Looking " red Lou Meng " before, left a shallow impression to this book only, know it is one of 4 big famous book only, what know what it tells about only is Bao Dai's love. Big one hind, a bit more witting, but also do not pass fur idea, understanding what it tells is Gu Shi king Xue Si begins declining work familially greatly, think without how, without very impressions. Until tall one, should see this postscript, feeling is to be able to 't help appearing unexpectedly come.
在没看《红楼梦》之前，只对这本书留了个浅浅的印象，只知道它是四大名著之一，只知道它所讲述的是宝黛的爱情。大一点之后，又知晓了一点，但也不过皮毛表象，明白它讲的是贾史王薛四大家族的兴衰之事，无多思考，无甚感想。直到高一，当看了这本书后，思绪竟是不由得冒出来。
The author conveyed him to be far from the mood of not seek fame and wealth of soot world from begin. Zhen Shiyin and Gu Yu village these two names, announced the flourishing riches and honour in the world is great dream after all, outside the body besides, will can go. Alarm unreal female immortal swims in Baoyu great void dreamland when, also gave him a caution: If the person is living on earth is not sober, cannot make correct judgement, although your drink to the dregs Rong Hua and riches and honour, had gone through spirit of all the different kind, also be cloud drift nevertheless, be like drunk in red building lie made dream of all in vain, there just is facial cry bitterly after awaking that is visional and good to happy.
作者从开头就表达了自己远离烟尘人间的淡泊心境。甄士隐和贾雨村这两个名字，都揭示了人世中的繁华富贵终究是大梦，身外之外，可来可去。警幻仙姑在宝玉游太虚幻境的时候，也给了他一个警示：如果人活在世上不清醒，无法做出正确的判断，即使你享尽了荣华与富贵，历尽了万般情态，也不过是浮云一片，似在红楼里醉卧做了一场空梦，醒来后只是捂着脸痛哭那虚幻美好的至乐。
" red Lou Meng " borrow silver to begin to relate familial contradiction into Gu Fu from Liu grandmother. I am impressive to the Xue Baochai in the article, see there is one to handle detail in article: When the hairpin giving treasure of Home Zhou Rui sends a flower, bao Chai piles all over the face laugh. See Bao Chai know a thing or two, know very well regulation, she knows feeling wants convergence to rise; Watch Lin Daiyu instead, be in Home Zhou Rui when sending a flower, she sneers on the spot, reflected her sensitive and suspicious nature. Because of case of this individual character, bao Chai and black jade just can have apparently different welcome rate. Actually this also accords with now socially truth: Often you are when praise others, other people will be happy, but some words just speak out to listen to the person, it is content still remains to be able to be taken an examination of really actually; And if a few difficult compositions listen, be to accord with truly true, be reality reflect, speak out not to make a person glad however, instead increased animosity. People is willing to hear the word that they are willing to listen only, unless themselves make a change.
《红楼梦》从刘姥姥进贾府借银子开始讲述家族矛盾。我对文章里的薛宝钗印象深刻，看到文中有一处细节：周瑞家的给宝钗送花时，宝钗满脸堆笑。可见宝钗明白事理，深知规则，她知道喜怒哀乐都要收敛起来；反观林黛玉，在周瑞家的送花时，她当场冷笑，体现了她敏感多疑的性格。因为这个性格，宝钗和黛玉才会有明显不同的受欢迎程度。其实这也符合现在社会上的道理：往往你在夸赞别人时，别人会高兴，但有些话只是说出来给人听听的，其实真是含量还有待可考；而一些难作文听的话确是符合真实，是现实的体现，说出来却不让人高兴，反倒增加了仇恨。人们只愿意听他们愿意听的话，除非他们自己做出改变。
Bao Chai this little girl also is not pure. The author is done not have bright show, give a reader hint in shadow however. For example Bao Chai was to read the word above Bao Yuyu twice first, let warbler again go tea, for the sake of letting warbler derivative her lock, will prove she and Bao Yu are the suitest with this, it is treasures happy match, this is Bao Chai's unbeknown scheming, this is masked to be below the lady image of her tender honest and sincere. There is no lack of of course socially such person, or male or female, or old or little, be not is to say people is not quite kind-hearted, just do not understand in one's childhood, big just know later: This society, without scheming and heart cannot base oneself upon, and cannot be approbated without competence and ability and insight by esteem is a truth. Why does the society have warmth? Because be put in warm person. Why to put in warm person? Because of this world this brutal, little ground kindness is friendly can let a person treat sth lightly, can let a person fall into enemy hands.
宝钗这个小丫头也不是单纯的。作者没有明示，却在暗处给读者提示。例如宝钗先是读了两遍宝玉玉上面的字，再让莺儿去倒茶，为的是让莺儿引出她的锁，以此来证明她与宝玉是最般配的，是金玉良缘，这是宝钗不为人知的心机，这都被掩盖在她的温柔敦厚的淑女形象下。社会上当然不乏这样的人，或男或女，或老或少，并非是说人们不够善良，只是小时候不明白，大了以后才知道：这社会，没有心机和心眼无法立足，和没有本领与才识就无法受到尊重认可是一个道理。社会为什么有温暖？因为存在温暖的人。为什么存在温暖的人？因为这世界本就残酷，一点点地善意友好就能让人掉以轻心，就能让人沦陷。
Xue Jiahai has one children, be called Xue Pan, it is Xue Baochai's elder brother. What differ with Xue Baochai is, ink was not nodded in his abdomen, also do not have smooth and slick in that way like Xue Baochai idea, he is in the family times suffer censure, socially night fair everywhere be rebuffed, be dallied with. He knows to be bought with money only, do not know popular feeling cannot use true gold silver and gem headgear to be bought, unless be installed in that popular feeling,wear those who filling is greedy only and do obeisance to gold. But stand up and run after the setback,admit the ability when rise and achieving score is met some, the sneaker that does with the head of an empty sky and gold does not change.
薛家还有一小儿，名叫薛蟠，是薛宝钗的哥哥。与薛宝钗不同的是，他肚子里没点墨水，也没有像薛宝钗那样八面玲珑的心思，他在家庭中倍受指责，在社会上夜市四处碰壁，被人玩弄。他只知用金钱购买，不知道人心不能用真金白银和珠宝首饰买来，除非那颗人心里装着的盛着的只是贪婪和拜金。认可是在挫折后站起来并奔跑起来并达到终点线时才会有的，而不是凭着一颗空空的脑袋和金子做的运动鞋换来的。(文/王晶)