What this book tells about probably is a when settle domestic dispute real story, and author the assistant that Aogulesi is the doctor in the heart, so his saw with one's own eyes witnessed a family by bad the process that ameliorate.
这本书大概讲述的是解决家庭纠纷的一个真实故事，而作者奥古勒斯正是心里医生的助手，所以他亲眼目睹了一个家庭由坏变好的过程。
Read this article, my feeling is the same as experience, because the current situation in a lot of actual families was reflected inside this. But people was not aware of because of this however.
读了这篇文章，我感同身受，因为这里面反映了许多现实家庭中的现状。但人们却没有因此而察觉。
They think every time big daughter poses issue, but be not actually such, because the daughter is mixed,her mother is quarrelling is the surface only, and actually he just thinks and the mother talks with this kind of means. Of son red traitorous, because he thinks the father with him powerful neither one does pillar,also be, just meet so look down upon he, provoke him, but not be actually such.
他们认为每次纠纷都是大女儿引起的，但其实并非如此，因为女儿和她的母亲争吵着只是表面，而实际上他只是想和母亲以这种方式来说话。儿子丹的叛逆，也是因为他认为自己没有一个强大的父亲做支柱，所以才会瞧不起他，挑衅他，但其实并不是这样。
From inside the story of this family, I am clear: If there is a word to must be conveyed in the heart,come out, do not wear in the hold back in the heart all the time, the author says the family is a system, if a spare parts has a composition problem, so whole system can make mistake.
从这个家庭的故事中，我明白：如果心里有话就一定要表达出来，不要一直在心里憋着，作者说家庭是一个系统，如果有一个零件有问题，那么整个系统就会出错。
So if someone does not say, other domestic members, make mistake with respect to what be just like a certain spare parts of this system, bring about whole break down.
所以如果有人不说话，其他的家庭成员，就好比这个系统的某个零件的出错，导致整体的瘫痪。
This book lets me understand the problem of a lot of concerned families, refresh my acknowledge to the family, also had very great help to my life.
这本书让我明白许多有关家庭的问题，刷新了我对家庭的认知，也对我的生活有了很大的帮助。
I read this book now, every time when my Mom thinks my study manner is bad, won't hold back is worn did not say.
现在我读完了这本书，每当我妈认为我学习态度不好时，就不会憋着不说了。
After once I played 34 hours from outside, after coming back, feel very tired, but my Mom slants should let me write line of business, at this moment I showed a case to mom, told her, I am very tired now, do not want to write line of business, want to lay down however have a break to be written again. My mom understands and agreed, change doing is before we are big certainly noisy.
有一次我从外面玩了三四个小时后，回来后觉得很累，但我妈偏要让我写作业，这时我向妈妈说明了情况，告诉了她，我现在很累，并不想写作业，而是想躺下休息一会儿再写。我妈妈理解并同意了，换做是以前我们一定是大吵一架的。
To this book, I think the greatest to me help was known namely pour out, you are bought quickly also.
对于这本书，我认为对我最大的帮助就是懂得了倾诉，你们也快去买吧。(文/严乔瀚)