The rose is the rose, and the lotus is the lotus. Just look, don't compare—— Osho
玫瑰就是玫瑰，莲花就是莲花，只要去看，不要比较。——奥修
in every child's life, there is a common enemy, which is“ Other people's children”. From childhood to childhood, my mother's favorite words are“ Look at other people's children! How can we not learn from them” Alas, why do you always compare me with others! My ears are going to hear cocoons! Be myself and try to make myself perfect
每个孩子的生活中，都有一位共同的敌人，他就是“别人家的孩子”。从小到大，妈妈最喜欢说的话就是“你看看别人家的孩子！你怎么就不向他们学习学习呢！”唉，怎么总是要拿我和别人比较呢！我耳朵都要听出茧了！做我自己，尽量把我自己做到完美不好吗！
every time I say,“ Don't compare me with others” When, my mother will respond to me:“ You don't know how good others are without comparison” If you can understand your position, you will work harder” So, when my test scores were at a good level, my mother said,“ See how well others do, you&hellip…” When I tried to be good, my mother said,“ What are you proud of? Are you the best? Your class's&hellip…” When I picked up my heart and climbed to the top, my mother said,“ You should keep this achievement like XXX”“ Snap&mdash—” This is the sound of my inner collapse
每次当我说：“不要拿我和别人比”时，妈妈都会回应我：“不比较你都不知道别人有多好！”比较你可以清楚自己的立场，你才会更努力！”于是，当我考试成绩处于良好水平时，妈妈说：“看别人考的多好，你……”当我努力做到优秀时，妈妈说：“你骄傲什么，你是最好的吗？你们班的……”当我拾起七上八下的那颗心，爬上顶端时，妈妈说：“你就应该跟XXX一样，一直保持这个成绩！”“啪——”这是我内心崩溃的声音。
why should I work so hard and always be in the aura of others? I am me, everything I give and gain is just to prove that I am me, and“ Compare with others” irrelevant. I don't need to compare, because I know my position. As Jia Ling said in her sketch“ Goddess and man;, The goddess has her own aura. Does the female man lose the writer? Why do female men have to compare with the goddess? They all have their own unique charm. As the saying goes,“ Radishes and vegetables have their own love”, We should not care about vulgar comparison and show our best
为什么我这么这么努力，永远都要在别人的光环下呢？我就是我，我付出的一切，收获的一切仅仅是为了证明我是我，与“他人比较”无关。我不需要比较，因为我清楚自己的立场。正如贾玲在小品中说的“女神和女汉子”，女神自带光环，难道女汉子就输作文人一等了吗？女汉子为什么一定要与女神比较呢？她们都有着各自独特的魅力。俗话说：“萝卜青菜各有所爱”，我们不应该在意庸俗的比较，展示自己最好的一面吧！
Everyone has his own paragraph“ Aloes&rdquo
每个人，都有属于自己的一段“沉香”。
suppose you are on a model show at the moment. If you find it with appreciative eyes, you will feel that each different model exudes different colors, which will be a wonderful show; However, if you have a comparative color, you will constantly worry about which is better, whose expression is more in place and whose clothes are more beautiful. This is not what we want to appreciate at first. It will make us feel very tired and unable to appreciate it wholeheartedly
假设此刻你正处于一场模特走秀。你若带着欣赏的目光去发现，会感受到每个不同的模特散发着不同的色彩，这将会是一场精彩绝伦的show；但若你带着比较的色彩，你会不断地计较哪个更好，谁的表情更到位，衣服更漂亮，这就不是我们最初想要的欣赏了，这会使我们感到很累，无法专心致志地欣赏。
indeed, the essence of model show is that everyone shows their own beauty, rather than the crowd competing for beauty. People who really understand life will always look with appreciation, and those who are always comparing with each other are always mediocre people
的确，模特show的实质在于每个人展示各自的美丽，而并非群芳争艳。真正懂得生活的人总是会带着欣赏的目光，而总在相互比较的人，总是那些流于平庸的人。
I'm not Huang Rong, I can't do martial arts; I'm not invincible. I don't have the "sunflower classic"; I'm not Fang Zhongyong. I didn't become a teenager. But I believe that gold always shines, although it is not magnificent in the palace, and although it is no different from sand on the beach, it is also gold. I am me. There is no comparison or better. I only know that everyone has the best side
我不是黄蓉，我不会武功；我不是东方不败，我没有《葵花宝典》；我不是方仲永，我没有少年成材。但我相信，是金子总会发光，尽管它没有在皇宫里富丽堂皇，尽管它在沙滩上与沙子无两样，它也是金子。我就是我，没有比较，没有更好，我只知道，每个人，都有最好的一面。(文/杜妙瑜)