Life sufferings, the life is like person meaning very much namely originally, the word of mortals in this earthly in, we always can be encountered a lot of break, affliction, do not understand and do not forgive, and face these blow and test, our hard to avoid can generate a few undesirable sentiments, this meeting affects our life quality and standard of living badly. Accordingly, the life to let oneself is smoother, more Shu Xin a bit, we must learn to dominate our sentiment, this asks we are accomplished not angry, not dispute and do not complain.
人生疾苦，生活本来就是不尽如人意的，在这红尘俗世之中，我们总是会遇到很多摧折、苦难、不理解和不谅解，而面对这些打击和考验，我们难免会产生一些不良的情绪，这会严重影响我们的生活质量和生活水平。因此，为了让自己的生活更顺畅、更舒心一点，我们一定要学会控制自己的情绪，这就要求我们做到不生气、不计较和不抱怨。
Life is the mood of body of a kind of special injury, and when this kind of oppressed and depressed and discontented feeling reachs certain level, psychological pressure of the person can be magnified indefinitely, this meeting lets a person feel is allergy and anguish very. Actually life resembles is like wearing oneself on fire to bake, this besides can let oneself feel suffer afflictive besides, also can let others feel extremely uncomfortable, uneasy and dissatisfactory. Accordingly, to do not embarrass oneself also do not harm others, we must learn to feel relieved and be excused, is not go in the odd group that invites oneself to be immersed in angry get angry.
生气是一种特别伤身的情绪，而当这种憋闷愤懑的感情达到一定程度的时候，人的心理压力就会被无限放大，这会让人觉得很是反感和痛苦。其实生气就像是把自己架在火上烤一样，这除了会让自己感到煎熬难受之外，也会让别人感到极其的不舒适、不自在和不满意。因此，为了不为难自己也不伤害别人，我们一定要学会释然和原谅，而不是让自己陷入生气动火的怪圈里去。
The small home that dispute can allow him to appear special child enrage and do not magnanimous, no matter be,be being returned in monetary side is favor respect, this kind of calculating state of mind can affect our life badly, it is especially in the life and job, too over- dispute and truer become besides the popularity that lets oneself extreme difference is terrible besides, return meeting block up we gain ideal success. More important is, the success is not the thing that accomplish in one move, temporarily success or failure does not write a composition what can show, so we never with dispute the gain and loss before, contrary our look should be put a bit more long-term, only ending is good, we were not necessary to put time and energy in temporarily frustrated above. Life is inferior to well try to make a good showing, dispute is inferior to trying hard well, time is dispute of irritated heart of a few associate with and bagatelle, still change oneself well as beautiful time, him promotion is mixed perfect oneself.
计较会让自己显得特别的小家子气和不大度，无论是在金钱方面还是人情方面，这种斤斤计较的心态都会严重影响我们的生活，尤其是在生活和工作中，太过计较和较真除了让自己的人缘变得极差极坏之外，还会阻碍我们取得理想的成功。更重要的是，成功并不是一蹴而就的事情，一时的成败并不作文能说明什么，所以我们千万不可以只计较眼前的得失，相反我们的目光要放长远一点，只有结局是好的，我们就没有必要把时间和精力放在一时的失意上面。生气不如好好争气，计较不如好好努力，有时间为一些过往和琐事烦心计较，还不如花时间好好改变自己，提升自己和完善自己。
The person that likes to complain cannot make a major issue certainly, blindly blame everyone and everything but not oneself besides can let him slough cannot besides extricate oneself, can not get others sympathize with and forgive, transmit negative energy all the time in that way instead oneself, the detest and reject that can get others only, elbow out and distain. Accordingly, no matter be in what kind of condition, we do not want to be able to complain only and censure, contrary we should learn a change the current situation and reverse condition, because be in only casual let oneself become powerful rise, we just are met Jing admires others. The talented person with nice state of mind is free and easy the person that feel relieved, hopeful and so broad-minded, active, enlightened the talented person that tells truth is met by lucky divine place favor, filter the mood that blames dissatisfaction so, only such ability can fly on successful branch footloosely.
喜欢抱怨的人一定是成就不了大事的，一味怨天尤人除了会让自己陷入泥沼不可自拔之外，并不会得到别人的同情和谅解，相反那样一直传播负能量的自己，只会得到别人的厌弃、排挤和鄙视。因此，不管处于什么样的境地，我们都不要只会抱怨和指责，相反我们应该学会改变现状和扭转局势，因为只有在不经意间让自己变得强大起来，我们才会惊艳到别人。心态好的人才是洒脱释然的人，这样胸襟开阔、乐观积极、开明知理的人才会被幸运之神所眷顾，所以把埋怨不满的情绪都过滤掉吧，只有这样才可以自由自在的飞上成功的枝头。
Life is a hard cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine originally, we are to obtain the devotional believer of satisfactory cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, to move toward the most divine bethel in the heart, we must repair a heart well, and should accomplish cultivate the heart and nature culture, then we must be accomplished not angry, not dispute and do not complain.
人生本来就是一场艰苦的修行，我们都是为了取得圆满修行的虔诚信徒，为了走向心中最为神圣的圣地，我们必须好好修心，而要做到修心养性，那我们就必须做到不生气、不计较和不抱怨。(文/姚变花)