“ wintersweet is sweet come from bitter cold ” , the adversity that the ancients place thinks and grow inseparable idea still is approbated extensively in current society, the concept that ability grows in adversity became a lot of parents to comfort the child's word in the actual society in this cruelty.
“梅花香自苦寒来”,古人所认为的逆境与成长密不可分的观念在当今社会仍被广泛认可,逆境之中才能成长的理念在这个残酷的现实社会之中变成了很多家长安慰孩子的话。
Is adversity indispensible really? Yes, adversity is the essential one part of one individual grow into useful timber.
逆境真的是必需的吗?是的,逆境是一个人成才的必要的一部分。
What is adversity? Adversity is at every turn not satisfactory, adversity is forever short of wants, the directional difficulty that adversity is an advancement is heavy, adversity is to dream to do not have implementation, adversity is parents is lashing ceaselessly we. What are these? It is pressure. Adversity brings people pressure, perhaps say, the person's pressure is considered as adversity generally. And one the individual's success, need has a force to push him all the time forward, have a power ceaseless aggrandizement his volition, a force tells him to ought not to abandon, this force is pressure, the thematic —— adversity that discusses today namely.
逆境是什么?逆境是事事不顺心,逆境是永远达不到想要的,逆境是所前进的方向困难重重,逆境是梦想没有实现,逆境是父母在不断地鞭策我们。这些是什么?是压力。逆境带给人们压力,或者说,人的压力被普遍认为是逆境。而一个人的成功,需要有一个力量一直推他向前,有一个力量不断强化他的意志,有一个力量告诉他不该放弃,这力量就是压力,也就是今天讨论的主题——逆境。
Adversity is the piston that drives people hard to grow. People of equestrian cloud whole world knows, a successful businessman, a very great person. Maths of the university entrance exam of his first time 8 minutes, everybody is censuring him all round, disgustful he. He is carrying pressure on the head, in adversity refluent and go up, answer read a year, one's deceased father went up Hangzhou division is old, entire school is after graduation in one exclusive is invited to stay by the school school inaugural student. Taught a few years of books, he abandoned again, he has sold a flower in Hangzhou street, had sold a sock, had become free conduct a sightseeing tour. Everybody feels he is crazy, what abandon because of him what with him true realization arrives is not quits, but they lose sight of the result inside Ma Yun to arrive, what is what Ma Yun gets in the heart? It is the opportunity that can pursue a dream, he is experienced get there is much pain at that time, but in his heart hopeful, what he sees in adversity is dawn, it is matutinal. He regards pressure, setback the darkest hour before dawn, he does not have dread adversity, because he is certain, adversity has many to go against, suitable composition condition has many to arrange, he is full of a hope in adversity, continue hopefully to wear, he just can grow, ability grow into useful timber, ability is successful.
逆境是推动人们努力成长的活塞。马云全世界人民都知道,一个成功的商人,一个很伟大的人。他第一次高考数学8分,周围所有人都在指责他,唾弃他。他顶着压力,逆境之中逆流而上,复读一年,考上了杭师大,毕业之后是全校一届之中唯一的一位被学校邀请留校就职的学生。教了几年书,他又放弃了,他在杭州街头卖过花,卖过袜子,当过免费导游。所有人都觉得他疯了,因为他所放弃的和他真实得到的不对等,但是他们看不见马云内心得到的,马云在内心得到的是什么?是可以追寻梦想的机会,他感受得到当时有多苦,但是他的心中有希望,逆境之中他看到的是曙光,是黎明。他把压力、挫折看作黎明前的最黑暗的时刻,他无惧逆境,因为他坚信,逆境有多逆,顺作文境就有多顺,他在逆境之中充满希望,乐观地继续走着,他才能成长,才能成才,才能成功。
Adversity can let person become a useful person, let a person grow, but grow not to need adversity certainly.
逆境能让人成才,让人成长,但是成长不一定需要逆境。
Of major Everyman grow to need pressure, but the pressure here has not arrived greatly can be called adversity. The person that like Ma Yun the university entrance exam loses out has a lot of, ma Yun has only however, if your volition, spirit is OK general like Ma Yun adamancy, hopeful, the brief adversity that you can cross. But if you are inferior to Ma Yun kind great, then you also take a high school diploma all one's life incompetent. You if intelligence is not quite mature, not quite stable, the adversity that brings this can make the excuse of your escapism! The hope is done not have in adversity, can shrink back blindly only, escapism, the trend is degenerate. Next you are met ground of go round and round encounters difficulty, escape again next, come so, you entered a logistic closed circuit, cannot go forever. Such person is the most painful. The most painful is not body part adversity, do not have a hope however, doing not have hopeful person do not suit to grow in adversity, oneself heart sex, volition is fostered slowly in the suitable place that he needs to compare safety in a photograph, again gradually pressurization, put again finally grow in adversity.
大部分普通人的成长都需要压力,但是这里的压力还没有大到可以被称作逆境。像马云一样高考落榜的人有很多,马云却只有一个,若你的意志、精神可以像马云一般坚强、乐观,你便能越过落榜的这一次的短暂的逆境。但若你不如马云般伟大,那你也就拿个高中文凭一辈子碌碌无为。你要是心智不够成熟,不够稳定,这一次所带来的逆境就会成为你逃避现实的借口!在逆境之中没有希望,只会一味退缩,逃避现实,走向堕落。然后你就会周而复始地遇到困难,然后再逃避,这样一来,你就进入了一个逻辑闭环,永远无法走出来。这样的人是最痛苦的。最痛苦的不是身处逆境,而是没有希望,没有希望的人是不适合在逆境之中生长的,他需要在一个相比较安全的顺境之中慢慢地培养自己的心性、意志,再逐渐加压,最后再放到逆境之中成长。
And Ma Yun is minority after all, of major person grow the do sth over and over again via having adverse circumstance, they had not needed great pressure to make them advance, they do not bear to cross great pressure. Some people are met inherently grow into useful timber, he had accumulated the method that faces adverse circumstance in growing process, and how do some people face up to a setback without the society in growing process, face adverse circumstance, if you still put your forcibly,grow in adversity, that as good as at destroying him.
而马云毕竟是少数,大部分的人的成长都经不起逆境的折腾,他们不需要过大的压力促使他们前进,他们承受不住过大的压力。有的人天生会成才,他在成长过程之中已经积累了面对逆境的方法,而有的人在成长过程之中没有学会如何正视挫折,面对逆境,若你还将其强行放入逆境之中成长,那无异于毁了他。
Adversity can let person become a useful person, but it is a grow into useful timber only, adversity does not suit to let a person grow, better in the person ability under proper pressure grow.
逆境能让人成才,但只是成才,逆境不适合让人成长,在适当的压力之下的人才能更好成长。(文/王圣予)