little boy every abuse a person above a nail, after apologizing with that person that is abused next, will pull out nail again come. Day after day, lunar answer in January, went one year, nail of the neither one on that board, but above all is nail pulls out the hole that come. Father takes board, to little boy say: “ you every scold one full marks / second person, resembled inserting an arrow in others heart, although you had followed that person to apologize, pull out the arrow came, but, then the individual's heart resembles this board same, can leave next hole, these holes are the impress of pain. ”
就有一篇小故事是这样的：一位小男孩经常骂人，骂人的词语十分狠毒。他的父亲给了他一块木板，一盒钉子还有一个锤子，让小男孩每骂一次人就在上面钉上一个钉子，然后跟被骂的那个人道歉之后，再来把钉子拔出来。日复一日，月复一月，一年过去了，那个木板上没有一个钉子了，可上面全都是钉子拔出来的洞。父亲将木板拿起，对着小男孩说道：“你每骂一满分/次人，就像在别人心里插了一支箭，即使你已经跟那个人道歉了，将箭拔出来了，但是，那个人的心就像这块木板一样，会留下一个洞，这些洞便是伤痛的印记。”
Besides, once some mistakes happen, once the loss is caused, we are also cannot redeem anyhow, cannot make up for. Remember, I saw such a news: A bus car driver of Chongqing, drove the car not carefully cliff, all people on the car died, all life on the car were done not have, including that driver also is. Consider that driver living, he also cannot make up for his mistake. Although he to everybody apology, the life of those people also cannot be redeemed.
除此之外，有些错误一旦发生，损失一旦造成，我们是无论如何也无法挽回，无法弥补的。记得一次，我看见了这样一则新闻：一位重庆的大巴车司机，不小心将车开入了悬崖，车上所有的人都身亡了，车上所有的生命都没有了，包括那位司机也是。就算那位司机活着，他也弥补不了自己的错误。即使他对所有人道了歉，那些人的生命也无法挽回了。
Say “ mend the fold after a sheep is lost so, when be late already ” , not all mistake can be made up for and redeem. The Dou Yingshen when so we are doing everything is heavy, had become comprehensive consideration.
所以说“亡羊补牢，为时已晚”，不是所有的错误都能弥补和挽回。所以我们在做任何事情时都应慎重，做好周全的考虑。(文/王可)